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Do we restrict access or alter parenting? fionwe1987 Send a noteboard - 06/06/2011 04:31:13 AM
I agree with the article, and the comments, as far as the effect of the utter hopelessness in these books can have on kids. I think this is a legitimate concern, and people who think that the free speech argument is a sufficient rebuttal of this are deluding themselves. Free speech doesn't imply a lack of concern for the effects of what is said.

But I also think banning or restricting these books is a bad move. Not because it violates free speech but because it doesn't really solve the problem. The depiction of issues like drug abuse, self-injury, rape, etc. is common in books, movies, music and the internet, and I don't think there's any fool proof way to completely restrict access to such media.

Which leaves parents and teachers with two options. They can go for half-measures that will just drive such media underground. The result will be the same. Kids will come across these things, and many a times will be ill equipped to tackle these issues, drawing entirely the wrong conclusions.

Or, instead of insisting that children shouldn't have to learn about such things, society can wake up and realize that the era of a sheltered adolescence in gone, and come up with strategies to deal with it. I think the healthiest approach would be to encourage open discussion of such issues in schools, which lets children know that not only are such issues around in the world, but that they are not things to be suppressed. In the right setting, I think teenagers can get the right message from these books, even if they are completely depressing and hopeless.

I know this is asking for an ideal solution, but if we don't aim for something like this, and continue to try and impose an obsolete worldview on a modern society, we'll only have ourselves, and not these books, to blame for the negative consequences we can all too easily imagine.
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This WSJ article has kicked up a huge fuss on the internet - YA is "too dark". - 05/06/2011 03:46:50 PM 2073 Views
There's only one thing about this literature that disturbs me - 05/06/2011 05:39:35 PM 1049 Views
This is a thought out, finely articulated response. - 05/06/2011 06:47:13 PM 1063 Views
If it were just vampires that would be just fine - 05/06/2011 08:03:02 PM 844 Views
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Why waste time with "YA literature" at all? - 06/06/2011 02:14:03 PM 783 Views
Re: Why waste time with "YA literature" at all? - 06/06/2011 02:28:42 PM 740 Views
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Maybe. It's hard to separate, I think. - 07/06/2011 01:06:29 PM 968 Views
Very good post. - 06/06/2011 08:52:22 PM 806 Views
You seem to be the only one who thinks so. *NM* - 07/06/2011 01:17:18 AM 288 Views
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Suicide rates have gone up significantly - 07/06/2011 02:42:55 PM 734 Views
Heh. - 08/06/2011 07:24:44 PM 1039 Views
you are having trouble finding cultural ideas that turned bad? - 08/06/2011 11:56:23 PM 959 Views
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I'm not sure that makes a difference here. - 06/06/2011 04:47:05 AM 1022 Views
Because thinking makes you LESS susceptible to these things you're afraid of - 06/06/2011 05:27:26 PM 1056 Views
I don't completely agree with that. - 06/06/2011 07:26:21 PM 1004 Views
I feel like I just can't relate to parents determined to shelter their kids from everything - 06/06/2011 10:21:44 PM 994 Views
I don't think that is what this is. - 06/06/2011 10:41:06 PM 896 Views
I suppose I'm giving a lot of credit to the status of "reader" - 07/06/2011 03:08:48 AM 886 Views
Your response is about where I sit. - 06/06/2011 12:30:04 PM 900 Views
Nope, this is stupid - 05/06/2011 06:38:51 PM 889 Views
Parents have the right and resonsibility to know what their children are reading - 06/06/2011 03:41:22 AM 810 Views
Re: Parents have the right and resonsibility to know what their children are reading - 06/06/2011 12:40:24 PM 944 Views
I'd argue if you're old enough to be interested in the subject matter, you're old enough to read it - 06/06/2011 05:32:33 PM 1072 Views
well so far you have failed to make the argument - 07/06/2011 04:22:00 AM 997 Views
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Basically? Yes. - 07/06/2011 06:42:04 PM 1066 Views
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Don't be an idiot. - 09/06/2011 05:25:26 AM 927 Views
I am being an idiot? - 09/06/2011 04:10:28 PM 912 Views
I wasn't calling you an idiot for disagreeing with me. - 09/06/2011 04:44:37 PM 965 Views
Do we restrict access or alter parenting? - 06/06/2011 04:31:13 AM 1123 Views
Well, I wrote a long piece related to this - 06/06/2011 05:21:06 AM 1011 Views
She kind of conflates some issues that are quite different, if you ask me. - 06/06/2011 08:47:33 PM 941 Views
A+++ would read this reply again *NM* - 06/06/2011 10:23:11 PM 302 Views
+1 *NM* - 07/06/2011 01:12:16 AM 290 Views
Wait wait wait wait wait... NYT reviewed Game of Thrones? I must read this - 07/06/2011 03:20:08 AM 819 Views
I think he's talking about the review of the tv show they did. - 07/06/2011 03:30:19 AM 757 Views
Indeed. Everything she said. *NM* - 07/06/2011 06:13:20 PM 268 Views
it does take a lot of work to keep track of your kids - 07/06/2011 05:02:55 AM 959 Views
*I agree with this* *NM* - 07/06/2011 01:18:58 PM 353 Views

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