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Ever happen to you? A friend lends you a book... Haggard Send a noteboard - 31/08/2009 05:36:00 AM
Has this ever happened to any of you?

A relative or friend, who is a SF/F neophyte, praises some horrible fantasy book and asks if you've read it. When you reply no (b/c you know it's bad), this friend promptly insists that you borrow their copy to read. Then, whenever you see this friend he/she asks you if you've read it and what you think.

In my latest case, it was an older relative and the books were the Eragon series. She lent me the first two. Arghhhh!

I've tried to read them, but they are just so bad I can't get through them.

What should I do? Do you just tell the person the truth? Do you suffer through the book? Sometimes they are so enthusiastic, I can't bring myself to rain on their parade. But I can't keep making up excuses for why I haven't finished yet. Help!
*MySmiley*
I'm drinkin' some George Jones,
and a little bit of Coe
Haggard's easin' my misery
and Waylon's keepin' me from home
Hank's givin' me those high times-
Cash is gonna sing it low
I'm here gettin' wasted-
just like my country heroes
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Ever happen to you? A friend lends you a book... - 31/08/2009 05:36:00 AM 1181 Views
tell the truth - 31/08/2009 05:43:56 AM 864 Views
I have friends who swear by Goodkind, actually. ~shudder~ *NM* - 31/08/2009 06:08:05 AM 1142 Views
Poor misguided souls *NM* - 31/08/2009 06:46:43 AM 418 Views
I wish I could tell them that. - 31/08/2009 07:09:15 AM 881 Views
The first couple were ok - 31/08/2009 02:03:08 PM 888 Views
I try telling them that all the time - 02/09/2009 08:50:54 PM 683 Views
All the time. And I'm bad with this. - 31/08/2009 07:55:54 AM 957 Views
Re: All the time. And I'm bad with this. - 31/08/2009 09:30:35 PM 838 Views
Re: All the time. And I'm bad with this. - 03/09/2009 09:59:53 AM 1132 Views
Well, there are a couple of options. First, you could kill the friend. - 31/08/2009 08:22:10 AM 907 Views
You hit the nail on the head. - 31/08/2009 09:34:54 PM 845 Views
*dies laughing* *NM* - 03/09/2009 10:02:17 AM 334 Views
Go to Wikipdia... - 31/08/2009 10:13:21 AM 768 Views
Fortunately, this has never happened to me... - 31/08/2009 01:54:31 PM 935 Views
Honesty is the best policy - 31/08/2009 02:05:03 PM 879 Views
"What kind of moron are you?" - 31/08/2009 09:11:46 PM 822 Views
Make a trade. - 31/08/2009 03:28:36 PM 824 Views
I did that with my niece. - 31/08/2009 09:52:49 PM 832 Views
Me too... - 01/09/2009 06:43:31 PM 825 Views
Sandman...I think we have that in the garage...Gaiman? *NM* - 01/09/2009 06:47:42 PM 370 Views
Gaiman's masterwork... the comic. *NM* - 01/09/2009 06:58:20 PM 381 Views
Yep. - 31/08/2009 08:29:49 PM 884 Views
That sounds awful! - 31/08/2009 09:21:51 PM 838 Views
Thank you - 31/08/2009 09:24:00 PM 997 Views
I generally avoid RL suggestions - 31/08/2009 09:01:50 PM 804 Views
I tell them the truth, it just isn't my cup of tea... - 01/09/2009 01:26:33 AM 834 Views
You can manage without reading - 01/09/2009 02:30:02 AM 791 Views
Jus t say you didn't like them - 01/09/2009 06:30:25 PM 808 Views
bah, if I don't want to read it, I won't... - 01/09/2009 07:05:21 PM 1069 Views
I avoid like the dickens! - 03/09/2009 10:08:40 AM 850 Views

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