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How well do you actually know her? Jragghen Send a noteboard - 03/05/2010 11:07:21 PM
Ie, do you talk frequently at all?

Asking her out for something more serious if you don't would probably seem a tad odd. Now, if at some point you're both working together and you suggest grabbing coffee or lunch together, that'd probably be the easiest ice breaker - ie, do something you'd both be doing anyway, but together, and get to know one another. Let things flow naturally from there.

If you do talk frequently and know one another then yeah, I'd say just go ahead and ask if she wants to go do something. Movies kinda suck for first dates, though. Maybe a comedy club? Plenty of time to chit chat before the comedian comes on stage, and then you're off the hook, and it's unique enough an outing that you don't seem cliched?
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So the hot girl at work is single. What to do...? soilent brad - 03/05/2010 11:02:31 PM 1069 Views
How well do you actually know her? Jragghen - 03/05/2010 11:07:21 PM 707 Views
Hmm... you've a point there. soilent brad - 03/05/2010 11:45:36 PM 740 Views
The reason cinema dates are bad is because you can't talk. Tim - 04/05/2010 12:24:33 PM 658 Views
But that's a good thing ironclad - 04/05/2010 12:34:02 PM 669 Views
Hmm... soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:09:56 PM 729 Views
Yes, that does sound a bit like me... soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:07:06 PM 680 Views
Learn to talk. beckstcw - 04/05/2010 01:35:46 AM 702 Views
I'm much more talkative than when I first found wotmania 8 years ago soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:40:46 AM 645 Views
Yes. beckstcw - 04/05/2010 04:47:45 AM 702 Views
Ah. That makes more sense soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:39:02 AM 619 Views
Um. That already sounds like an awkward date. Tashmere - 04/05/2010 01:52:45 AM 689 Views
Possibly, yes soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:10:27 AM 758 Views
As long as you eventually open up. Tashmere - 04/05/2010 02:26:40 AM 639 Views
Exactly soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:43:48 AM 664 Views
Not really ... I love this girl I work with and she's the exact opposite of me ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 04/05/2010 06:30:44 AM 758 Views
I wasn't referring to differences in culture Tashmere - 04/05/2010 07:46:21 AM 630 Views
That's true ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 04/05/2010 06:43:20 PM 719 Views
Movie and then to a cafe/pub/something not-dinnery afterwards Maria - 04/05/2010 10:59:05 AM 648 Views
Exactly, I find movie dates work great ironclad - 04/05/2010 11:47:51 AM 1027 Views
Talking is the bane of my existance! soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:12:39 PM 700 Views
I'm not much for small talk either. Jacob - 04/05/2010 06:20:51 PM 615 Views
soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:37:09 PM 760 Views
mispost *NM* lyringlas - 04/05/2010 10:22:33 PM 255 Views
If it doesn't work you can spread rumours about her *NM* AgentOrange - 04/05/2010 06:21:33 PM 256 Views
Not to sound too harsh... lyringlas - 04/05/2010 10:24:36 PM 667 Views
I'm an extreme introvert, and can be socially inept even around some of my closest friends/family soilent brad - 05/05/2010 12:30:46 AM 822 Views
two words: drum solo *NM* fistofpainx - 05/05/2010 01:29:01 AM 298 Views
her BlackAdder - 05/05/2010 04:03:24 AM 686 Views
LOL! Always you, Brad. rebelaessedai - 07/05/2010 07:27:57 PM 599 Views
Always soilent brad - 08/05/2010 06:25:40 AM 774 Views
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