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Yeah, that does seem a bit more fair to me SilverWarder Send a noteboard - 08/07/2010 10:11:18 PM
Here, if you owned the house on your own before you married, and didn't acquire it with a view to living in it together as a family, she wouldn't have the right to a penny of its value. Although you wouldn't be able to kick her out as long as you were married. And if you had sold it and bought a new one while married, that would be fair game.


At least, unlike many parts of the US, she can only claim half of any equity increase while we were residing together. I'm told in some places the rule amounts to - You get married and half of whatever you had even before you heard of the person is now hers unless you have a pre-nup.

Arggh.

Still, I won't begrudge it too much. Whatever happens she'll have some base with which to ensure Melissa is looked after so it's not all bad.
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