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Age Phelix Send a noteboard - 09/08/2010 09:18:48 PM
So, the other day, at a semi-formal event representing my boss, an older gentleman approached me and started making small talk. After a bit, he commented on how young I seemed, I couldn't be older than 31. I chuckled and told him that my 24th Birthday is next week, and that killed the conversation. He was embarrassed that his guess was 7 years off, and I was a bit offended that anyone would think I'm in my thirties just yet.

1. Would you be offended if someone guessed you were 7 years older than you are?

2. Do you think people assume "professionals" have to be older than 24?

3. What would you do if someone guessed that far off on your age?

4. Is it better to be perceived as your actual age, or to be perceived as older/more mature? Is it better to be perceived as younger?

5. I should just get over it, and realize that one guy is bad at guessing ages... right?
I was Phelix on wotmania, I will always be Phelix in the "real" world, and now I am Phelix on RAFO.

You will make all kinds of mistakes; but as long as you are generous and true and also fierce you cannot hurt the world or even seriously distress her.- Churchill

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Age - 09/08/2010 09:18:48 PM 876 Views
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In the US you're supposed to graduate college at 22. - 10/08/2010 06:19:43 AM 709 Views
I've always claimed every year I could when teaching - 09/08/2010 09:51:45 PM 753 Views
I try to hold off on aging... it's odd to be still in my BA while 24 years old. - 10/08/2010 12:05:32 AM 798 Views
Especially since I had already earned my MA by 23 - 10/08/2010 01:29:06 AM 716 Views
Pretty sure that's the norm. *NM* - 10/08/2010 03:21:34 AM 302 Views
Not really, not in my field anyways - 10/08/2010 04:06:22 AM 661 Views
That hasn't been my experience. There are many 1 year MA programs now. - 10/08/2010 08:09:13 AM 599 Views
May be - 10/08/2010 06:58:46 PM 733 Views
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Judging by your profile pic, 31 is very generous. - 09/08/2010 10:18:50 PM 694 Views
I thought I was leaving it mysterious... - 10/08/2010 12:10:39 AM 703 Views
Re: Age *NM* - 09/08/2010 11:02:59 PM 349 Views
Enlightening. *NM* - 10/08/2010 12:10:55 AM 250 Views
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Surely, I would. *NM* - 11/08/2010 12:47:21 AM 332 Views
I was only telling the truth! *NM* - 11/08/2010 11:48:47 PM 321 Views
The truth shall set you free... into the cold arms of death. *NM* - 12/08/2010 12:00:58 AM 306 Views
Tigers are whimsical - 11/08/2010 12:28:51 PM 691 Views
Phelix is a tiger? - 11/08/2010 11:48:17 PM 698 Views
What do you want for your birthday? - 10/08/2010 04:35:47 AM 636 Views
Any one or combination of these things: - 10/08/2010 06:26:20 AM 683 Views
I just need sizes now, email me them - 10/08/2010 06:17:23 PM 935 Views
I would assume he's joking. - 10/08/2010 06:16:13 AM 703 Views
He seemed sincere... but maybe his jokes were that bad. - 10/08/2010 06:36:16 AM 735 Views
The weight thing goes both ways. - 11/08/2010 01:22:30 AM 704 Views
Re: Age - 10/08/2010 10:02:02 AM 671 Views
that is nothing to get offended about - 10/08/2010 12:21:36 PM 754 Views
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Age-ists! - 11/08/2010 03:12:17 AM 676 Views
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