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Age Phelix Send a noteboard - 09/08/2010 09:18:48 PM
So, the other day, at a semi-formal event representing my boss, an older gentleman approached me and started making small talk. After a bit, he commented on how young I seemed, I couldn't be older than 31. I chuckled and told him that my 24th Birthday is next week, and that killed the conversation. He was embarrassed that his guess was 7 years off, and I was a bit offended that anyone would think I'm in my thirties just yet.

1. Would you be offended if someone guessed you were 7 years older than you are?

2. Do you think people assume "professionals" have to be older than 24?

3. What would you do if someone guessed that far off on your age?

4. Is it better to be perceived as your actual age, or to be perceived as older/more mature? Is it better to be perceived as younger?

5. I should just get over it, and realize that one guy is bad at guessing ages... right?
I was Phelix on wotmania, I will always be Phelix in the "real" world, and now I am Phelix on RAFO.

You will make all kinds of mistakes; but as long as you are generous and true and also fierce you cannot hurt the world or even seriously distress her.- Churchill

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Age - 09/08/2010 09:18:48 PM 955 Views
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In the US you're supposed to graduate college at 22. - 10/08/2010 06:19:43 AM 789 Views
I've always claimed every year I could when teaching - 09/08/2010 09:51:45 PM 848 Views
I try to hold off on aging... it's odd to be still in my BA while 24 years old. - 10/08/2010 12:05:32 AM 908 Views
Especially since I had already earned my MA by 23 - 10/08/2010 01:29:06 AM 813 Views
Pretty sure that's the norm. *NM* - 10/08/2010 03:21:34 AM 336 Views
Not really, not in my field anyways - 10/08/2010 04:06:22 AM 750 Views
That hasn't been my experience. There are many 1 year MA programs now. - 10/08/2010 08:09:13 AM 682 Views
May be - 10/08/2010 06:58:46 PM 825 Views
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Judging by your profile pic, 31 is very generous. - 09/08/2010 10:18:50 PM 774 Views
I thought I was leaving it mysterious... - 10/08/2010 12:10:39 AM 790 Views
Re: Age *NM* - 09/08/2010 11:02:59 PM 385 Views
Enlightening. *NM* - 10/08/2010 12:10:55 AM 287 Views
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Surely, I would. *NM* - 11/08/2010 12:47:21 AM 390 Views
I was only telling the truth! *NM* - 11/08/2010 11:48:47 PM 354 Views
The truth shall set you free... into the cold arms of death. *NM* - 12/08/2010 12:00:58 AM 345 Views
Tigers are whimsical - 11/08/2010 12:28:51 PM 768 Views
Phelix is a tiger? - 11/08/2010 11:48:17 PM 786 Views
What do you want for your birthday? - 10/08/2010 04:35:47 AM 727 Views
Any one or combination of these things: - 10/08/2010 06:26:20 AM 766 Views
I just need sizes now, email me them - 10/08/2010 06:17:23 PM 1056 Views
I would assume he's joking. - 10/08/2010 06:16:13 AM 792 Views
He seemed sincere... but maybe his jokes were that bad. - 10/08/2010 06:36:16 AM 835 Views
The weight thing goes both ways. - 11/08/2010 01:22:30 AM 795 Views
Re: Age - 10/08/2010 10:02:02 AM 781 Views
that is nothing to get offended about - 10/08/2010 12:21:36 PM 866 Views
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Age-ists! - 11/08/2010 03:12:17 AM 773 Views
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