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Age Phelix Send a noteboard - 09/08/2010 09:18:48 PM
So, the other day, at a semi-formal event representing my boss, an older gentleman approached me and started making small talk. After a bit, he commented on how young I seemed, I couldn't be older than 31. I chuckled and told him that my 24th Birthday is next week, and that killed the conversation. He was embarrassed that his guess was 7 years off, and I was a bit offended that anyone would think I'm in my thirties just yet.

1. Would you be offended if someone guessed you were 7 years older than you are?

2. Do you think people assume "professionals" have to be older than 24?

3. What would you do if someone guessed that far off on your age?

4. Is it better to be perceived as your actual age, or to be perceived as older/more mature? Is it better to be perceived as younger?

5. I should just get over it, and realize that one guy is bad at guessing ages... right?
I was Phelix on wotmania, I will always be Phelix in the "real" world, and now I am Phelix on RAFO.

You will make all kinds of mistakes; but as long as you are generous and true and also fierce you cannot hurt the world or even seriously distress her.- Churchill

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Age - 09/08/2010 09:18:48 PM 920 Views
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In the US you're supposed to graduate college at 22. - 10/08/2010 06:19:43 AM 754 Views
I've always claimed every year I could when teaching - 09/08/2010 09:51:45 PM 809 Views
I try to hold off on aging... it's odd to be still in my BA while 24 years old. - 10/08/2010 12:05:32 AM 855 Views
Especially since I had already earned my MA by 23 - 10/08/2010 01:29:06 AM 783 Views
Pretty sure that's the norm. *NM* - 10/08/2010 03:21:34 AM 322 Views
Not really, not in my field anyways - 10/08/2010 04:06:22 AM 713 Views
That hasn't been my experience. There are many 1 year MA programs now. - 10/08/2010 08:09:13 AM 642 Views
May be - 10/08/2010 06:58:46 PM 787 Views
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Judging by your profile pic, 31 is very generous. - 09/08/2010 10:18:50 PM 742 Views
I thought I was leaving it mysterious... - 10/08/2010 12:10:39 AM 753 Views
Re: Age *NM* - 09/08/2010 11:02:59 PM 370 Views
Enlightening. *NM* - 10/08/2010 12:10:55 AM 270 Views
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Surely, I would. *NM* - 11/08/2010 12:47:21 AM 371 Views
I was only telling the truth! *NM* - 11/08/2010 11:48:47 PM 341 Views
The truth shall set you free... into the cold arms of death. *NM* - 12/08/2010 12:00:58 AM 327 Views
Tigers are whimsical - 11/08/2010 12:28:51 PM 733 Views
Phelix is a tiger? - 11/08/2010 11:48:17 PM 744 Views
What do you want for your birthday? - 10/08/2010 04:35:47 AM 690 Views
Any one or combination of these things: - 10/08/2010 06:26:20 AM 732 Views
I just need sizes now, email me them - 10/08/2010 06:17:23 PM 1016 Views
I would assume he's joking. - 10/08/2010 06:16:13 AM 751 Views
He seemed sincere... but maybe his jokes were that bad. - 10/08/2010 06:36:16 AM 790 Views
The weight thing goes both ways. - 11/08/2010 01:22:30 AM 756 Views
Re: Age - 10/08/2010 10:02:02 AM 734 Views
that is nothing to get offended about - 10/08/2010 12:21:36 PM 835 Views
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Age-ists! - 11/08/2010 03:12:17 AM 723 Views
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