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How American of you lyringlas Send a noteboard - 23/08/2010 05:18:48 PM
Sharing tables with strangers is completely taboo in most areas over here. The only time it is acceptable (in my experiences) is when it is a very large booth, and you can share the table with someone else while not having to look at them.


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Person A Person B
[========table===========] This is acceptable


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Person A
[========table===========] This is unacceptable

Person B
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Thankfully I never have this problem, because hostility comes off of me in a figurative aura, and people generally avoid looking at me. :P I generally think I look friendly, and people avoid eye contact or ask me what is wrong. It's perplexing, but saves me a lot of small talk (I hate small talk).
This message last edited by lyringlas on 23/08/2010 at 05:31:43 PM
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Regrets - 23/08/2010 04:25:33 PM 697 Views
well thats just terrilbe - 23/08/2010 04:51:20 PM 497 Views
Re: well thats just terrilbe - 23/08/2010 04:55:44 PM 474 Views
I think I might be Norwegian. - 23/08/2010 05:06:29 PM 544 Views
Re: I think I might be Norwegian. - 23/08/2010 05:08:36 PM 525 Views
I'm disappointed - 23/08/2010 05:18:44 PM 549 Views
Re: I'm disappointed - 23/08/2010 05:20:21 PM 531 Views
How American of you - 23/08/2010 05:18:48 PM 624 Views
Re: How American of you - 23/08/2010 05:27:56 PM 524 Views
I am American - and I share my table often. - 23/08/2010 09:48:08 PM 492 Views
How rude. - 23/08/2010 07:57:45 PM 522 Views
Indeed - 23/08/2010 07:59:11 PM 531 Views
Re: Regrets - 23/08/2010 10:15:16 PM 750 Views
Re: Regrets - 23/08/2010 11:30:35 PM 510 Views
I think the problem is that you go into small cafés. - 23/08/2010 10:28:04 PM 496 Views
But I don't. - 23/08/2010 11:33:16 PM 489 Views
Kilimanjaro is pretty small really. - 23/08/2010 11:45:35 PM 467 Views
Re: Kilimanjaro is pretty small really. - 23/08/2010 11:50:16 PM 489 Views
Re: Kilimanjaro is pretty small really. - 24/08/2010 12:13:16 AM 555 Views
You should keep - 24/08/2010 12:06:41 AM 518 Views
Re: You should keep - 24/08/2010 10:12:23 AM 470 Views
Urgh, table-sharing lunatics. - 24/08/2010 02:12:42 PM 501 Views
Re: Urgh, table-sharing lunatics. - 24/08/2010 03:58:30 PM 523 Views
it wouldn't bother me to have someone sit at my table - 24/08/2010 04:29:49 PM 482 Views
Re: it wouldn't bother me to have someone sit at my table - 24/08/2010 04:32:04 PM 464 Views
I have been told I am lacking in some needed social inhibitions - 24/08/2010 10:14:52 PM 481 Views
Me either. I suspect it's a southern thing. - 24/08/2010 09:44:08 PM 494 Views
probably true *NM* - 24/08/2010 10:16:05 PM 215 Views

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