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I wouldn't know... Phelix Send a noteboard - 30/08/2010 07:55:30 PM
Despite several dates, I haven't had a real, local, significant relationship since Winter 2005. It's been more than 5 years.

That said, I'm told the only way to make it work is to keep trying. You're part way there... you at least have promising relationships. :)

You'll get there soon. :)

Don't think about settling now, when you're still in the dumps and upset. Right now, take care of yourself, bandage up your emotional wounds, and get Amanda going right. When you're back in ship shape, then go out fishing again. Just don't go bottom trawling... no one wants to date a bottom feeder. :)
I was Phelix on wotmania, I will always be Phelix in the "real" world, and now I am Phelix on RAFO.

You will make all kinds of mistakes; but as long as you are generous and true and also fierce you cannot hurt the world or even seriously distress her.- Churchill

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Arrgh! How do people DO it?? - 29/08/2010 12:21:06 AM 1374 Views
Lots of rough sex helps. *NM* - 29/08/2010 12:22:31 AM 329 Views
Yeah. When are you coming over? *NM* - 03/09/2010 07:38:43 PM 477 Views
It seems like you're not making things easier by taking nationality as a criterium... - 29/08/2010 12:29:59 AM 872 Views
^ this - 29/08/2010 01:08:29 AM 746 Views
Re: ^ this - 29/08/2010 01:11:46 AM 976 Views
i know - 29/08/2010 02:27:13 AM 998 Views
erm...excuse me? - 29/08/2010 11:18:05 AM 889 Views
This again. - 29/08/2010 01:56:22 AM 900 Views
Very true *NM* - 29/08/2010 11:19:02 AM 453 Views
I know that - 02/09/2010 01:51:43 AM 880 Views
Move to Germany/Europe, then? *NM* - 02/09/2010 11:12:37 AM 452 Views
They are NOT letting me in - 02/09/2010 08:37:18 PM 900 Views
Yeah, you'd need to get an employer to sponsor you, I imagine. - 02/09/2010 10:41:51 PM 739 Views
*shrugs* - 29/08/2010 01:28:44 AM 1024 Views
Re: *shrugs* - 29/08/2010 05:56:46 PM 974 Views
Re: *shrugs* - 02/09/2010 01:55:47 AM 973 Views
Stop looking. - 29/08/2010 01:51:08 AM 895 Views
<support of wise wisdom from person it worked for> *NM* - 29/08/2010 02:28:15 AM 477 Views
Yes. This is how it was for me. - 03/09/2010 05:17:50 PM 1187 Views
Why Germans?? - 29/08/2010 02:30:39 AM 815 Views
Why not? - 02/09/2010 01:56:28 AM 910 Views
Have you considered simply eating German Chocolate Cake instead? *NM* - 29/08/2010 02:31:42 AM 483 Views
Nope. It's disgusting. - 02/09/2010 01:57:03 AM 910 Views
Well, it's not human flesh, but it's still very good. - 02/09/2010 03:12:45 AM 767 Views
i'm marrying a german. so it can happen... - 29/08/2010 02:53:00 AM 983 Views
Lucky! - 02/09/2010 02:01:56 AM 885 Views
Oh right. I forgot to jump down your throat for this. - 02/09/2010 09:58:19 AM 849 Views
Hm, as others said, try different criteria. - 29/08/2010 02:56:01 AM 975 Views
The trick is knowing who you want and being what he wants - 29/08/2010 07:58:42 AM 854 Views
yes they are - 29/08/2010 05:14:36 PM 873 Views
Wow, really? - 02/09/2010 08:41:46 PM 920 Views
What's attractive about Germans in particular? - 04/09/2010 07:12:13 AM 1077 Views
Are you in Germany? - 29/08/2010 11:42:07 AM 826 Views
I have a thing for Spanish and French girls - 29/08/2010 06:09:03 PM 905 Views
Re: What's wrong with being an old maid? *NM* - 29/08/2010 08:55:47 PM 483 Views
Hmmm... - 30/08/2010 06:27:01 PM 837 Views
Re: Being old is good! - 30/08/2010 07:18:09 PM 859 Views
Sure... sure. - 30/08/2010 07:21:29 PM 926 Views
Re: Means you've survived, right? *NM* - 31/08/2010 12:50:12 AM 446 Views
Evolution is working for you if you're passing on genes to your offspring. *NM* - 30/08/2010 08:08:57 PM 426 Views
Re: No, evolution works for me if I live longer. - 31/08/2010 12:49:26 AM 996 Views
Nothing, if that's what someone wants to be - 02/09/2010 08:38:39 PM 953 Views
We need to learn who were are and be content in singleness before we make a better mate. - 29/08/2010 09:18:13 PM 862 Views
What he said. *NM* - 31/08/2010 10:48:39 PM 488 Views
I know this - 02/09/2010 02:06:28 AM 814 Views
I'd sleep with you......I think. *NM* - 30/08/2010 01:28:53 PM 492 Views
And they say that Chivalry is dead... *NM* - 31/08/2010 03:08:39 PM 458 Views
Wasn't my resume impressive enough? *NM* - 02/09/2010 02:06:52 AM 437 Views
Possible solution - 30/08/2010 06:11:51 PM 974 Views
Way ahead of you - 02/09/2010 02:10:31 AM 1065 Views
I wouldn't know... - 30/08/2010 07:55:30 PM 3174 Views
Even after all these years... - 02/09/2010 02:11:25 AM 959 Views
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Aaaaaand I probably shouldn't post right after getting "dumped." *NM* - 02/09/2010 02:12:16 AM 525 Views
That's silly. - 02/09/2010 02:30:34 PM 984 Views
Aw, thank you *NM* - 03/09/2010 11:03:55 AM 473 Views

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