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Yes. This is how it was for me. Rebekah Send a noteboard - 03/09/2010 05:17:50 PM
Moved to the UK, completely not looking for a relationship, and that's when I met Tim.

Amanda: There's a fair amount of good advice in this thread. There's no real answer. But definitely do not settle.

Just get yourself as content as you can be sans partner, do things for yourself, and maybe travel a bit. Get out and about meeting people.

I hope you're feeling better today.
*MySmiley*

Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog it's too dark to read. - Groucho Marx
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Arrgh! How do people DO it?? - 29/08/2010 12:21:06 AM 1353 Views
Lots of rough sex helps. *NM* - 29/08/2010 12:22:31 AM 323 Views
Yeah. When are you coming over? *NM* - 03/09/2010 07:38:43 PM 468 Views
It seems like you're not making things easier by taking nationality as a criterium... - 29/08/2010 12:29:59 AM 856 Views
^ this - 29/08/2010 01:08:29 AM 731 Views
Re: ^ this - 29/08/2010 01:11:46 AM 962 Views
i know - 29/08/2010 02:27:13 AM 985 Views
erm...excuse me? - 29/08/2010 11:18:05 AM 875 Views
This again. - 29/08/2010 01:56:22 AM 872 Views
Very true *NM* - 29/08/2010 11:19:02 AM 446 Views
I know that - 02/09/2010 01:51:43 AM 865 Views
Move to Germany/Europe, then? *NM* - 02/09/2010 11:12:37 AM 446 Views
They are NOT letting me in - 02/09/2010 08:37:18 PM 886 Views
Yeah, you'd need to get an employer to sponsor you, I imagine. - 02/09/2010 10:41:51 PM 724 Views
*shrugs* - 29/08/2010 01:28:44 AM 1009 Views
Re: *shrugs* - 29/08/2010 05:56:46 PM 957 Views
Re: *shrugs* - 02/09/2010 01:55:47 AM 956 Views
Stop looking. - 29/08/2010 01:51:08 AM 880 Views
<support of wise wisdom from person it worked for> *NM* - 29/08/2010 02:28:15 AM 470 Views
Yes. This is how it was for me. - 03/09/2010 05:17:50 PM 1174 Views
Why Germans?? - 29/08/2010 02:30:39 AM 801 Views
Why not? - 02/09/2010 01:56:28 AM 895 Views
Have you considered simply eating German Chocolate Cake instead? *NM* - 29/08/2010 02:31:42 AM 476 Views
Nope. It's disgusting. - 02/09/2010 01:57:03 AM 888 Views
Well, it's not human flesh, but it's still very good. - 02/09/2010 03:12:45 AM 753 Views
i'm marrying a german. so it can happen... - 29/08/2010 02:53:00 AM 966 Views
Lucky! - 02/09/2010 02:01:56 AM 867 Views
Oh right. I forgot to jump down your throat for this. - 02/09/2010 09:58:19 AM 837 Views
Hm, as others said, try different criteria. - 29/08/2010 02:56:01 AM 960 Views
The trick is knowing who you want and being what he wants - 29/08/2010 07:58:42 AM 841 Views
yes they are - 29/08/2010 05:14:36 PM 859 Views
Wow, really? - 02/09/2010 08:41:46 PM 906 Views
What's attractive about Germans in particular? - 04/09/2010 07:12:13 AM 1062 Views
Are you in Germany? - 29/08/2010 11:42:07 AM 814 Views
I have a thing for Spanish and French girls - 29/08/2010 06:09:03 PM 889 Views
Re: What's wrong with being an old maid? *NM* - 29/08/2010 08:55:47 PM 476 Views
Hmmm... - 30/08/2010 06:27:01 PM 818 Views
Re: Being old is good! - 30/08/2010 07:18:09 PM 845 Views
Sure... sure. - 30/08/2010 07:21:29 PM 911 Views
Re: Means you've survived, right? *NM* - 31/08/2010 12:50:12 AM 441 Views
Evolution is working for you if you're passing on genes to your offspring. *NM* - 30/08/2010 08:08:57 PM 420 Views
Re: No, evolution works for me if I live longer. - 31/08/2010 12:49:26 AM 983 Views
Nothing, if that's what someone wants to be - 02/09/2010 08:38:39 PM 939 Views
We need to learn who were are and be content in singleness before we make a better mate. - 29/08/2010 09:18:13 PM 844 Views
What he said. *NM* - 31/08/2010 10:48:39 PM 480 Views
I know this - 02/09/2010 02:06:28 AM 801 Views
I'd sleep with you......I think. *NM* - 30/08/2010 01:28:53 PM 486 Views
And they say that Chivalry is dead... *NM* - 31/08/2010 03:08:39 PM 453 Views
Wasn't my resume impressive enough? *NM* - 02/09/2010 02:06:52 AM 432 Views
Possible solution - 30/08/2010 06:11:51 PM 958 Views
Way ahead of you - 02/09/2010 02:10:31 AM 1052 Views
I wouldn't know... - 30/08/2010 07:55:30 PM 3158 Views
Even after all these years... - 02/09/2010 02:11:25 AM 946 Views
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Aaaaaand I probably shouldn't post right after getting "dumped." *NM* - 02/09/2010 02:12:16 AM 517 Views
That's silly. - 02/09/2010 02:30:34 PM 963 Views
Aw, thank you *NM* - 03/09/2010 11:03:55 AM 465 Views

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