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As one of today's mental parents... aria Send a noteboard - 07/01/2011 12:01:36 AM
first off, all parents are mental...it just comes with the territory. But I actually agree with most of the article. I have to admit to a bit of hovering at the playground, but it's not out of a fear of my child falling down or anything. It's because I'm afraid if I don't have my kids in my sight whenever we leave the house, some maniac will run off with them. My kids are pretty little though...maybe that will get better as they get older, but probably not. I'll just have to learn to let go.

Also, as far as preventing kids from failing, I agree that is not good for them. They need to learn how to handle failure. But you don't want a kid to feel like a failure all the time either. (And this is from someone about to graduate with a teaching degree) Kids need to experience failure, but they also need to succeed. A good parent or teacher will help them find areas they can succeed in, and teach them how to handle it when they don't.
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I find this interesting on two levels: - 06/01/2011 11:33:31 PM 734 Views
As one of today's mental parents... - 07/01/2011 12:01:36 AM 855 Views
Agreed. - 07/01/2011 12:34:18 AM 799 Views
Re: Agreed. - 07/01/2011 03:04:53 PM 762 Views
Very interesting article, thanks for posting. - 07/01/2011 01:36:51 AM 798 Views
Not surprising. - 07/01/2011 01:52:57 PM 732 Views
Re: Not surprising. - 07/01/2011 02:21:55 PM 756 Views
Yeah, Macharius pretty well covered it. - 07/01/2011 06:34:13 PM 717 Views
meh - 07/01/2011 02:34:47 PM 712 Views
I disagree; even to the extent that's the real problem it's still down to indulgent parents. - 07/01/2011 04:52:26 PM 787 Views
exterem paretnal involment is being overstated - 08/01/2011 03:10:09 AM 711 Views
It's extreme indulgence, not involvement. - 08/01/2011 03:44:43 AM 738 Views
"Kids need to feel badly sometimes"? What should we do? Dip their fingers in acid? - 07/01/2011 03:00:17 PM 641 Views
This. - 07/01/2011 06:10:30 PM 594 Views
I would classify editing the N-word out of Huckleberry Finn to apply to this issue... - 07/01/2011 11:26:05 PM 673 Views
"Undiplomatic" is one thing, "inflammatory" quite another. - 07/01/2011 11:51:03 PM 597 Views
Re: "Undiplomatic" is one thing, "inflammatory" quite another. - 09/01/2011 12:20:47 AM 716 Views
If the stakes are small or there's no alternative I don't mind going with your gut. - 09/01/2011 01:20:42 AM 675 Views
Re: If the stakes are small or there's no alternative I don't mind going with your gut. - 09/01/2011 01:28:28 AM 616 Views
Sadly so. - 09/01/2011 01:32:23 AM 616 Views
Re: Sadly so. - 09/01/2011 01:41:39 AM 560 Views
Hadn't seen that, no. - 09/01/2011 11:21:20 PM 711 Views
Re: Hadn't seen that, no. - 10/01/2011 04:59:53 PM 749 Views
. *NM* - 09/01/2011 12:43:38 PM 341 Views
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well your reply shows us what we end up with if we have over indulgent parnets - 10/01/2011 04:08:38 PM 662 Views
It's a good article, but contains a bit of oversimplification. - 11/01/2011 09:36:35 PM 658 Views
Actually, I tend to agree, 'cos I somewhat agree with rt it diagnoses symptoms better than problems - 11/01/2011 11:53:48 PM 853 Views
Re: Actually, I tend to agree - 15/01/2011 08:04:58 PM 688 Views
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