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Since I am the ultimate expert... </sarcasm> Bramhodoulos Send a noteboard - 09/02/2011 08:59:05 PM
1. Is there one person out there meant for you (soulmate) or an endless combination of suitable choices?

"Soulmate" is a mythical or at best metaphysical concept in one sense, or a way of giving a deeper meaning to an already good relationship.
Theologically I could say "probably", but I realize it is problematic in many ways.

2. If soulmates did exist, what do you think the odds would be of actually finding them?

Depends on your general worldview I'd say. Maybe it is an inherent attribute of a soulmate to live close by?

3. How long after a breakup/divorce is it acceptable to start dating again?

Depends on the lenght and depth of the relationship, but a long and deep relationship I would say at least a year, maybe longer.

4. If you come out of a long-term relationship wanting to date right away, what do you think that means in regards to your feelings for that person?

Ah, boo, my ex gf did that! I just think she was desperate and wanted someone to meet her needs. Honestly, I think in many cases that is the case.

5. How would you describe your romantic feelings; soft puddy or steel?

Ehm.. depends on what angle you look at it :P Seriously, kinda hard to say, what do you mean?

6. In relation to the question above, describe your openness to your partner on a scale of 1-10. One being a closed book and 10 being open as a flower towards the sun.

I think I would like to be 9, though prolly will be 8 or so. If she asks me directly however, I'll be 10+ ;)

7. Do you agree or disagree with this statement: "If couples really knew what the other person was thinking, there would be no couples."

For some definetly. Maybe even most, but clearly not all.

8. On a scale of 1-10, rate the importance of sex in a relationship.

I'm still a virgin, but I'll give it a shot. I'd say 8, but hear me out. Sex is not the solution for a bad relationship. Sex is the result of a good relationship. If a relationship is bad, sex will be bad, if a relationship is good, sex may not be better, but it will be enjoyed more none the less.

9. Do you always remember the first person you loved?

Yup, I fear so :P

10. When it comes to the end of a relationship; is it better to burn out or fade away?

Depends on person and character. In my cases so far: burn out.
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Since I am the ultimate expert... </sarcasm> Bramhodoulos - 09/02/2011 08:59:05 PM 561 Views
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No expert but I know how it works for me Jessie - 16/02/2011 10:16:45 PM 593 Views
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