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It doesn't help that you don't tend to post things that make you likeable. Helene Send a noteboard - 18/03/2011 06:55:04 AM
E.g. your post about reading books in 4 different languages, and then asking others who if they know which books they are and if they'll read them too, or would be interested in reading them...

Hardly anyone here speaks that many languages. Yes, there are people who do, but most people don't. This alienates people, as hardly anyone likes it when they are clearly being excluded. So they dislike you, or at least aren't attracted to you as someone they would become friends with.

You make it a habit to post things that excludes the majority of people. This means that either you are posting in the wrong place (e.g. post these things where the majority speaks 4 languages), or you are posting the wrong things.

What is it that you want from here? If you want friends, then you would be better served in paying attention to what qualities in you would make you attractive as a friend. If you want people's admiration, then you'd be better served if you showed you were knowledgeable/wise without showing off quite so much.
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Most of the personal sharing you describe I've shifted over to my Facebook activity. TaskmasterJack - 17/03/2011 12:12:34 AM 727 Views
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It will never catch on! Druid - 17/03/2011 01:32:00 AM 742 Views
Re: It will never catch on! TaskmasterJack - 17/03/2011 01:52:12 AM 690 Views
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joel, you're about to get married, no leering at other browsers for you! *NM* moondog - 17/03/2011 04:34:35 AM 355 Views
It's cool; we have an open source marriage. Joel - 17/03/2011 05:29:37 PM 721 Views
Re: You are getting older, that's all TaskmasterJack - 17/03/2011 01:53:28 AM 724 Views
Agreed...but Druid - 17/03/2011 03:15:42 AM 908 Views
Re: Agreed...but TaskmasterJack - 17/03/2011 11:30:42 PM 747 Views
What's odd is that I've become happier and more content in recent years Larry - 17/03/2011 02:28:14 AM 928 Views
Familiarity breeds contempt. Joel - 17/03/2011 01:14:03 AM 887 Views
Thanks Larry - 18/03/2011 09:48:49 PM 840 Views
Books: Always finding new ways to enrich peoples lives. Joel - 22/03/2011 10:51:53 PM 858 Views
Since we first met a few things have happened. Avendesora - 17/03/2011 02:06:40 AM 923 Views
Nah, you're not alone. Michael - 17/03/2011 08:47:43 AM 686 Views
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There are nights where I crash by 7 PM these days Larry - 18/03/2011 09:38:39 PM 813 Views
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My view on politics has changed quite a bit in the past few years Larry - 18/03/2011 09:40:31 PM 856 Views
Mine hasn't, really, but my opinion of repeating my positions endlessly has. Ghavrel - 18/03/2011 11:14:39 PM 734 Views
There is that, yes Larry - 19/03/2011 01:48:39 PM 821 Views
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There is wisdom in that Larry - 18/03/2011 09:54:10 PM 751 Views
Or. I could be that that some people (coughmecough) @my - 22/03/2011 05:55:50 PM 724 Views
I stopped trying to be funny when I realized I wasn't, and that I can't take a joke. Macharius - 17/03/2011 03:19:56 PM 697 Views
nUUUUUUUUUUUd *NM* TaskmasterJack - 17/03/2011 11:32:57 PM 336 Views
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Alas, I am not a resident of Camelot. *NM* Macharius - 19/03/2011 08:16:59 PM 342 Views
'Tis a silly place. Larry - 21/03/2011 10:26:49 PM 606 Views
Don't feel to bad alliandrina - 17/03/2011 04:27:15 PM 753 Views
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I think that's near, if not at, the heart of all this Larry - 18/03/2011 09:50:37 PM 693 Views
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I don't think you like me. rebelaessedai - 18/03/2011 06:27:45 AM 817 Views
So ignore him. I like you. Ghavrel - 18/03/2011 07:32:47 AM 768 Views
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Yeah, if you've been avoiding me over an internet fight, you really do. Ghavrel - 19/03/2011 08:56:03 AM 626 Views
What can I say, I have issues. rebelaessedai - 20/03/2011 04:21:12 AM 773 Views
I like you. Lady Mystery - 18/03/2011 01:10:16 PM 758 Views
*splutters* rebelaessedai - 19/03/2011 04:45:03 AM 655 Views
*giggles* Lady Mystery - 21/03/2011 01:10:21 AM 1109 Views
random thoughts is yours? Talk about your unlikely pairings.... Joel - 18/03/2011 04:32:17 PM 781 Views
Re: random thoughts is yours? Talk about your unlikely pairings.... rebelaessedai - 19/03/2011 04:46:59 AM 731 Views
Skype is your friend. Joel - 22/03/2011 10:47:41 PM 836 Views
Really? Larry - 18/03/2011 08:41:35 PM 947 Views
Really. rebelaessedai - 19/03/2011 04:41:46 AM 805 Views
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It doesn't help that you don't tend to post things that make you likeable. Helene - 18/03/2011 06:55:04 AM 876 Views
I always took those posts as attempts to include people. Joel - 18/03/2011 05:33:55 PM 782 Views
That's a very positive outlook, which perhaps is shared by others *NM* Helene - 18/03/2011 09:13:43 PM 258 Views
Hope so; try thinking in terms of what fantasy used to be like. Joel - 22/03/2011 11:19:36 PM 836 Views
10-11 years ago, I might have thought I was a major part of this site. Uncertain of that now, Larry - 18/03/2011 09:36:26 PM 780 Views
Offering a perspective. Helene - 18/03/2011 10:03:58 PM 709 Views
Re: Offering a perspective. Larry - 19/03/2011 01:46:06 PM 850 Views
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I haven't changed at all. Jacob - 22/03/2011 01:44:12 PM 796 Views
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You just only propagated, that's all Larry - 23/03/2011 12:33:20 AM 657 Views
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