It sounds like the OF blog is a good place for that post. Btw, I wasn't saying these things to be mean or nasty, but because I honestly think that you have a habit of posting things in a way that puts people off.



Whether or not you intend something doesn't mean there aren't consequences you do not intend. I've never been particularly close to you, but we did chat a for a while back in the day. I've often heard other people complain that you are self centered, and in our conversations, you always talked about yourself. So perhaps that's some baggage I bring with me when I come across your posts. The thing is ,I don't think you actually want to come across as self centered.



Sounds interesting.



You stated that you wonder if you have it in you to make friends at this successor site. If a lot of people responded more positively to you, you'd be more interested/inclined to make new friendships. It's a matter of interaction and opportunity. Who would not want to have interesting, positive and stimulating conversations? Whether or not that's possible for you on this site, I don't know. The only thing I know is that everyone can only change one thing in the world, and that is how they approach a situation.



It's easy to look at others, but it tends to be a pretty futile exercise, as it's outside of your scope of control. It's more relevant to look at yourself, even when others are (also) in the wrong.



Why was it interesting?