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And you don't think that the men in these relationships contributed to the current situation at all? Helene Send a noteboard - 14/06/2011 07:59:15 AM
No, it's those women! They just don't want sexually satisfying relationships!

You obviously don't know what's going on in the relationship, and you obviously don't know that this is something that could be fixed if the men changed their attitudes.

Now, I'm not saying that these women aren't doing something unpleasant that negatively impacts the relationships. But to think that it's just those darn American women who want to manipulate the men... it's naive.
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He’s Just Not That Into Anyone (an article about watching porn and men's changing libidos). everynametaken - 11/06/2011 10:52:10 PM 3322 Views
I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. Tom - 12/06/2011 02:01:40 AM 1084 Views
Re: I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. everynametaken - 12/06/2011 08:49:39 PM 1381 Views
A lot of guys who get hooked on porn don't know how to approach women Helene - 12/06/2011 10:55:17 PM 1309 Views
Funny Urza - 13/06/2011 01:22:28 AM 1283 Views
You obviously never had a fulfilling long term sexual relationship with a woman. Helene - 13/06/2011 10:43:23 AM 1071 Views
Oh My Urza - 13/06/2011 03:29:34 PM 1094 Views
*giggle* Camilla - 13/06/2011 03:46:28 PM 1146 Views
What did I do to put a bee in your bonnet? *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 06:23:01 PM 502 Views
Bee? Camilla - 13/06/2011 06:24:35 PM 1080 Views
Oh, I tend to be loving and appreciative Helene - 13/06/2011 05:08:56 PM 1033 Views
That isnt fair, Helene *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 06:22:25 PM 540 Views
What isn't fair? Helene - 13/06/2011 08:07:08 PM 1313 Views
I'm not looking for someone to fix, but the not fair bit I was refering to was little irony dig *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:10:11 PM 556 Views
You don't need to be broken to enjoy being appreciated Helene - 13/06/2011 10:17:01 PM 1042 Views
No, Helene, You repeatedly attempt to sidetrack discussion with attacks against my person Urza - 13/06/2011 10:20:01 PM 1190 Views
But it makes me feel good Helene - 13/06/2011 10:45:07 PM 1055 Views
I'm not a hedonist Urza - 13/06/2011 10:57:25 PM 1213 Views
If you really wanted to debate the actual issue, you would have. *NM* Helene - 13/06/2011 11:51:53 PM 436 Views
So indignant! Novo - 13/06/2011 11:53:41 PM 1216 Views
I don't believe that at all. everynametaken - 13/06/2011 04:48:26 AM 1192 Views
Ok, perhaps I can't talk from experience... as that group of men has self selected out of the game Helene - 13/06/2011 10:47:59 AM 1114 Views
Entirely agree *NM* ironclad - 13/06/2011 04:33:04 PM 582 Views
Showing appreciation is a losing strategy. Tom - 13/06/2011 04:55:09 AM 1160 Views
So you don't know how to open a woman up sexually Helene - 13/06/2011 10:51:17 AM 1161 Views
Oh how clever of you! Tom - 13/06/2011 09:59:01 PM 1247 Views
Not to gang up on you or anything, but... Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:15:57 PM 1185 Views
If you'ld actually read his post Tom gave reasons beyond lack of sexual adventuressness *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:17:11 PM 564 Views
Of which the "letting you do your own thing" was the only one I can take seriously. Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:30:10 PM 1029 Views
So rather than adress your disagreement on the facts you just pretended he didn't say them? *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:34:02 PM 534 Views
Seriously? You're trying to debate now? Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:37:21 PM 1081 Views
Your disregard for rationality offends me. Urza - 13/06/2011 10:40:29 PM 1215 Views
I'm sure that there are Eastern European women who will fulfill the "traditionally female role"? Helene - 13/06/2011 10:43:43 PM 1144 Views
It's that the prudishness is indicative of a more general sense of entitlement and manipulativeness. Dan - 13/06/2011 11:02:20 PM 1257 Views
Yes. And "passive-aggressive behavior" is another one I'd add. *NM* Tom - 13/06/2011 11:18:40 PM 452 Views
So far in this debate, you've only displayed your feelings of entitlement Helene - 14/06/2011 12:05:16 AM 1064 Views
I give to the relationship. I give a shitload of money. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:13:47 AM 1080 Views
Bringing in money does not a relationship make. The rest, however, sounds a lot better Helene - 14/06/2011 12:38:45 AM 1129 Views
So Let me understand what you are saying... StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:40:50 AM 1173 Views
I'm not sure, based on that response, you're capable of understanding anything at all. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:17:37 AM 1186 Views
I can see why you might have trouble finding an American woman who would agree with that random thoughts - 14/06/2011 02:00:49 PM 1180 Views
Guys have their own problems, but the conversation is revolving around women at the moment. *NM* *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 01:23:20 AM 553 Views
The conversation did start being about MEN's problems. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:36:36 AM 1126 Views
Be good, Ana. Urza - 14/06/2011 03:40:12 AM 907 Views
You may be mistaken. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:54:28 AM 1134 Views
Thats unfortuanate, Ana Urza - 14/06/2011 03:58:50 AM 1021 Views
I am introspecting, yes. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:02:32 AM 1044 Views
No, I wasnt attempting to do so Urza - 14/06/2011 04:09:29 AM 1193 Views
Re: You may be mistaken. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:21:16 AM 1180 Views
The only reason the conversation is revolving around women is because Tom laid all the blame at Helene - 14/06/2011 07:35:34 AM 1213 Views
Let's be clear: I was speaking about American women *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:10:10 PM 460 Views
Oh, that part is quite clear. *NM* nossy - 14/06/2011 08:25:08 PM 564 Views
Wow.. all the misogynists came out to play Helene - 13/06/2011 11:57:05 PM 1228 Views
I'm glad you're in here. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:04:03 AM 1187 Views
Seconded *NM* Camilla - 14/06/2011 04:46:38 PM 522 Views
I don't see a lot of misogyny. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:59:06 AM 981 Views
You are blind to misogyny because you lack awareness in that area Helene - 14/06/2011 07:38:48 AM 1073 Views
Okay, so I'm a date rapist and a misogynist...real classy Tom - 14/06/2011 02:11:40 PM 987 Views
I neither called you a date rapist nor a misogynist Helene - 14/06/2011 03:10:46 PM 1019 Views
Why misogynist? Why not Anti-American? Dan - 14/06/2011 01:32:17 AM 1553 Views
So, which women are better than American women? Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:38:38 AM 1237 Views
Re: Haha Gaps - 14/06/2011 04:18:46 AM 1093 Views
You seem very intent on coming off as the smartest guy in the room. Dan - 14/06/2011 04:40:26 AM 1245 Views
I think that's an unfair characterization of the RP board Isaac - 14/06/2011 04:58:29 AM 1088 Views
Ha! I'm just fucking around. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:14:20 AM 1111 Views
Re: Ha! I'm just fucking around. Isaac - 14/06/2011 05:42:37 AM 951 Views
Who are you, again? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:07:04 AM 953 Views
Tsk. I need to be more memorable. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:16:33 AM 1255 Views
Well, try to be more openminded. Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:22:52 AM 1165 Views
Fair enough. I do quite like Gaps. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:31:05 AM 1163 Views
Why all this vitriol? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:18:16 AM 1122 Views
Book clubs? Bullshit! women shouldn't be reading at all!!! everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:28:41 AM 1132 Views
Re: Oh wow, nice. Gaps - 14/06/2011 12:25:53 PM 986 Views
Perhaps one day I'll get a Chinese husband. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:41:59 AM 1263 Views
Er, see my post withe country names in it. I hate this messageboard layout. *NM* *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 04:50:31 AM 544 Views
Spain, Norway, Japan? Dan - 14/06/2011 04:38:43 AM 1191 Views
Norway is the only one that passes. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:14:54 PM 1045 Views
I really like the Netherlands Helene - 14/06/2011 01:29:08 PM 1111 Views
Re: I really like the Netherlands Camilla - 14/06/2011 04:51:11 PM 1001 Views
Why did I pick that one? Because you completely ignore men's part in a culture that sexually Helene - 14/06/2011 07:54:39 AM 1189 Views
Helene, you're also not an American woman. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:03:23 PM 1200 Views
It's the people who make sweeping generalisations about American women who need to defend themselves Helene - 14/06/2011 01:18:43 PM 1037 Views
You're not American either. *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:26:34 PM 418 Views
I didn't ignore it at all. I just bracketed it. It's quite possible, you know. Dan - 14/06/2011 08:49:03 PM 1191 Views
You have strange expectations and ideas of me. *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 08:52:09 PM 505 Views
Likewise. BFF? *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 09:08:53 PM 451 Views
I don't exactly expect to influence your opinion, just to voice my own. Helene - 13/06/2011 10:40:39 PM 1044 Views
The last part summed it up nicely. That was all I thought you meant anyway. Tashmere - 14/06/2011 03:17:45 AM 1050 Views
Nice! /me high Fives Helene!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:32:27 AM 427 Views
Oh, but I can do any and all of these things! Novo - 14/06/2011 12:06:41 AM 1175 Views
I said there were exceptions. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:50:27 AM 1047 Views
True. Novo - 14/06/2011 09:03:46 PM 1004 Views
hey! I really like your poem "name" - syllables knowing other lovers - excellent. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:49:06 AM 976 Views
Thanks! *NM* Novo - 15/06/2011 09:44:18 PM 554 Views
I agree. Aeryn - 13/06/2011 01:23:51 PM 1144 Views
Obviously inside the bedroom. Helene - 13/06/2011 05:17:31 PM 1236 Views
Inside the bedroom? Sure. I could agree. But you're not American anyway. Tom - 13/06/2011 08:52:42 PM 1106 Views
You're basically just saying that American attitudes toward sex results in repressed women Helene - 13/06/2011 09:03:47 PM 1217 Views
Theoretically they can be "unrepressed". But why waste the time and effort? Tom - 13/06/2011 10:06:52 PM 1229 Views
How can you tell it's because she cares, instead of because that's what's traditionally expected Helene - 13/06/2011 10:48:12 PM 1154 Views
That's a good point! *NM* Vivien - 15/06/2011 04:49:11 AM 536 Views
The answer is that it doesn't matter. Vivien - 16/06/2011 05:35:47 PM 1212 Views
I agree that the answer doesn't matter Helene - 16/06/2011 07:09:44 PM 901 Views
It's funny nossy - 13/06/2011 02:51:03 PM 1293 Views
Well of course you can't see the faults of American women. You're American. Tom - 13/06/2011 08:51:35 PM 1195 Views
I'm sure that American women, along with all other women on earth Helene - 13/06/2011 09:00:33 PM 1205 Views
It's not my job to make a girl comfortable about her sexuality. Tom - 13/06/2011 10:03:27 PM 1152 Views
THIS *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:09:14 PM 517 Views
If the sex is all there is, then yes, makes sense. Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:18:15 PM 1193 Views
Who willingly goes into a relationship knowing the sex will be bad? Tom - 14/06/2011 03:52:43 AM 1117 Views
You and your friends? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:46:53 AM 1091 Views
And you don't think that the men in these relationships contributed to the current situation at all? Helene - 14/06/2011 07:59:15 AM 918 Views
In this particular aspect, absolutely not. Tom - 14/06/2011 02:19:33 PM 1083 Views
Of course I consider that you might be right Helene - 14/06/2011 03:59:50 PM 1201 Views
I'm not ignoring any complexities Tom - 14/06/2011 05:00:04 PM 1161 Views
^ And this response immediately above is my last. This is eating into a real workday now. ^ Tom - 14/06/2011 05:53:43 PM 1086 Views
Loads of people, if that's compensated by other things? Legolas - 14/06/2011 08:38:45 PM 1268 Views
I would rather be in a good marriage with bad sex than the other way around *NM* random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:33:27 PM 624 Views
I suspect that you are in a good marriage with good sex. Tashmere - 16/06/2011 01:55:29 AM 1183 Views
Of course it is your job as a sex partner to make your partner feel comfortable about being with you Helene - 13/06/2011 10:50:52 PM 1045 Views
THIS. *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 11:49:28 PM 500 Views
I was going to say the same. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:11:18 AM 1232 Views
Like fucking Hell it is. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:18:02 AM 983 Views
You're totally cracking me up in here. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:30:39 AM 1142 Views
You think you're offending me? Tom - 14/06/2011 01:10:56 AM 1173 Views
No. nossy - 14/06/2011 08:01:45 PM 1182 Views
Have you ever been accused of date rape? Helene - 14/06/2011 12:46:30 AM 938 Views
No. And that's an absurd question. Tom - 14/06/2011 01:08:13 AM 1079 Views
No, the point you were arguing was absurd. I just pointed out what you were arguing. Helene - 14/06/2011 08:03:13 AM 1208 Views
Let's cut the sophistry Tom - 14/06/2011 02:24:52 PM 1180 Views
What's the definition of prude anyway? Vivien - 14/06/2011 03:58:03 PM 1055 Views
If that's what you wanted to say, it would have helped for you to be more explicit. Helene - 14/06/2011 04:10:43 PM 1155 Views
"Why do these women use sex as a manipulative tool?" Tom - 14/06/2011 05:06:33 PM 1166 Views
It seems to me there is a very simple answer to that question. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 05:26:09 PM 1096 Views
I don't think it works at all. Tom - 14/06/2011 05:48:48 PM 1044 Views
Your anecdotal evidence suggests otherwise. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 06:31:28 PM 1303 Views
I don't think so. Tashmere - 15/06/2011 03:50:25 AM 1060 Views
I agree with every single thing you just said. *NM* Tom - 15/06/2011 05:03:05 AM 427 Views
Oddly enough, I do too Sareitha Sedai - 15/06/2011 02:00:39 PM 1174 Views
I agree with Sareitha. Women do that because it (apears to) works for them, in the short term Helene - 14/06/2011 08:28:11 PM 1000 Views
I can't see that I would put up with that either random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:32:09 PM 1088 Views
Right nossy - 14/06/2011 10:59:10 PM 1079 Views
mode was a typeo but I guess it still works random thoughts - 14/06/2011 11:23:11 PM 1203 Views
I haven't tried it either. Seems to me like that is closely related to The Silent Treatment. Tashmere - 15/06/2011 03:43:45 AM 1227 Views
A fairly self-aware American. With many female friends, even nossy - 13/06/2011 11:59:34 PM 1171 Views
Yeah I don't buy that "most American girls are prudes" concept random thoughts - 14/06/2011 04:10:37 PM 801 Views
I think most of it depends on the "type" of girl a guy goes for. nossy - 14/06/2011 11:09:34 PM 1106 Views
some times there is a fine line between kinky and perverted sometimes there isn't random thoughts - 14/06/2011 11:32:17 PM 1200 Views
A moment Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:01:05 PM 1065 Views
Camilla, I'm trying to keep this at arm's length a bit. Tom - 14/06/2011 05:42:18 PM 1059 Views
But you started it. nossy - 14/06/2011 08:43:47 PM 1144 Views
I did start it, yes. Tom - 16/06/2011 03:32:54 PM 1065 Views
You should have quit before this. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:46:01 PM 1162 Views
No, I shouldn't have. Tom - 16/06/2011 04:03:21 PM 1106 Views
The problem with your list is that it's performance-oriented. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 10:45:22 PM 1057 Views
Of course it's performance-oriented. Tom - 16/06/2011 10:54:22 PM 988 Views
This really made me laugh Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 04:26:32 PM 1072 Views
Re: I did start it, yes. Camilla - 16/06/2011 03:46:06 PM 967 Views
Yes, we do! Tom - 16/06/2011 04:04:02 PM 1168 Views
Having now looked over the smileys Camilla - 16/06/2011 04:09:55 PM 1133 Views
See what I'm talking about? Tom - 16/06/2011 07:09:10 PM 1065 Views
That may have been the worst pun ever! *NM* Tashmere - 17/06/2011 12:47:50 AM 532 Views
I try *NM* Camilla - 17/06/2011 09:57:32 AM 535 Views
Take is up the ass or you are a prude? random thoughts - 16/06/2011 04:09:54 PM 1286 Views
Maybe Tom will make allowances for preferences instead of an unwillingness because it's "wrong"? *NM* Helene - 16/06/2011 04:22:45 PM 506 Views
You didn't read the list very well. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:08:19 PM 1105 Views
It appears I didn't read it very well. I apologize for that random thoughts - 16/06/2011 10:16:02 PM 1048 Views
No problems. Tom - 16/06/2011 10:57:46 PM 991 Views
Re: The idea that If it hurts it's not being done right - Not neccessarily. Tashmere - 17/06/2011 01:13:18 AM 1102 Views
It just requires more preparation. Tom - 17/06/2011 04:49:52 AM 1471 Views
I have to say, I actually find this list reasonable. Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 04:35:40 PM 1070 Views
I agree nossy - 16/06/2011 05:10:07 PM 987 Views
Exactly! It's the "nexus of activity" sort of idea. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:18:33 PM 989 Views
If I weren't such a prude (3), I would post this list to facebook. nossy - 16/06/2011 05:08:05 PM 1144 Views
In other words, you aren't a prude on that scale. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:20:35 PM 1003 Views
Eh nossy - 16/06/2011 08:17:31 PM 1174 Views
You mixed up prudishness and sexual compatibility with you Helene - 16/06/2011 05:21:31 PM 1206 Views
This. *NM* Camilla - 16/06/2011 06:18:41 PM 596 Views
No I didn't. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:14:27 PM 1085 Views
Calling my response a knee jerk reaction is just silly, and in itself, a knee jerk response. Helene - 16/06/2011 07:38:28 PM 1318 Views
Okay. I'm going to just stop replying. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:28:02 PM 872 Views
Your world view is just too self referential to be Helene - 16/06/2011 08:36:39 PM 1117 Views
As is yours. *NM* Tom - 16/06/2011 08:44:10 PM 411 Views
That makes no sense. You have the narrower view. *NM* Helene - 16/06/2011 09:07:37 PM 525 Views
So you say. *NM* Tom - 16/06/2011 09:09:21 PM 531 Views
Question ßelals Girl - 16/06/2011 07:42:37 PM 1099 Views
Ha Ha, who cares about the guy? It is only female sexuality that is on trial. Vivien - 16/06/2011 08:06:33 PM 1014 Views
That is an incorrect assumption. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:30:08 PM 1057 Views
Awww you didn't take my bait! Vivien - 16/06/2011 08:44:16 PM 971 Views
There's very little I haven't been willing to do Tom - 16/06/2011 08:52:31 PM 1092 Views
Hehehe, But *I* recall it! Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:22:40 PM 1114 Views
Wait, I think I know what you're talking about. Tom - 16/06/2011 09:27:20 PM 1078 Views
Damn, I was going to guess "in a coffin". Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 09:31:36 PM 1274 Views
She's significantly younger than O'Donnell, and was better looking. Tom - 16/06/2011 09:33:51 PM 1086 Views
Seriously? Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:50:20 PM 1123 Views
The girl was never a girlfriend or a sexual partner. Tom - 16/06/2011 11:06:38 PM 1108 Views
I'm reminded of an ex of mine Helene - 16/06/2011 08:32:34 PM 885 Views
That's really awful. Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:16:33 PM 1185 Views
When you're with a person who appreciates you, it's not like that at all Helene - 16/06/2011 09:29:32 PM 868 Views
Of course. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:29:11 PM 931 Views
Fair enough *NM* ßelals Girl - 17/06/2011 07:20:38 PM 531 Views
THIS!! LISTEN!! the woman is * lightbulb* speaking from a woman's perspective. StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:52:26 AM 1189 Views
Your way out of line Urza - 14/06/2011 02:55:46 AM 974 Views
Wondering why we're still single, are we? Try a minimum of politeness first. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:21:15 AM 936 Views
Where did I insinuate you can't please women? *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 08:05:14 AM 423 Views
I refer you to "So you don't know how to open a woman up sexually" *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:09:40 PM 450 Views
That's not about pleasing, that's about making someone feel confident and safe Helene - 14/06/2011 04:13:24 PM 1136 Views
What B/c i sank you YOUR level? Piss Off. AS if I give 2 shits what you think about me. StarrBecca - 16/06/2011 02:19:04 AM 1279 Views
Becca, can you pinpoint the moment you became a bitter worndown shell of a woman? *NM* Urza - 16/06/2011 03:21:21 AM 519 Views
I read this. Ectheledhel - 16/06/2011 03:40:51 AM 1187 Views
The name-calling is uncalled for, Rebecca ironclad - 16/06/2011 11:10:04 AM 1120 Views
Given the vehemence of your response, you do care. Tom - 16/06/2011 03:19:42 PM 1216 Views
I appreciate the support, nossy - 14/06/2011 10:37:20 PM 1135 Views
Your journal entry is revealing. You sound bitter and hurt. I hope you find the healing you need. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:40:23 AM 1147 Views
You know what? not called for. *NM* Aeryn - 15/06/2011 02:05:14 PM 389 Views
Why not? everynametaken - 15/06/2011 11:59:36 PM 1041 Views
The first portion of what you said, isn't yours to say. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:43:57 PM 852 Views
I'm with Anastasia on this. Legolas - 16/06/2011 06:39:56 PM 1193 Views
Re: It's funny Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:50:13 AM 1162 Views
Re: It's funny nossy - 14/06/2011 10:28:32 PM 1229 Views
On a completely unrelated note ironclad - 14/06/2011 11:03:58 PM 1072 Views
Re: On a completely unrelated note TaskmasterJack - 14/06/2011 11:14:18 PM 1108 Views
Bummer *NM* ironclad - 14/06/2011 11:20:24 PM 518 Views
TMJ is right. Aeryn - 15/06/2011 02:11:57 PM 1142 Views
Re: TMJ is right. TaskmasterJack - 16/06/2011 12:22:10 AM 1205 Views
Yes. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:41:05 PM 1008 Views
Re: Yes. TaskmasterJack - 17/06/2011 01:51:11 AM 941 Views
Gee thanks. Aeryn - 17/06/2011 05:04:37 AM 1408 Views
Didn't suit you. TaskmasterJack - 18/06/2011 12:58:53 AM 1167 Views
On a totally unrelated note... everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:43:23 AM 1092 Views
Excuse me while I go hit something. A journalism major perhaps. *NM* Urza - 12/06/2011 09:09:26 PM 524 Views
Stunning rebuttal!!! *NM* everynametaken - 12/06/2011 10:07:39 PM 392 Views
Theres nothing there I really need to refute.... Urza - 13/06/2011 01:20:43 AM 1024 Views
Well, thanks for contributing nothing to the discussion. *NM* everynametaken - 13/06/2011 04:41:56 AM 406 Views
Is there a reason you feel the need to jump up my ass? *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 05:16:53 AM 562 Views
Your winning personality? Camilla - 13/06/2011 03:45:09 PM 1111 Views
I'd say 'endearing' is the proper term. Novo - 13/06/2011 10:43:01 PM 1053 Views
Nice name new. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:44:25 AM 1064 Views
Wow. Interesting. *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 07:04:08 AM 499 Views
Giving up porn (a male perspective) Postsecret - 13/06/2011 04:29:52 PM 1172 Views
Thanks for sharing. ^_^ *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 09:05:51 PM 548 Views
of course looking at tons of porn all the time is going to affect men random thoughts - 13/06/2011 11:15:02 PM 1251 Views
You make a lot of sense, thanks for posting and adding your perspective. *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 12:11:03 AM 400 Views
Re: It's a sexy topic, but all these generalizations are becoming wet blankets. Gaps - 14/06/2011 02:13:31 AM 1158 Views
I think this and the replies by Post Secret and random thoughts all kind of get at my ideas here. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 02:30:52 PM 1183 Views
There is way too much crap in this thread, but I give this reply my seal of approval. *NM* Nate - 14/06/2011 05:02:04 PM 546 Views
I think you are spot on with the seal theory. Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:16:59 PM 1215 Views
Dirty motherfuckers! We need to lift all bans on whaling immediately to stem this momentum! *NM* everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:56:30 AM 531 Views
[something less snarky] nossy - 14/06/2011 10:17:18 PM 1230 Views
Re: What? Gaps - 15/06/2011 12:01:36 AM 1189 Views
Re: What? nossy - 15/06/2011 12:20:56 AM 1151 Views
Re: How come your 1st edit is not at all what was originally posted? Gaps - 15/06/2011 03:06:02 AM 1188 Views
About time to reevaluate Tom's claims, I think, eh? *NM* Dan - 15/06/2011 03:59:31 AM 523 Views
my turn: what? nossy - 15/06/2011 04:12:51 AM 1231 Views
Wow, well speaking as a prude... Isaac - 14/06/2011 03:36:23 AM 1194 Views
Funny how so many fault lines rupture in the comments to posts like this Larry - 14/06/2011 04:23:23 AM 1286 Views
To quote Cat Valente: Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:37:39 AM 1011 Views
It is a two-way street, unfortunately Larry - 14/06/2011 04:40:58 AM 1116 Views
so the problem is southern women are just not good enough for you? random thoughts - 14/06/2011 01:51:30 PM 1098 Views
No, more like not similar enough Larry - 14/06/2011 04:13:52 PM 1123 Views
Some people aren't cut out to be in a relationship Helene - 14/06/2011 04:25:09 PM 1142 Views
True Larry - 14/06/2011 04:56:05 PM 967 Views
As someone who has never lived under the same roof more than five consecutive years random thoughts - 14/06/2011 06:06:10 PM 1213 Views
Job. Always a job matter. Larry - 14/06/2011 11:22:33 PM 1260 Views
Try south Texas, you may not notice you are not in South America random thoughts - 15/06/2011 02:44:21 AM 1061 Views
Ha! I used to live in the metro Miami area, so I know what you mean Larry - 15/06/2011 03:20:41 AM 1116 Views
sweet jesus you are crazy random thoughts - 15/06/2011 04:38:28 AM 942 Views
Maybe, but it certainly drains me of being involved much elsewhere Larry - 15/06/2011 05:29:21 AM 1170 Views
Why all this vitriol? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:19:47 AM 1084 Views
It started there here: Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:06:32 PM 1148 Views
Tom made an untenable comment Helene - 14/06/2011 01:21:06 PM 1071 Views
Interestingly, the article talked about men being prudish in their real lives. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:27:00 PM 1145 Views
I figure this may be true, but I can't speak from a lot of experience. Helene - 14/06/2011 04:23:08 PM 1013 Views
I was writing a lengthy reply to disagree, but then I ended up rather close to where you stand. Legolas - 14/06/2011 09:17:55 PM 1101 Views
I think men do worry if their wife is to focused on sex random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:26:56 PM 1195 Views
Re: I think men do worry if their wife is to focused on sex Macharius - 15/06/2011 02:26:30 PM 1034 Views
Book clubs are scary places Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:03:03 PM 883 Views
Chocolate, wine, books. Also tea? Novo - 14/06/2011 09:00:06 PM 1194 Views
Maybe without the wine? Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:06:53 AM 1067 Views
I don't feel particularly vitriolic. nossy - 14/06/2011 10:18:44 PM 1079 Views
I didn't mean you... Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:24:56 AM 1072 Views
We haven't had one of these in a while! ßelals Girl - 14/06/2011 06:36:18 AM 1154 Views
Agreed. I laughed, I cried, it was touching. *NM* Ghavrel - 14/06/2011 08:49:40 AM 387 Views
Yes, it takes a good flame war to get the engines firing on all cylinders. Stephen - 14/06/2011 02:00:20 PM 1008 Views
This post got more abused than a nasty Japanese bukkake! Lol. *NM* everynametaken - 15/06/2011 10:07:04 AM 592 Views
I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. Tigr - 14/06/2011 03:15:28 PM 1137 Views
Re: I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:27:51 PM 1221 Views
Oh yeah. Tigr - 14/06/2011 03:31:42 PM 1263 Views
nossy - 14/06/2011 08:48:55 PM 1174 Views
I think I've read pretty much all of it. I think it's better than porn. Well, bad porn. TaskmasterJack - 14/06/2011 11:01:20 PM 1142 Views
that was funny *NM* random thoughts - 15/06/2011 02:42:13 AM 405 Views
Bad porn is the worst! Tigr - 15/06/2011 02:13:59 PM 1002 Views
You know what Tom, it occurs to me that this is very American thinking. Vivien - 15/06/2011 03:07:00 AM 1071 Views
Actually, my Russian guy friends tend to be more vehement than I am on this point. Tom - 15/06/2011 05:12:51 AM 1399 Views
Huh, could it be because most Russians are atheist? Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:36:47 AM 1187 Views
That could be a major part of it Tom - 16/06/2011 09:06:21 PM 1040 Views
Well, there's no question that a prior consultation with me could strengthen any argument. *NM* Vivien - 16/06/2011 10:36:12 PM 479 Views
Ah, you've seen EuroTrip, too. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 17/06/2011 01:52:27 AM 511 Views
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