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I don't feel particularly vitriolic. nossy Send a noteboard - 14/06/2011 10:18:44 PM
If you don't like the women on this side of the Atlantic then don't date/marry them. Problem solved. Everyone's happy. And the prudes can hook up with each other. But wait- is it only women that are prudes? Then the men can hook up with each other and the women will attend book clubs.


Ah, you know, same old same old. Someone is wrong on the internet.
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He’s Just Not That Into Anyone (an article about watching porn and men's changing libidos). - 11/06/2011 10:52:10 PM 3442 Views
I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. - 12/06/2011 02:01:40 AM 1195 Views
Re: I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. - 12/06/2011 08:49:39 PM 1495 Views
A lot of guys who get hooked on porn don't know how to approach women - 12/06/2011 10:55:17 PM 1419 Views
Funny - 13/06/2011 01:22:28 AM 1376 Views
You obviously never had a fulfilling long term sexual relationship with a woman. - 13/06/2011 10:43:23 AM 1159 Views
Oh My - 13/06/2011 03:29:34 PM 1187 Views
*giggle* - 13/06/2011 03:46:28 PM 1247 Views
What did I do to put a bee in your bonnet? *NM* - 13/06/2011 06:23:01 PM 557 Views
Bee? - 13/06/2011 06:24:35 PM 1173 Views
Oh, I tend to be loving and appreciative - 13/06/2011 05:08:56 PM 1158 Views
That isnt fair, Helene *NM* - 13/06/2011 06:22:25 PM 589 Views
What isn't fair? - 13/06/2011 08:07:08 PM 1406 Views
I'm not looking for someone to fix, but the not fair bit I was refering to was little irony dig *NM* - 13/06/2011 10:10:11 PM 607 Views
You don't need to be broken to enjoy being appreciated - 13/06/2011 10:17:01 PM 1138 Views
No, Helene, You repeatedly attempt to sidetrack discussion with attacks against my person - 13/06/2011 10:20:01 PM 1281 Views
But it makes me feel good - 13/06/2011 10:45:07 PM 1165 Views
I'm not a hedonist - 13/06/2011 10:57:25 PM 1322 Views
So indignant! - 13/06/2011 11:53:41 PM 1308 Views
I don't believe that at all. - 13/06/2011 04:48:26 AM 1310 Views
Entirely agree *NM* - 13/06/2011 04:33:04 PM 631 Views
Showing appreciation is a losing strategy. - 13/06/2011 04:55:09 AM 1281 Views
So you don't know how to open a woman up sexually - 13/06/2011 10:51:17 AM 1302 Views
Oh how clever of you! - 13/06/2011 09:59:01 PM 1342 Views
Not to gang up on you or anything, but... - 13/06/2011 10:15:57 PM 1292 Views
It's that the prudishness is indicative of a more general sense of entitlement and manipulativeness. - 13/06/2011 11:02:20 PM 1362 Views
Yes. And "passive-aggressive behavior" is another one I'd add. *NM* - 13/06/2011 11:18:40 PM 499 Views
So far in this debate, you've only displayed your feelings of entitlement - 14/06/2011 12:05:16 AM 1180 Views
Guys have their own problems, but the conversation is revolving around women at the moment. *NM* *NM* - 14/06/2011 01:23:20 AM 603 Views
The conversation did start being about MEN's problems. - 14/06/2011 03:36:36 AM 1221 Views
Be good, Ana. - 14/06/2011 03:40:12 AM 1030 Views
You may be mistaken. - 14/06/2011 03:54:28 AM 1263 Views
Thats unfortuanate, Ana - 14/06/2011 03:58:50 AM 1130 Views
I am introspecting, yes. - 14/06/2011 04:02:32 AM 1142 Views
No, I wasnt attempting to do so - 14/06/2011 04:09:29 AM 1322 Views
Re: You may be mistaken. - 15/06/2011 01:21:16 AM 1278 Views
The only reason the conversation is revolving around women is because Tom laid all the blame at - 14/06/2011 07:35:34 AM 1313 Views
Let's be clear: I was speaking about American women *NM* - 14/06/2011 02:10:10 PM 511 Views
Oh, that part is quite clear. *NM* - 14/06/2011 08:25:08 PM 636 Views
Wow.. all the misogynists came out to play - 13/06/2011 11:57:05 PM 1319 Views
I'm glad you're in here. - 14/06/2011 12:04:03 AM 1305 Views
Seconded *NM* - 14/06/2011 04:46:38 PM 569 Views
I don't see a lot of misogyny. - 14/06/2011 12:59:06 AM 1076 Views
You are blind to misogyny because you lack awareness in that area - 14/06/2011 07:38:48 AM 1179 Views
Okay, so I'm a date rapist and a misogynist...real classy - 14/06/2011 02:11:40 PM 1083 Views
I neither called you a date rapist nor a misogynist - 14/06/2011 03:10:46 PM 1122 Views
Why misogynist? Why not Anti-American? - 14/06/2011 01:32:17 AM 1681 Views
So, which women are better than American women? - 14/06/2011 03:38:38 AM 1342 Views
Re: Haha - 14/06/2011 04:18:46 AM 1187 Views
You seem very intent on coming off as the smartest guy in the room. - 14/06/2011 04:40:26 AM 1344 Views
I think that's an unfair characterization of the RP board - 14/06/2011 04:58:29 AM 1219 Views
Ha! I'm just fucking around. - 14/06/2011 05:14:20 AM 1197 Views
Re: Ha! I'm just fucking around. - 14/06/2011 05:42:37 AM 1069 Views
Who are you, again? - 14/06/2011 05:07:04 AM 1047 Views
Tsk. I need to be more memorable. - 14/06/2011 05:16:33 AM 1351 Views
Well, try to be more openminded. - 14/06/2011 05:22:52 AM 1272 Views
Fair enough. I do quite like Gaps. - 14/06/2011 05:31:05 AM 1275 Views
Why all this vitriol? - 14/06/2011 05:18:16 AM 1227 Views
Book clubs? Bullshit! women shouldn't be reading at all!!! - 15/06/2011 01:28:41 AM 1224 Views
Re: Oh wow, nice. - 14/06/2011 12:25:53 PM 1107 Views
Perhaps one day I'll get a Chinese husband. - 14/06/2011 04:41:59 AM 1384 Views
Spain, Norway, Japan? - 14/06/2011 04:38:43 AM 1285 Views
Norway is the only one that passes. - 14/06/2011 01:14:54 PM 1151 Views
I really like the Netherlands - 14/06/2011 01:29:08 PM 1235 Views
Re: I really like the Netherlands - 14/06/2011 04:51:11 PM 1101 Views
Why did I pick that one? Because you completely ignore men's part in a culture that sexually - 14/06/2011 07:54:39 AM 1290 Views
Helene, you're also not an American woman. - 14/06/2011 01:03:23 PM 1305 Views
You're not American either. *NM* - 14/06/2011 02:26:34 PM 459 Views
I didn't ignore it at all. I just bracketed it. It's quite possible, you know. - 14/06/2011 08:49:03 PM 1280 Views
You have strange expectations and ideas of me. *NM* - 14/06/2011 08:52:09 PM 563 Views
Likewise. BFF? *NM* - 14/06/2011 09:08:53 PM 498 Views
Nice! /me high Fives Helene!! *NM* - 14/06/2011 02:32:27 AM 474 Views
Oh, but I can do any and all of these things! - 14/06/2011 12:06:41 AM 1287 Views
I said there were exceptions. - 14/06/2011 03:50:27 AM 1157 Views
True. - 14/06/2011 09:03:46 PM 1089 Views
hey! I really like your poem "name" - syllables knowing other lovers - excellent. - 15/06/2011 01:49:06 AM 1065 Views
Thanks! *NM* - 15/06/2011 09:44:18 PM 600 Views
I agree. - 13/06/2011 01:23:51 PM 1246 Views
Obviously inside the bedroom. - 13/06/2011 05:17:31 PM 1333 Views
Inside the bedroom? Sure. I could agree. But you're not American anyway. - 13/06/2011 08:52:42 PM 1191 Views
You're basically just saying that American attitudes toward sex results in repressed women - 13/06/2011 09:03:47 PM 1313 Views
Theoretically they can be "unrepressed". But why waste the time and effort? - 13/06/2011 10:06:52 PM 1331 Views
How can you tell it's because she cares, instead of because that's what's traditionally expected - 13/06/2011 10:48:12 PM 1261 Views
That's a good point! *NM* - 15/06/2011 04:49:11 AM 579 Views
The answer is that it doesn't matter. - 16/06/2011 05:35:47 PM 1315 Views
I agree that the answer doesn't matter - 16/06/2011 07:09:44 PM 1003 Views
It's funny - 13/06/2011 02:51:03 PM 1373 Views
Well of course you can't see the faults of American women. You're American. - 13/06/2011 08:51:35 PM 1286 Views
I'm sure that American women, along with all other women on earth - 13/06/2011 09:00:33 PM 1306 Views
It's not my job to make a girl comfortable about her sexuality. - 13/06/2011 10:03:27 PM 1239 Views
THIS *NM* - 13/06/2011 10:09:14 PM 558 Views
If the sex is all there is, then yes, makes sense. - 13/06/2011 10:18:15 PM 1291 Views
Who willingly goes into a relationship knowing the sex will be bad? - 14/06/2011 03:52:43 AM 1217 Views
You and your friends? - 14/06/2011 05:46:53 AM 1193 Views
And you don't think that the men in these relationships contributed to the current situation at all? - 14/06/2011 07:59:15 AM 1012 Views
In this particular aspect, absolutely not. - 14/06/2011 02:19:33 PM 1173 Views
Of course I consider that you might be right - 14/06/2011 03:59:50 PM 1302 Views
I'm not ignoring any complexities - 14/06/2011 05:00:04 PM 1246 Views
Loads of people, if that's compensated by other things? - 14/06/2011 08:38:45 PM 1355 Views
I would rather be in a good marriage with bad sex than the other way around *NM* - 14/06/2011 10:33:27 PM 668 Views
I suspect that you are in a good marriage with good sex. - 16/06/2011 01:55:29 AM 1273 Views
Of course it is your job as a sex partner to make your partner feel comfortable about being with you - 13/06/2011 10:50:52 PM 1139 Views
THIS. *NM* - 13/06/2011 11:49:28 PM 550 Views
I was going to say the same. - 14/06/2011 12:11:18 AM 1338 Views
Like fucking Hell it is. - 14/06/2011 12:18:02 AM 1085 Views
You're totally cracking me up in here. - 14/06/2011 12:30:39 AM 1260 Views
You think you're offending me? - 14/06/2011 01:10:56 AM 1263 Views
No. - 14/06/2011 08:01:45 PM 1294 Views
Have you ever been accused of date rape? - 14/06/2011 12:46:30 AM 1032 Views
No. And that's an absurd question. - 14/06/2011 01:08:13 AM 1175 Views
No, the point you were arguing was absurd. I just pointed out what you were arguing. - 14/06/2011 08:03:13 AM 1304 Views
Let's cut the sophistry - 14/06/2011 02:24:52 PM 1272 Views
What's the definition of prude anyway? - 14/06/2011 03:58:03 PM 1146 Views
If that's what you wanted to say, it would have helped for you to be more explicit. - 14/06/2011 04:10:43 PM 1265 Views
"Why do these women use sex as a manipulative tool?" - 14/06/2011 05:06:33 PM 1249 Views
It seems to me there is a very simple answer to that question. - 14/06/2011 05:26:09 PM 1222 Views
I don't think it works at all. - 14/06/2011 05:48:48 PM 1136 Views
Your anecdotal evidence suggests otherwise. - 14/06/2011 06:31:28 PM 1400 Views
I don't think so. - 15/06/2011 03:50:25 AM 1148 Views
I agree with every single thing you just said. *NM* - 15/06/2011 05:03:05 AM 472 Views
Oddly enough, I do too - 15/06/2011 02:00:39 PM 1297 Views
I agree with Sareitha. Women do that because it (apears to) works for them, in the short term - 14/06/2011 08:28:11 PM 1104 Views
I can't see that I would put up with that either - 14/06/2011 10:32:09 PM 1194 Views
Right - 14/06/2011 10:59:10 PM 1167 Views
mode was a typeo but I guess it still works - 14/06/2011 11:23:11 PM 1312 Views
A fairly self-aware American. With many female friends, even - 13/06/2011 11:59:34 PM 1278 Views
Yeah I don't buy that "most American girls are prudes" concept - 14/06/2011 04:10:37 PM 877 Views
I think most of it depends on the "type" of girl a guy goes for. - 14/06/2011 11:09:34 PM 1199 Views
some times there is a fine line between kinky and perverted sometimes there isn't - 14/06/2011 11:32:17 PM 1276 Views
A moment - 14/06/2011 05:01:05 PM 1172 Views
Camilla, I'm trying to keep this at arm's length a bit. - 14/06/2011 05:42:18 PM 1185 Views
But you started it. - 14/06/2011 08:43:47 PM 1250 Views
I did start it, yes. - 16/06/2011 03:32:54 PM 1156 Views
You should have quit before this. - 16/06/2011 03:46:01 PM 1276 Views
No, I shouldn't have. - 16/06/2011 04:03:21 PM 1180 Views
The problem with your list is that it's performance-oriented. - 16/06/2011 10:45:22 PM 1139 Views
Of course it's performance-oriented. - 16/06/2011 10:54:22 PM 1078 Views
This really made me laugh - 16/06/2011 04:26:32 PM 1177 Views
Re: I did start it, yes. - 16/06/2011 03:46:06 PM 1073 Views
Yes, we do! - 16/06/2011 04:04:02 PM 1251 Views
Having now looked over the smileys - 16/06/2011 04:09:55 PM 1213 Views
See what I'm talking about? - 16/06/2011 07:09:10 PM 1181 Views
That may have been the worst pun ever! *NM* - 17/06/2011 12:47:50 AM 585 Views
I try *NM* - 17/06/2011 09:57:32 AM 574 Views
Take is up the ass or you are a prude? - 16/06/2011 04:09:54 PM 1415 Views
You didn't read the list very well. - 16/06/2011 07:08:19 PM 1200 Views
It appears I didn't read it very well. I apologize for that - 16/06/2011 10:16:02 PM 1127 Views
No problems. - 16/06/2011 10:57:46 PM 1105 Views
Re: The idea that If it hurts it's not being done right - Not neccessarily. - 17/06/2011 01:13:18 AM 1204 Views
It just requires more preparation. - 17/06/2011 04:49:52 AM 1567 Views
I have to say, I actually find this list reasonable. - 16/06/2011 04:35:40 PM 1172 Views
I agree - 16/06/2011 05:10:07 PM 1074 Views
Exactly! It's the "nexus of activity" sort of idea. - 16/06/2011 07:18:33 PM 1089 Views
If I weren't such a prude (3), I would post this list to facebook. - 16/06/2011 05:08:05 PM 1244 Views
In other words, you aren't a prude on that scale. - 16/06/2011 07:20:35 PM 1106 Views
Eh - 16/06/2011 08:17:31 PM 1276 Views
You mixed up prudishness and sexual compatibility with you - 16/06/2011 05:21:31 PM 1316 Views
This. *NM* - 16/06/2011 06:18:41 PM 640 Views
No I didn't. - 16/06/2011 07:14:27 PM 1164 Views
Calling my response a knee jerk reaction is just silly, and in itself, a knee jerk response. - 16/06/2011 07:38:28 PM 1417 Views
Okay. I'm going to just stop replying. - 16/06/2011 08:28:02 PM 986 Views
Your world view is just too self referential to be - 16/06/2011 08:36:39 PM 1209 Views
As is yours. *NM* - 16/06/2011 08:44:10 PM 451 Views
That makes no sense. You have the narrower view. *NM* - 16/06/2011 09:07:37 PM 564 Views
So you say. *NM* - 16/06/2011 09:09:21 PM 594 Views
Question - 16/06/2011 07:42:37 PM 1206 Views
Ha Ha, who cares about the guy? It is only female sexuality that is on trial. - 16/06/2011 08:06:33 PM 1102 Views
That is an incorrect assumption. - 16/06/2011 08:30:08 PM 1153 Views
Awww you didn't take my bait! - 16/06/2011 08:44:16 PM 1085 Views
There's very little I haven't been willing to do - 16/06/2011 08:52:31 PM 1187 Views
Hehehe, But *I* recall it! - 16/06/2011 09:22:40 PM 1233 Views
Wait, I think I know what you're talking about. - 16/06/2011 09:27:20 PM 1171 Views
Damn, I was going to guess "in a coffin". - 16/06/2011 09:31:36 PM 1369 Views
Seriously? - 16/06/2011 09:50:20 PM 1235 Views
The girl was never a girlfriend or a sexual partner. - 16/06/2011 11:06:38 PM 1199 Views
I'm reminded of an ex of mine - 16/06/2011 08:32:34 PM 995 Views
That's really awful. - 16/06/2011 09:16:33 PM 1274 Views
Of course. - 16/06/2011 08:29:11 PM 1017 Views
Fair enough *NM* - 17/06/2011 07:20:38 PM 576 Views
THIS!! LISTEN!! the woman is * lightbulb* speaking from a woman's perspective. - 14/06/2011 02:52:26 AM 1290 Views
Your way out of line - 14/06/2011 02:55:46 AM 1074 Views
Wondering why we're still single, are we? Try a minimum of politeness first. - 14/06/2011 03:21:15 AM 1047 Views
What B/c i sank you YOUR level? Piss Off. AS if I give 2 shits what you think about me. - 16/06/2011 02:19:04 AM 1382 Views
I read this. - 16/06/2011 03:40:51 AM 1298 Views
The name-calling is uncalled for, Rebecca - 16/06/2011 11:10:04 AM 1243 Views
Given the vehemence of your response, you do care. - 16/06/2011 03:19:42 PM 1310 Views
I appreciate the support, - 14/06/2011 10:37:20 PM 1237 Views
Your journal entry is revealing. You sound bitter and hurt. I hope you find the healing you need. - 15/06/2011 01:40:23 AM 1242 Views
You know what? not called for. *NM* - 15/06/2011 02:05:14 PM 423 Views
Why not? - 15/06/2011 11:59:36 PM 1134 Views
The first portion of what you said, isn't yours to say. - 16/06/2011 03:43:57 PM 930 Views
I'm with Anastasia on this. - 16/06/2011 06:39:56 PM 1295 Views
Re: It's funny - 14/06/2011 03:50:13 AM 1268 Views
Re: It's funny - 14/06/2011 10:28:32 PM 1340 Views
On a completely unrelated note - 14/06/2011 11:03:58 PM 1164 Views
Re: On a completely unrelated note - 14/06/2011 11:14:18 PM 1181 Views
Bummer *NM* - 14/06/2011 11:20:24 PM 558 Views
TMJ is right. - 15/06/2011 02:11:57 PM 1230 Views
Re: TMJ is right. - 16/06/2011 12:22:10 AM 1307 Views
Yes. - 16/06/2011 03:41:05 PM 1089 Views
Re: Yes. - 17/06/2011 01:51:11 AM 1034 Views
Gee thanks. - 17/06/2011 05:04:37 AM 1507 Views
Didn't suit you. - 18/06/2011 12:58:53 AM 1258 Views
On a totally unrelated note... - 15/06/2011 01:43:23 AM 1196 Views
Excuse me while I go hit something. A journalism major perhaps. *NM* - 12/06/2011 09:09:26 PM 568 Views
Stunning rebuttal!!! *NM* - 12/06/2011 10:07:39 PM 431 Views
Theres nothing there I really need to refute.... - 13/06/2011 01:20:43 AM 1110 Views
Well, thanks for contributing nothing to the discussion. *NM* - 13/06/2011 04:41:56 AM 448 Views
Is there a reason you feel the need to jump up my ass? *NM* - 13/06/2011 05:16:53 AM 607 Views
Your winning personality? - 13/06/2011 03:45:09 PM 1196 Views
I'd say 'endearing' is the proper term. - 13/06/2011 10:43:01 PM 1159 Views
Nice name new. - 15/06/2011 01:44:25 AM 1157 Views
Wow. Interesting. *NM* - 13/06/2011 07:04:08 AM 547 Views
Giving up porn (a male perspective) - 13/06/2011 04:29:52 PM 1271 Views
Thanks for sharing. ^_^ *NM* - 13/06/2011 09:05:51 PM 589 Views
Re: It's a sexy topic, but all these generalizations are becoming wet blankets. - 14/06/2011 02:13:31 AM 1263 Views
I think you are spot on with the seal theory. - 14/06/2011 05:16:59 PM 1295 Views
[something less snarky] - 14/06/2011 10:17:18 PM 1336 Views
Re: What? - 15/06/2011 12:01:36 AM 1276 Views
Re: What? - 15/06/2011 12:20:56 AM 1248 Views
Re: How come your 1st edit is not at all what was originally posted? - 15/06/2011 03:06:02 AM 1285 Views
About time to reevaluate Tom's claims, I think, eh? *NM* - 15/06/2011 03:59:31 AM 571 Views
my turn: what? - 15/06/2011 04:12:51 AM 1320 Views
Wow, well speaking as a prude... - 14/06/2011 03:36:23 AM 1312 Views
Funny how so many fault lines rupture in the comments to posts like this - 14/06/2011 04:23:23 AM 1374 Views
To quote Cat Valente: - 14/06/2011 04:37:39 AM 1125 Views
It is a two-way street, unfortunately - 14/06/2011 04:40:58 AM 1218 Views
so the problem is southern women are just not good enough for you? - 14/06/2011 01:51:30 PM 1203 Views
No, more like not similar enough - 14/06/2011 04:13:52 PM 1228 Views
Some people aren't cut out to be in a relationship - 14/06/2011 04:25:09 PM 1249 Views
True - 14/06/2011 04:56:05 PM 1068 Views
As someone who has never lived under the same roof more than five consecutive years - 14/06/2011 06:06:10 PM 1312 Views
Job. Always a job matter. - 14/06/2011 11:22:33 PM 1352 Views
Try south Texas, you may not notice you are not in South America - 15/06/2011 02:44:21 AM 1166 Views
Ha! I used to live in the metro Miami area, so I know what you mean - 15/06/2011 03:20:41 AM 1203 Views
sweet jesus you are crazy - 15/06/2011 04:38:28 AM 1030 Views
Maybe, but it certainly drains me of being involved much elsewhere - 15/06/2011 05:29:21 AM 1267 Views
Why all this vitriol? - 14/06/2011 05:19:47 AM 1183 Views
It started there here: - 14/06/2011 01:06:32 PM 1235 Views
Tom made an untenable comment - 14/06/2011 01:21:06 PM 1174 Views
Book clubs are scary places - 14/06/2011 05:03:03 PM 968 Views
Chocolate, wine, books. Also tea? - 14/06/2011 09:00:06 PM 1283 Views
Maybe without the wine? - 15/06/2011 05:06:53 AM 1149 Views
I don't feel particularly vitriolic. - 14/06/2011 10:18:44 PM 1175 Views
I didn't mean you... - 15/06/2011 05:24:56 AM 1154 Views
We haven't had one of these in a while! - 14/06/2011 06:36:18 AM 1256 Views
Agreed. I laughed, I cried, it was touching. *NM* - 14/06/2011 08:49:40 AM 426 Views
This post got more abused than a nasty Japanese bukkake! Lol. *NM* - 15/06/2011 10:07:04 AM 629 Views
I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. - 14/06/2011 03:15:28 PM 1229 Views
Re: I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. - 14/06/2011 03:27:51 PM 1323 Views
Oh yeah. - 14/06/2011 03:31:42 PM 1372 Views
- 14/06/2011 08:48:55 PM 1261 Views
I think I've read pretty much all of it. I think it's better than porn. Well, bad porn. - 14/06/2011 11:01:20 PM 1225 Views
that was funny *NM* - 15/06/2011 02:42:13 AM 452 Views
Bad porn is the worst! - 15/06/2011 02:13:59 PM 1098 Views
You know what Tom, it occurs to me that this is very American thinking. - 15/06/2011 03:07:00 AM 1184 Views
Actually, my Russian guy friends tend to be more vehement than I am on this point. - 15/06/2011 05:12:51 AM 1493 Views
Huh, could it be because most Russians are atheist? - 15/06/2011 05:36:47 AM 1290 Views
That could be a major part of it - 16/06/2011 09:06:21 PM 1133 Views
Ah, you've seen EuroTrip, too. *NM* - 17/06/2011 01:52:27 AM 568 Views

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