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I don't feel particularly vitriolic. nossy Send a noteboard - 14/06/2011 10:18:44 PM
If you don't like the women on this side of the Atlantic then don't date/marry them. Problem solved. Everyone's happy. And the prudes can hook up with each other. But wait- is it only women that are prudes? Then the men can hook up with each other and the women will attend book clubs.


Ah, you know, same old same old. Someone is wrong on the internet.
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He’s Just Not That Into Anyone (an article about watching porn and men's changing libidos). everynametaken - 11/06/2011 10:52:10 PM 3543 Views
I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. Tom - 12/06/2011 02:01:40 AM 1302 Views
Re: I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. everynametaken - 12/06/2011 08:49:39 PM 1624 Views
A lot of guys who get hooked on porn don't know how to approach women Helene - 12/06/2011 10:55:17 PM 1520 Views
Funny Urza - 13/06/2011 01:22:28 AM 1468 Views
You obviously never had a fulfilling long term sexual relationship with a woman. Helene - 13/06/2011 10:43:23 AM 1258 Views
Oh My Urza - 13/06/2011 03:29:34 PM 1292 Views
*giggle* Camilla - 13/06/2011 03:46:28 PM 1365 Views
What did I do to put a bee in your bonnet? *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 06:23:01 PM 626 Views
Bee? Camilla - 13/06/2011 06:24:35 PM 1271 Views
Oh, I tend to be loving and appreciative Helene - 13/06/2011 05:08:56 PM 1263 Views
That isnt fair, Helene *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 06:22:25 PM 650 Views
What isn't fair? Helene - 13/06/2011 08:07:08 PM 1516 Views
I'm not looking for someone to fix, but the not fair bit I was refering to was little irony dig *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:10:11 PM 671 Views
You don't need to be broken to enjoy being appreciated Helene - 13/06/2011 10:17:01 PM 1262 Views
No, Helene, You repeatedly attempt to sidetrack discussion with attacks against my person Urza - 13/06/2011 10:20:01 PM 1399 Views
But it makes me feel good Helene - 13/06/2011 10:45:07 PM 1266 Views
I'm not a hedonist Urza - 13/06/2011 10:57:25 PM 1424 Views
If you really wanted to debate the actual issue, you would have. *NM* Helene - 13/06/2011 11:51:53 PM 546 Views
So indignant! Novo - 13/06/2011 11:53:41 PM 1395 Views
I don't believe that at all. everynametaken - 13/06/2011 04:48:26 AM 1425 Views
Ok, perhaps I can't talk from experience... as that group of men has self selected out of the game Helene - 13/06/2011 10:47:59 AM 1313 Views
Entirely agree *NM* ironclad - 13/06/2011 04:33:04 PM 692 Views
Showing appreciation is a losing strategy. Tom - 13/06/2011 04:55:09 AM 1397 Views
So you don't know how to open a woman up sexually Helene - 13/06/2011 10:51:17 AM 1430 Views
Oh how clever of you! Tom - 13/06/2011 09:59:01 PM 1446 Views
Not to gang up on you or anything, but... Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:15:57 PM 1388 Views
If you'ld actually read his post Tom gave reasons beyond lack of sexual adventuressness *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:17:11 PM 684 Views
Of which the "letting you do your own thing" was the only one I can take seriously. Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:30:10 PM 1224 Views
So rather than adress your disagreement on the facts you just pretended he didn't say them? *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:34:02 PM 657 Views
Seriously? You're trying to debate now? Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:37:21 PM 1280 Views
Your disregard for rationality offends me. Urza - 13/06/2011 10:40:29 PM 1399 Views
I'm sure that there are Eastern European women who will fulfill the "traditionally female role"? Helene - 13/06/2011 10:43:43 PM 1365 Views
It's that the prudishness is indicative of a more general sense of entitlement and manipulativeness. Dan - 13/06/2011 11:02:20 PM 1467 Views
Yes. And "passive-aggressive behavior" is another one I'd add. *NM* Tom - 13/06/2011 11:18:40 PM 562 Views
So far in this debate, you've only displayed your feelings of entitlement Helene - 14/06/2011 12:05:16 AM 1296 Views
I give to the relationship. I give a shitload of money. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:13:47 AM 1292 Views
Bringing in money does not a relationship make. The rest, however, sounds a lot better Helene - 14/06/2011 12:38:45 AM 1347 Views
So Let me understand what you are saying... StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:40:50 AM 1374 Views
I'm not sure, based on that response, you're capable of understanding anything at all. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:17:37 AM 1389 Views
I can see why you might have trouble finding an American woman who would agree with that random thoughts - 14/06/2011 02:00:49 PM 1401 Views
Guys have their own problems, but the conversation is revolving around women at the moment. *NM* *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 01:23:20 AM 668 Views
The conversation did start being about MEN's problems. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:36:36 AM 1324 Views
Be good, Ana. Urza - 14/06/2011 03:40:12 AM 1134 Views
You may be mistaken. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:54:28 AM 1375 Views
Thats unfortuanate, Ana Urza - 14/06/2011 03:58:50 AM 1233 Views
I am introspecting, yes. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:02:32 AM 1243 Views
No, I wasnt attempting to do so Urza - 14/06/2011 04:09:29 AM 1422 Views
Re: You may be mistaken. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:21:16 AM 1391 Views
The only reason the conversation is revolving around women is because Tom laid all the blame at Helene - 14/06/2011 07:35:34 AM 1432 Views
Let's be clear: I was speaking about American women *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:10:10 PM 577 Views
Oh, that part is quite clear. *NM* nossy - 14/06/2011 08:25:08 PM 701 Views
Wow.. all the misogynists came out to play Helene - 13/06/2011 11:57:05 PM 1414 Views
I'm glad you're in here. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:04:03 AM 1400 Views
Seconded *NM* Camilla - 14/06/2011 04:46:38 PM 632 Views
I don't see a lot of misogyny. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:59:06 AM 1177 Views
You are blind to misogyny because you lack awareness in that area Helene - 14/06/2011 07:38:48 AM 1273 Views
Okay, so I'm a date rapist and a misogynist...real classy Tom - 14/06/2011 02:11:40 PM 1185 Views
I neither called you a date rapist nor a misogynist Helene - 14/06/2011 03:10:46 PM 1218 Views
Why misogynist? Why not Anti-American? Dan - 14/06/2011 01:32:17 AM 1777 Views
So, which women are better than American women? Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:38:38 AM 1458 Views
Re: Haha Gaps - 14/06/2011 04:18:46 AM 1295 Views
You seem very intent on coming off as the smartest guy in the room. Dan - 14/06/2011 04:40:26 AM 1446 Views
I think that's an unfair characterization of the RP board Isaac - 14/06/2011 04:58:29 AM 1342 Views
Ha! I'm just fucking around. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:14:20 AM 1301 Views
Re: Ha! I'm just fucking around. Isaac - 14/06/2011 05:42:37 AM 1176 Views
Who are you, again? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:07:04 AM 1154 Views
Tsk. I need to be more memorable. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:16:33 AM 1454 Views
Well, try to be more openminded. Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:22:52 AM 1376 Views
Fair enough. I do quite like Gaps. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:31:05 AM 1374 Views
Why all this vitriol? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:18:16 AM 1373 Views
Book clubs? Bullshit! women shouldn't be reading at all!!! everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:28:41 AM 1331 Views
Re: Oh wow, nice. Gaps - 14/06/2011 12:25:53 PM 1204 Views
Perhaps one day I'll get a Chinese husband. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:41:59 AM 1484 Views
Er, see my post withe country names in it. I hate this messageboard layout. *NM* *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 04:50:31 AM 650 Views
Spain, Norway, Japan? Dan - 14/06/2011 04:38:43 AM 1391 Views
Norway is the only one that passes. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:14:54 PM 1250 Views
I really like the Netherlands Helene - 14/06/2011 01:29:08 PM 1338 Views
Re: I really like the Netherlands Camilla - 14/06/2011 04:51:11 PM 1197 Views
Why did I pick that one? Because you completely ignore men's part in a culture that sexually Helene - 14/06/2011 07:54:39 AM 1400 Views
Helene, you're also not an American woman. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:03:23 PM 1403 Views
It's the people who make sweeping generalisations about American women who need to defend themselves Helene - 14/06/2011 01:18:43 PM 1241 Views
You're not American either. *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:26:34 PM 519 Views
I didn't ignore it at all. I just bracketed it. It's quite possible, you know. Dan - 14/06/2011 08:49:03 PM 1400 Views
You have strange expectations and ideas of me. *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 08:52:09 PM 628 Views
Likewise. BFF? *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 09:08:53 PM 560 Views
I don't exactly expect to influence your opinion, just to voice my own. Helene - 13/06/2011 10:40:39 PM 1258 Views
The last part summed it up nicely. That was all I thought you meant anyway. Tashmere - 14/06/2011 03:17:45 AM 1244 Views
Nice! /me high Fives Helene!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:32:27 AM 532 Views
Oh, but I can do any and all of these things! Novo - 14/06/2011 12:06:41 AM 1396 Views
I said there were exceptions. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:50:27 AM 1256 Views
True. Novo - 14/06/2011 09:03:46 PM 1190 Views
hey! I really like your poem "name" - syllables knowing other lovers - excellent. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:49:06 AM 1184 Views
Thanks! *NM* Novo - 15/06/2011 09:44:18 PM 657 Views
I agree. Aeryn - 13/06/2011 01:23:51 PM 1345 Views
Obviously inside the bedroom. Helene - 13/06/2011 05:17:31 PM 1423 Views
Inside the bedroom? Sure. I could agree. But you're not American anyway. Tom - 13/06/2011 08:52:42 PM 1287 Views
You're basically just saying that American attitudes toward sex results in repressed women Helene - 13/06/2011 09:03:47 PM 1416 Views
Theoretically they can be "unrepressed". But why waste the time and effort? Tom - 13/06/2011 10:06:52 PM 1425 Views
How can you tell it's because she cares, instead of because that's what's traditionally expected Helene - 13/06/2011 10:48:12 PM 1371 Views
That's a good point! *NM* Vivien - 15/06/2011 04:49:11 AM 639 Views
The answer is that it doesn't matter. Vivien - 16/06/2011 05:35:47 PM 1423 Views
I agree that the answer doesn't matter Helene - 16/06/2011 07:09:44 PM 1102 Views
It's funny nossy - 13/06/2011 02:51:03 PM 1477 Views
Well of course you can't see the faults of American women. You're American. Tom - 13/06/2011 08:51:35 PM 1390 Views
I'm sure that American women, along with all other women on earth Helene - 13/06/2011 09:00:33 PM 1415 Views
It's not my job to make a girl comfortable about her sexuality. Tom - 13/06/2011 10:03:27 PM 1331 Views
THIS *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:09:14 PM 622 Views
If the sex is all there is, then yes, makes sense. Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:18:15 PM 1406 Views
Who willingly goes into a relationship knowing the sex will be bad? Tom - 14/06/2011 03:52:43 AM 1313 Views
You and your friends? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:46:53 AM 1297 Views
And you don't think that the men in these relationships contributed to the current situation at all? Helene - 14/06/2011 07:59:15 AM 1116 Views
In this particular aspect, absolutely not. Tom - 14/06/2011 02:19:33 PM 1273 Views
Of course I consider that you might be right Helene - 14/06/2011 03:59:50 PM 1412 Views
I'm not ignoring any complexities Tom - 14/06/2011 05:00:04 PM 1347 Views
^ And this response immediately above is my last. This is eating into a real workday now. ^ Tom - 14/06/2011 05:53:43 PM 1303 Views
Loads of people, if that's compensated by other things? Legolas - 14/06/2011 08:38:45 PM 1459 Views
I would rather be in a good marriage with bad sex than the other way around *NM* random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:33:27 PM 732 Views
I suspect that you are in a good marriage with good sex. Tashmere - 16/06/2011 01:55:29 AM 1363 Views
Of course it is your job as a sex partner to make your partner feel comfortable about being with you Helene - 13/06/2011 10:50:52 PM 1243 Views
THIS. *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 11:49:28 PM 608 Views
I was going to say the same. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:11:18 AM 1445 Views
Like fucking Hell it is. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:18:02 AM 1182 Views
You're totally cracking me up in here. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:30:39 AM 1366 Views
You think you're offending me? Tom - 14/06/2011 01:10:56 AM 1366 Views
No. nossy - 14/06/2011 08:01:45 PM 1393 Views
Have you ever been accused of date rape? Helene - 14/06/2011 12:46:30 AM 1139 Views
No. And that's an absurd question. Tom - 14/06/2011 01:08:13 AM 1268 Views
No, the point you were arguing was absurd. I just pointed out what you were arguing. Helene - 14/06/2011 08:03:13 AM 1401 Views
Let's cut the sophistry Tom - 14/06/2011 02:24:52 PM 1377 Views
What's the definition of prude anyway? Vivien - 14/06/2011 03:58:03 PM 1242 Views
If that's what you wanted to say, it would have helped for you to be more explicit. Helene - 14/06/2011 04:10:43 PM 1377 Views
"Why do these women use sex as a manipulative tool?" Tom - 14/06/2011 05:06:33 PM 1352 Views
It seems to me there is a very simple answer to that question. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 05:26:09 PM 1340 Views
I don't think it works at all. Tom - 14/06/2011 05:48:48 PM 1235 Views
Your anecdotal evidence suggests otherwise. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 06:31:28 PM 1504 Views
I don't think so. Tashmere - 15/06/2011 03:50:25 AM 1255 Views
I agree with every single thing you just said. *NM* Tom - 15/06/2011 05:03:05 AM 538 Views
Oddly enough, I do too Sareitha Sedai - 15/06/2011 02:00:39 PM 1388 Views
I agree with Sareitha. Women do that because it (apears to) works for them, in the short term Helene - 14/06/2011 08:28:11 PM 1202 Views
I can't see that I would put up with that either random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:32:09 PM 1293 Views
Right nossy - 14/06/2011 10:59:10 PM 1270 Views
mode was a typeo but I guess it still works random thoughts - 14/06/2011 11:23:11 PM 1411 Views
I haven't tried it either. Seems to me like that is closely related to The Silent Treatment. Tashmere - 15/06/2011 03:43:45 AM 1418 Views
A fairly self-aware American. With many female friends, even nossy - 13/06/2011 11:59:34 PM 1375 Views
Yeah I don't buy that "most American girls are prudes" concept random thoughts - 14/06/2011 04:10:37 PM 977 Views
I think most of it depends on the "type" of girl a guy goes for. nossy - 14/06/2011 11:09:34 PM 1297 Views
some times there is a fine line between kinky and perverted sometimes there isn't random thoughts - 14/06/2011 11:32:17 PM 1381 Views
A moment Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:01:05 PM 1273 Views
Camilla, I'm trying to keep this at arm's length a bit. Tom - 14/06/2011 05:42:18 PM 1295 Views
But you started it. nossy - 14/06/2011 08:43:47 PM 1351 Views
I did start it, yes. Tom - 16/06/2011 03:32:54 PM 1255 Views
You should have quit before this. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:46:01 PM 1382 Views
No, I shouldn't have. Tom - 16/06/2011 04:03:21 PM 1269 Views
The problem with your list is that it's performance-oriented. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 10:45:22 PM 1250 Views
Of course it's performance-oriented. Tom - 16/06/2011 10:54:22 PM 1191 Views
This really made me laugh Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 04:26:32 PM 1291 Views
Re: I did start it, yes. Camilla - 16/06/2011 03:46:06 PM 1180 Views
Yes, we do! Tom - 16/06/2011 04:04:02 PM 1354 Views
Having now looked over the smileys Camilla - 16/06/2011 04:09:55 PM 1318 Views
See what I'm talking about? Tom - 16/06/2011 07:09:10 PM 1278 Views
That may have been the worst pun ever! *NM* Tashmere - 17/06/2011 12:47:50 AM 653 Views
I try *NM* Camilla - 17/06/2011 09:57:32 AM 630 Views
Take is up the ass or you are a prude? random thoughts - 16/06/2011 04:09:54 PM 1516 Views
Maybe Tom will make allowances for preferences instead of an unwillingness because it's "wrong"? *NM* Helene - 16/06/2011 04:22:45 PM 620 Views
You didn't read the list very well. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:08:19 PM 1312 Views
It appears I didn't read it very well. I apologize for that random thoughts - 16/06/2011 10:16:02 PM 1237 Views
No problems. Tom - 16/06/2011 10:57:46 PM 1214 Views
Re: The idea that If it hurts it's not being done right - Not neccessarily. Tashmere - 17/06/2011 01:13:18 AM 1319 Views
It just requires more preparation. Tom - 17/06/2011 04:49:52 AM 1671 Views
I have to say, I actually find this list reasonable. Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 04:35:40 PM 1288 Views
I agree nossy - 16/06/2011 05:10:07 PM 1171 Views
Exactly! It's the "nexus of activity" sort of idea. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:18:33 PM 1185 Views
If I weren't such a prude (3), I would post this list to facebook. nossy - 16/06/2011 05:08:05 PM 1354 Views
In other words, you aren't a prude on that scale. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:20:35 PM 1202 Views
Eh nossy - 16/06/2011 08:17:31 PM 1407 Views
You mixed up prudishness and sexual compatibility with you Helene - 16/06/2011 05:21:31 PM 1420 Views
This. *NM* Camilla - 16/06/2011 06:18:41 PM 696 Views
No I didn't. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:14:27 PM 1262 Views
Calling my response a knee jerk reaction is just silly, and in itself, a knee jerk response. Helene - 16/06/2011 07:38:28 PM 1510 Views
Okay. I'm going to just stop replying. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:28:02 PM 1087 Views
Your world view is just too self referential to be Helene - 16/06/2011 08:36:39 PM 1309 Views
As is yours. *NM* Tom - 16/06/2011 08:44:10 PM 509 Views
That makes no sense. You have the narrower view. *NM* Helene - 16/06/2011 09:07:37 PM 621 Views
So you say. *NM* Tom - 16/06/2011 09:09:21 PM 662 Views
Question ßelals Girl - 16/06/2011 07:42:37 PM 1308 Views
Ha Ha, who cares about the guy? It is only female sexuality that is on trial. Vivien - 16/06/2011 08:06:33 PM 1196 Views
That is an incorrect assumption. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:30:08 PM 1266 Views
Awww you didn't take my bait! Vivien - 16/06/2011 08:44:16 PM 1186 Views
There's very little I haven't been willing to do Tom - 16/06/2011 08:52:31 PM 1290 Views
Hehehe, But *I* recall it! Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:22:40 PM 1331 Views
Wait, I think I know what you're talking about. Tom - 16/06/2011 09:27:20 PM 1273 Views
Damn, I was going to guess "in a coffin". Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 09:31:36 PM 1467 Views
She's significantly younger than O'Donnell, and was better looking. Tom - 16/06/2011 09:33:51 PM 1284 Views
Seriously? Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:50:20 PM 1374 Views
The girl was never a girlfriend or a sexual partner. Tom - 16/06/2011 11:06:38 PM 1305 Views
I'm reminded of an ex of mine Helene - 16/06/2011 08:32:34 PM 1093 Views
That's really awful. Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:16:33 PM 1379 Views
When you're with a person who appreciates you, it's not like that at all Helene - 16/06/2011 09:29:32 PM 1085 Views
Of course. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:29:11 PM 1118 Views
Fair enough *NM* ßelals Girl - 17/06/2011 07:20:38 PM 637 Views
THIS!! LISTEN!! the woman is * lightbulb* speaking from a woman's perspective. StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:52:26 AM 1390 Views
Your way out of line Urza - 14/06/2011 02:55:46 AM 1171 Views
Wondering why we're still single, are we? Try a minimum of politeness first. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:21:15 AM 1151 Views
Where did I insinuate you can't please women? *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 08:05:14 AM 535 Views
I refer you to "So you don't know how to open a woman up sexually" *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:09:40 PM 558 Views
That's not about pleasing, that's about making someone feel confident and safe Helene - 14/06/2011 04:13:24 PM 1345 Views
What B/c i sank you YOUR level? Piss Off. AS if I give 2 shits what you think about me. StarrBecca - 16/06/2011 02:19:04 AM 1484 Views
Becca, can you pinpoint the moment you became a bitter worndown shell of a woman? *NM* Urza - 16/06/2011 03:21:21 AM 627 Views
I read this. Ectheledhel - 16/06/2011 03:40:51 AM 1414 Views
The name-calling is uncalled for, Rebecca ironclad - 16/06/2011 11:10:04 AM 1342 Views
Given the vehemence of your response, you do care. Tom - 16/06/2011 03:19:42 PM 1420 Views
I appreciate the support, nossy - 14/06/2011 10:37:20 PM 1352 Views
Your journal entry is revealing. You sound bitter and hurt. I hope you find the healing you need. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:40:23 AM 1344 Views
You know what? not called for. *NM* Aeryn - 15/06/2011 02:05:14 PM 479 Views
Why not? everynametaken - 15/06/2011 11:59:36 PM 1239 Views
The first portion of what you said, isn't yours to say. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:43:57 PM 1036 Views
I'm with Anastasia on this. Legolas - 16/06/2011 06:39:56 PM 1398 Views
Re: It's funny Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:50:13 AM 1365 Views
Re: It's funny nossy - 14/06/2011 10:28:32 PM 1446 Views
On a completely unrelated note ironclad - 14/06/2011 11:03:58 PM 1261 Views
Re: On a completely unrelated note TaskmasterJack - 14/06/2011 11:14:18 PM 1276 Views
Bummer *NM* ironclad - 14/06/2011 11:20:24 PM 627 Views
TMJ is right. Aeryn - 15/06/2011 02:11:57 PM 1327 Views
Re: TMJ is right. TaskmasterJack - 16/06/2011 12:22:10 AM 1403 Views
Yes. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:41:05 PM 1199 Views
Re: Yes. TaskmasterJack - 17/06/2011 01:51:11 AM 1138 Views
Gee thanks. Aeryn - 17/06/2011 05:04:37 AM 1601 Views
Didn't suit you. TaskmasterJack - 18/06/2011 12:58:53 AM 1366 Views
On a totally unrelated note... everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:43:23 AM 1310 Views
Excuse me while I go hit something. A journalism major perhaps. *NM* Urza - 12/06/2011 09:09:26 PM 632 Views
Stunning rebuttal!!! *NM* everynametaken - 12/06/2011 10:07:39 PM 493 Views
Theres nothing there I really need to refute.... Urza - 13/06/2011 01:20:43 AM 1199 Views
Well, thanks for contributing nothing to the discussion. *NM* everynametaken - 13/06/2011 04:41:56 AM 507 Views
Is there a reason you feel the need to jump up my ass? *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 05:16:53 AM 675 Views
Your winning personality? Camilla - 13/06/2011 03:45:09 PM 1294 Views
I'd say 'endearing' is the proper term. Novo - 13/06/2011 10:43:01 PM 1259 Views
Nice name new. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:44:25 AM 1251 Views
Wow. Interesting. *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 07:04:08 AM 615 Views
Giving up porn (a male perspective) Postsecret - 13/06/2011 04:29:52 PM 1389 Views
Thanks for sharing. ^_^ *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 09:05:51 PM 658 Views
of course looking at tons of porn all the time is going to affect men random thoughts - 13/06/2011 11:15:02 PM 1452 Views
You make a lot of sense, thanks for posting and adding your perspective. *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 12:11:03 AM 509 Views
Re: It's a sexy topic, but all these generalizations are becoming wet blankets. Gaps - 14/06/2011 02:13:31 AM 1373 Views
I think this and the replies by Post Secret and random thoughts all kind of get at my ideas here. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 02:30:52 PM 1410 Views
There is way too much crap in this thread, but I give this reply my seal of approval. *NM* Nate - 14/06/2011 05:02:04 PM 651 Views
I think you are spot on with the seal theory. Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:16:59 PM 1389 Views
Dirty motherfuckers! We need to lift all bans on whaling immediately to stem this momentum! *NM* everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:56:30 AM 652 Views
[something less snarky] nossy - 14/06/2011 10:17:18 PM 1434 Views
Re: What? Gaps - 15/06/2011 12:01:36 AM 1383 Views
Re: What? nossy - 15/06/2011 12:20:56 AM 1353 Views
Re: How come your 1st edit is not at all what was originally posted? Gaps - 15/06/2011 03:06:02 AM 1374 Views
About time to reevaluate Tom's claims, I think, eh? *NM* Dan - 15/06/2011 03:59:31 AM 634 Views
my turn: what? nossy - 15/06/2011 04:12:51 AM 1424 Views
Wow, well speaking as a prude... Isaac - 14/06/2011 03:36:23 AM 1416 Views
Funny how so many fault lines rupture in the comments to posts like this Larry - 14/06/2011 04:23:23 AM 1487 Views
To quote Cat Valente: Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:37:39 AM 1255 Views
It is a two-way street, unfortunately Larry - 14/06/2011 04:40:58 AM 1321 Views
so the problem is southern women are just not good enough for you? random thoughts - 14/06/2011 01:51:30 PM 1306 Views
No, more like not similar enough Larry - 14/06/2011 04:13:52 PM 1332 Views
Some people aren't cut out to be in a relationship Helene - 14/06/2011 04:25:09 PM 1346 Views
True Larry - 14/06/2011 04:56:05 PM 1173 Views
As someone who has never lived under the same roof more than five consecutive years random thoughts - 14/06/2011 06:06:10 PM 1404 Views
Job. Always a job matter. Larry - 14/06/2011 11:22:33 PM 1443 Views
Try south Texas, you may not notice you are not in South America random thoughts - 15/06/2011 02:44:21 AM 1271 Views
Ha! I used to live in the metro Miami area, so I know what you mean Larry - 15/06/2011 03:20:41 AM 1296 Views
sweet jesus you are crazy random thoughts - 15/06/2011 04:38:28 AM 1134 Views
Maybe, but it certainly drains me of being involved much elsewhere Larry - 15/06/2011 05:29:21 AM 1375 Views
Why all this vitriol? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:19:47 AM 1290 Views
It started there here: Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:06:32 PM 1338 Views
Tom made an untenable comment Helene - 14/06/2011 01:21:06 PM 1265 Views
Interestingly, the article talked about men being prudish in their real lives. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:27:00 PM 1375 Views
I figure this may be true, but I can't speak from a lot of experience. Helene - 14/06/2011 04:23:08 PM 1222 Views
I was writing a lengthy reply to disagree, but then I ended up rather close to where you stand. Legolas - 14/06/2011 09:17:55 PM 1308 Views
I think men do worry if their wife is to focused on sex random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:26:56 PM 1398 Views
Re: I think men do worry if their wife is to focused on sex Macharius - 15/06/2011 02:26:30 PM 1205 Views
Book clubs are scary places Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:03:03 PM 1053 Views
Chocolate, wine, books. Also tea? Novo - 14/06/2011 09:00:06 PM 1391 Views
Maybe without the wine? Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:06:53 AM 1249 Views
I don't feel particularly vitriolic. nossy - 14/06/2011 10:18:44 PM 1263 Views
I didn't mean you... Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:24:56 AM 1255 Views
We haven't had one of these in a while! ßelals Girl - 14/06/2011 06:36:18 AM 1346 Views
Agreed. I laughed, I cried, it was touching. *NM* Ghavrel - 14/06/2011 08:49:40 AM 480 Views
Yes, it takes a good flame war to get the engines firing on all cylinders. Stephen - 14/06/2011 02:00:20 PM 1211 Views
This post got more abused than a nasty Japanese bukkake! Lol. *NM* everynametaken - 15/06/2011 10:07:04 AM 692 Views
I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. Tigr - 14/06/2011 03:15:28 PM 1322 Views
Re: I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:27:51 PM 1416 Views
Oh yeah. Tigr - 14/06/2011 03:31:42 PM 1472 Views
nossy - 14/06/2011 08:48:55 PM 1354 Views
I think I've read pretty much all of it. I think it's better than porn. Well, bad porn. TaskmasterJack - 14/06/2011 11:01:20 PM 1331 Views
that was funny *NM* random thoughts - 15/06/2011 02:42:13 AM 505 Views
Bad porn is the worst! Tigr - 15/06/2011 02:13:59 PM 1203 Views
You know what Tom, it occurs to me that this is very American thinking. Vivien - 15/06/2011 03:07:00 AM 1289 Views
Actually, my Russian guy friends tend to be more vehement than I am on this point. Tom - 15/06/2011 05:12:51 AM 1609 Views
Huh, could it be because most Russians are atheist? Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:36:47 AM 1409 Views
That could be a major part of it Tom - 16/06/2011 09:06:21 PM 1249 Views
Well, there's no question that a prior consultation with me could strengthen any argument. *NM* Vivien - 16/06/2011 10:36:12 PM 585 Views
Ah, you've seen EuroTrip, too. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 17/06/2011 01:52:27 AM 620 Views
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