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Yes, it is. Praziquantel Send a noteboard - 15/06/2011 03:12:27 AM
It is not acceptable, but you might try to figure out why he's changed the way he has. Maybe he needs help?

My husband will frequently smack me on the ass playfully, but last night he did it hard, in anger, and because I challenged him. I didn't realize what it was at first because he does do it playfully, but when I turned around I saw the fire in his eyes, and all because I joked around about not wanting him to add something to the dinner I was cooking.
I told him what he did wasn't okay but he didn't apologize. I think we all know the only place it can go from here. The only thing is he hit me on the ass. It's not like I can go to the ER with a black eye. That's my predicament...that I can't prove anything. He's been more and more controlling lately and I'm not easily controlled so we've been butting heads.
It is still hitting, and it is still a big deal, right?
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It's still hitting, right? Postsecret - 14/06/2011 10:07:15 PM 743 Views
Yes. That's not okay. *NM* Darth_Katie - 14/06/2011 10:21:53 PM 128 Views
Yes. It's not at all ok, and it is a big deal. Morgawse - 14/06/2011 10:41:47 PM 439 Views
I know they sound like dumb questions. Postsecret - 14/06/2011 10:49:47 PM 436 Views
No, it's not dumb. Morgawse - 14/06/2011 11:03:05 PM 379 Views
Yes, it is. Praziquantel - 15/06/2011 03:12:27 AM 373 Views
He shouldn't hit you but don't overreact. Tom - 15/06/2011 05:00:16 AM 396 Views
That all sounds like very good advice. Joel - 15/06/2011 07:47:06 AM 391 Views
Maybe you should start earning a living. *NM* Ectheledhel - 15/06/2011 07:52:39 AM 186 Views
THIS *NM* Urza - 15/06/2011 08:02:00 AM 130 Views
Maybe you and Capt. Industry are the last people who should give me time management advice. Joel - 15/06/2011 08:47:07 AM 351 Views
Ah, still hiding behind this name? Not nice of you to crawl out from under your rock, now go back. *NM* everynametaken - 16/06/2011 12:06:53 AM 118 Views
It's important to protect your boundaries Helene - 15/06/2011 01:35:37 PM 337 Views
How upset you get about it is up to you but you really don't need to prove anything random thoughts - 15/06/2011 01:55:46 PM 381 Views
Is it an event or is it a pattern? Sareitha Sedai - 15/06/2011 02:12:50 PM 364 Views
Have you been able to talk to him about the incident? StarrBecca - 16/06/2011 02:22:24 AM 334 Views
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