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Re: /Simple Question: at what point do you tell people you "know" a language or "speak" it? Stephen Send a noteboard - 24/06/2011 01:21:52 PM
I am from time to time confronted with the question, "How many languages do you speak?" and the answer is usually difficult because I'm not sure what level of proficiency people are asking about. I suspect that a lot of people around here speak more than one language and that many people have some knowledge of a language but would pause and say "er..." or some variant of that if someone asked if they knew or spoke it.

The thing is that I think the answer to the question varies, depending on why you're being asked. For business purposes, I list several languages in my bio because I want to get as much business as possible. Even there, though, I don't list all the languages that I've studied (and that's not restricted to the dead languages). On Facebook, I haven't listed any languages because the people who do are usually (but not always - I add that because I haven't looked at what all my friends listed ;) ) also the same people who are bragging about this, that and the other and so it seems a bit pretentious.

Of course, I also remember when I started working at my first law firm. They had a "face book" (physical thing, not social media) for all the new attorneys, and a very nice young woman listed as her languages "French, Ancient Greek, Latin" when I am fairly certain that only living languages were requested (for purposes of staffing attorneys to particular transactions - perhaps she was angling for a nice deal with the Vatican).

I suppose there are actually several questions here, although they're variations on the same one:

1. How much of a language should you know to tell someone you know it?

It depends on the environment, but my definition would be conversational fluency.
2. How much of a language should you know to list on a resume or work bio?

Combination of literate and conversational near fluency.
3. How much of a language should you know to list on social media?

Well, I list German and Irish, both of which i'd have an okay conversational understanding, while my literate Irish fluency would be moderate.
4. How many languages do you know and what are they?

English and the two aforementioned languages. Also, I'm generally able to decipher menus in Romance languages.
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/Simple Question: at what point do you tell people you "know" a language or "speak" it? - 24/06/2011 02:49:51 AM 856 Views
Here's what I tell various people - 24/06/2011 03:09:45 AM 650 Views
Interesting - 24/06/2011 10:23:04 PM 614 Views
I thought the same - 24/06/2011 10:29:03 PM 1078 Views
Not sure but I am almost there with English *NM* - 24/06/2011 03:52:30 AM 265 Views
neat question. - 24/06/2011 06:36:09 AM 621 Views
I'd say it depends on the purpose... - 24/06/2011 10:04:48 AM 773 Views
I agree that it varies on why you're being asked - 24/06/2011 10:45:02 AM 713 Views
- 24/06/2011 09:01:42 PM 567 Views
I tend to give a long speech - 24/06/2011 11:02:22 AM 628 Views
Re: /Simple Question: at what point do you tell people you "know" a language or "speak" it? - 24/06/2011 01:21:52 PM 648 Views
Agree with jh - 24/06/2011 02:19:21 PM 641 Views
I think if you would be able to make not just basic needs known... - 24/06/2011 04:58:05 PM 630 Views
check noteboard *NM* - 25/06/2011 04:38:48 PM 404 Views
Very good question. - 24/06/2011 08:22:47 PM 687 Views
I had a feeling you might enjoy the survey. - 24/06/2011 10:50:47 PM 538 Views
What can I say, I'm predictable? - 25/06/2011 01:00:49 AM 618 Views
Two words: constant practice - 25/06/2011 02:34:52 AM 682 Views
True. - 25/06/2011 04:13:06 PM 631 Views
"Sank beneath the the waves of the Lethe" is an incredible phrase. *NM* - 26/06/2011 06:01:00 AM 264 Views
Glad you enjoyed it! *NM* - 26/06/2011 05:08:49 PM 316 Views
If you have at least an elementary school understanding of the language - 24/06/2011 10:19:45 PM 606 Views
My own survey answers - 24/06/2011 11:07:12 PM 644 Views
Funny how your taste in languages still to learn parallels mine to a great extent. - 25/06/2011 01:04:36 AM 593 Views
Yeah, and I realized that last list should include Farsi and Arabic. - 25/06/2011 02:24:06 AM 588 Views
I suppose Farsi must be easier than Arabic. - 26/06/2011 11:18:23 AM 634 Views
Yes and no. - 26/06/2011 05:08:29 PM 1687 Views
Interesting. Makes sense, I guess. - 26/06/2011 05:49:25 PM 624 Views
The timing of your question makes me giggle. - 26/06/2011 04:05:07 AM 700 Views

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