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First off, what the hell? Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 29/09/2009 06:33:37 AM
Personally, I find 13 to be too young in my opinion, but I have been raised with modern western values, which conditions us this way. Two to three hundred years ago (if even that) a man in his 30s sleeping with a teen under 16 wouldn't even cause people to bat an eye, unless they weren't married.


I mean, I'm not saying black people are inferior, but there's a correlation between race and IQ, and two to three hundred years ago a man having sex with his slave against her will would be seen as making use of his property.

Not that that's right. But I've been raised with western values, so who's to say what's really right?

2) The only reason (IMO) children in our era lack in maturity (as defined by adults, btw) is the way we tend to coddle them, and hide the realities of the world from them, especially when it comes to procreation. The "victim" of Polanski's crime has admitted it was consensual, but still the charge is considered rape (statutory).

You can't give consent when you're drunk. Which she was. Because he gave her alcohol. So not only was it statutory rape, which is a perfectly decent reason to throw the bastard in jail, but it was flat-out non-consensual rape as well.

And no, I am NOT IN ANY WAY condoning Mr. Polanski's actions, nor am I excusing them.

Which is why you just wrote that post...
"We feel safe when we read what we recognise, what does not challenge our way of thinking.... a steady acceptance of pre-arranged patterns leads to the inability to question what we are told."
~Camilla

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Roman Polanski arrested in Switzerland on U.S. Arrest Warrant - 27/09/2009 12:47:16 PM 756 Views
Ignore, this is just a repeat. Thought I hit edit. - 27/09/2009 12:48:31 PM 397 Views
The new website seems to make that more common, at least for me - 27/09/2009 04:33:52 PM 277 Views
And it only took three decades *NM* - 27/09/2009 12:57:40 PM 164 Views
Excellent. Good news. - 27/09/2009 03:28:28 PM 338 Views
Very good - 27/09/2009 04:37:40 PM 343 Views
That point sort of struck me too... - 27/09/2009 04:50:54 PM 298 Views
oh well you know kids these days... - 27/09/2009 05:12:51 PM 337 Views
that'd technically be "those days". *NM* - 27/09/2009 08:21:57 PM 126 Views
Right. - 27/09/2009 08:12:06 PM 327 Views
That's the point that jumps out at me, too. - 27/09/2009 05:01:09 PM 314 Views
This is pointless - 27/09/2009 05:30:01 PM 337 Views
Actually, maybe not. - 27/09/2009 05:56:31 PM 318 Views
true, but - 27/09/2009 08:16:28 PM 356 Views
Doesn't work that way - 27/09/2009 09:17:27 PM 302 Views
Was I the only one who was shocked when he got a standing ovation at the Oscars awhile back? - 28/09/2009 12:59:23 AM 261 Views
He gets a somewhat skewed sympathy vote from a lot of people because of the murder of his wife - 28/09/2009 01:58:16 AM 420 Views
Well said. - 28/09/2009 04:03:00 AM 346 Views
Yes, - 28/09/2009 12:37:29 PM 324 Views
It's been 30 years. He does not seem to have done it again - 28/09/2009 01:48:26 PM 300 Views
They don't have to try him he plead guility - 28/09/2009 02:43:12 PM 324 Views
Meh. It's been 30 years. - 28/09/2009 04:03:51 PM 332 Views
Did she say she forgave him? - 29/09/2009 01:15:46 AM 319 Views
Yes, she did. *NM* - 29/09/2009 02:54:47 PM 130 Views
After he paid her off I assume? - 29/09/2009 07:06:37 PM 316 Views
We wouldn't be having this discussion if it hadn't been so long. - 29/09/2009 07:46:21 PM 343 Views
Don't you think laws have to stand whether the perp is forgiven by the victim or not? - 29/09/2009 02:58:18 AM 303 Views
No, I don't think it should. - 29/09/2009 02:55:13 PM 312 Views
How long do you have to stay away before you're absolved of murder? - 29/09/2009 02:56:58 AM 285 Views
Murder and sex with a minor are not the same thing. - 29/09/2009 02:54:10 PM 284 Views
I heard a bit more about it this morning - 28/09/2009 03:33:42 PM 278 Views
I'm not saying that sex with 13 year olds is right or anything, but... - 28/09/2009 10:49:29 PM 423 Views
First off, what the hell? - 29/09/2009 06:33:37 AM 292 Views
can't consent when drunk? - 01/10/2009 09:24:39 PM 258 Views
With a 13 year old? Sex is NEVER consensual. - 01/10/2009 09:39:35 PM 270 Views
This too. - 02/10/2009 02:30:45 AM 240 Views
Was I unclear? - 02/10/2009 02:30:30 AM 291 Views
I'm safe - 02/10/2009 07:11:07 PM 273 Views
Good. Point still stands. - 03/10/2009 05:43:12 AM 263 Views
Sorry but you are excusing his action - 29/09/2009 03:54:02 PM 276 Views
Wrong place *NM* - 29/09/2009 07:12:31 PM 124 Views

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