Many women in lower classes cannot afford the healthcare that would have warned them about it. And many can't afford contraceptives. And to say "no one is forcing you to get pregnant" is utter bullshit. Perhaps you're one of those "good" men that don't do such things, but you're certainly glossing over all the situations where women in this country do not have control over their own bodies whether they are in a relationship or not. Welcome to what's called patriarchy, interlocking oppressions and our rape culture. Pick up a book on intersectionality feminist theory and educate yourself. Stop being a rape-apologist. And quit glorifying male privilege, it won't do you any favours in life.