Your posts have tended to come off fairly open-minded and fair. The sticking point, I think, tends to come from everyone being thousands of miles away from each other and essentially anonymous. It seems to make a lot of them ruder, and nobody wants to give ground, consciously or otherwisee, to someone who's manners are atrocious. The way some people act and talk on this site, I tend to think if they said such things in 'real life' they'd be held in such low opinion by those around them that people would have kneel down to spit on them.