How you start your day off qualifies as more than one of those needs and for many of us that's a cup of coffee

A good mate, if they knew you liked coffee, would endeavor to make good coffee. I've spent a great deal of effort over the years learning to prepare the foods, drinks, etc that a given girlfriend, or just friend, enjoyed. The videos are amusing and of course the people were tactless but it doesn't change that such a conversation could never take place in the real world with a loving partner on the other side, because they'd have asked or watched for signs that the food/drink was not satisfactory and sought to remedy it.