You did not REALLY participate in the FUN aspect of this particular post. Which is the whole POINT. TO engage with each other. I get everyone is sulky about not having chat. We all Loved chat. Benjamin has cited numerous reasons that it is not feasible for him to have a chat room. what does everyone want from him, blood? why is leaving a message here any, ANY different than leaving a message on Facebook? Other than your precious cellphone will not ding to let you know someone replied to your post on Facebook? Marriages and children, and great friendships were created, and it seems a terrible waste of Ben's time for everyone to abandon ship, especially when, for some of us...Wotmania was our home, our link to the world. I have to say, It seems like all the posts are about politics and boring as fuck. And Yes, RAFO lacks a certain shininess, but that isn't Ben's fault. That's OUR fault. Our family changed, and it happens. Members die, new members are born, circle of life, baby.