View original postthis is why passing "yes means yes" laws are so important, because otherwise it's up to the victim to prove they said "no". it's the victim's decision to pursue rape charges. and it's up to the accused to prove they did not rape the victim. if a victim says they were raped, they should be believed until it can be proven that they were not raped. end of story.
In a situation where both parties were inebriated, how exactly do you prove you did not rape someone?
Would: "He/She never said 'No'" work?
How about: "He/She moaned and made other pleasurable noises throughout"?
If going in a jury has to assume the accused did indeed rape the accuser, I doubt that would be good enough. What sort of defense do you use when the obligation of proving your innocence lies on you? You wouldn't be a defendant at that point, you would be on offense.
Drunk Sex
- 03/03/2015 03:32:30 PM
1168 Views
Shouldn't the manner of getting hammered factor in ?
- 03/03/2015 05:31:48 PM
720 Views
I think it is sort of like guys getting drunk as an excuse to sleep with ugly girls
- 03/03/2015 07:00:54 PM
578 Views
It's worth reading the BBC and Telegraph articles your article links to.
- 03/03/2015 06:23:32 PM
831 Views
I am more interested in the trend in general and not this specific law
- 03/03/2015 07:10:20 PM
660 Views
A lot of those studies are based on adjusting the goalposts for rape
- 04/03/2015 12:58:06 AM
517 Views
[citation needed]
- 04/03/2015 10:13:38 PM
485 Views
As opposed to all those articles you link which argue against your point?
- 04/03/2015 11:52:34 PM
841 Views
They'd better enforce it equally *NM*
- 03/03/2015 06:28:38 PM
247 Views
*NM*
it's pretty simple actually: don't take advantage of someone who isn't in their right state of mind
- 03/03/2015 11:21:54 PM
460 Views
But they are making it complicated
- 04/03/2015 12:12:27 AM
503 Views
no, it's actually turning the burden of proof onto the accused as it should be
- 04/03/2015 10:09:59 PM
652 Views
Re: no, it's actually turning the burden of proof onto the accused as it should be
- 04/03/2015 11:29:00 PM
521 Views
Why are women having sex the only people immune from bad decisions while intoxicate?
- 04/03/2015 03:59:31 PM
529 Views
who are you to decide what is rape and what is not?
- 04/03/2015 09:55:35 PM
563 Views
That really does set the normal criminal justice system on its head.
- 04/03/2015 11:41:04 PM
619 Views
He isn't giving some far left rant but simply stating the policy of the Obama adminstartion.
- 09/03/2015 03:14:13 PM
490 Views
The only rational one the in this conversation by all appearances.
- 05/03/2015 02:39:56 AM
551 Views
So you're guilty until proven innocent??
- 06/03/2015 01:52:47 AM
743 Views
They get around all that proof stuff by keeping it out of the courts
- 09/03/2015 04:34:21 PM
478 Views
When you break the big laws, you don't get freedom or even anarchy, you get the small laws.
- 04/03/2015 12:46:41 AM
686 Views
wow, what a quaint world you pine for
- 04/03/2015 10:23:43 PM
527 Views
Your posts are valuable; each time I read one, I realize I'd forgotten how dumb you are.
- 04/03/2015 11:44:26 PM
642 Views