And I am with Legolas that you need to let her know about what bothers you about this (but without losing it). That is part of what annoys (I realise that is a bit of a weak word) you about her way of dealing with your problems, after all.
Yeah, I know that. I'm leaving it for counselling in hopes it can be more positive rather than just mean.
But good luck. I can't believe how well you are dealing with this.
Thank you. I don't like this AT ALL, but it's there and I have to deal with it.
I do get a choice on HOW I deal with it, so I'm choosing to be as good a person as I can be. Worst comes to worse at least that will be remembered by someone.
May God stand between you and harm in all the empty places you must walk.
Old Egyptian Blessing
Old Egyptian Blessing
Taking the high road isn't easy...
- 25/03/2010 03:27:47 PM
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I think the counseling will help, assuming it's with somebody good
- 25/03/2010 03:44:47 PM
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I'm pretty much committed at this point
- 25/03/2010 03:50:26 PM
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Showing your anger isn't necessarily bad if you can do it without really losing your temper...
- 25/03/2010 04:24:03 PM
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I hate the high road.
- 25/03/2010 05:30:19 PM
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Well, actually she's still running her D&D game
- 25/03/2010 07:05:23 PM
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Venting is good
- 25/03/2010 05:40:50 PM
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Well, I'm doing my best
- 25/03/2010 07:07:28 PM
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The best thing you can do is to speak to her when your anger isn't flaring, but be honest.
- 25/03/2010 07:08:48 PM
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You know...we're not close & we frequently do not get along....
- 25/03/2010 07:57:01 PM
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Make sure you keep records of the money you give her and the clothes you buy.
- 25/03/2010 09:34:49 PM
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I told you. Medication.
- 25/03/2010 10:04:11 PM
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I have to Agree, I think your wife needs psyche help, and medical help.
- 25/03/2010 11:13:48 PM
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