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The breach of trust isn't her fault, no. Rebekah Send a noteboard - 06/07/2010 01:49:06 PM
The relationship with a married man is every bit as much her fault as it is his. Considering her social group, there's no way she didn't know he was a married man, so to agree to/start (no idea which made the first move) a relationship was morally wrong of her.

That's where the "it takes two to tango" bit comes in.

If she was attracted to him, or wanted to say yes, then morally what she should have done was say "get in contact with me if your marriage is ever over" or something similar.
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stay classy. *NM* Jessie - 03/07/2010 04:26:30 AM 307 Views
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If you watch television... Dragonsoul - 06/07/2010 12:46:18 AM 530 Views
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Right. Dragonsoul - 06/07/2010 03:13:56 PM 580 Views
No, but implying someone will be "raped" by "packs" of them is BlackAdder - 06/07/2010 02:57:11 AM 760 Views
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