I just think your favorite little word makes you sound like a 15 year old who is still defensive about his sexuality. I'm really not trying to be rude, but if we were at bar and you busted out with that most of the gays I know (and I've lived in some of the gayest places on earth) would roll their eyes and laugh at you. It's the type of word you make up simply to make the hetro folk feel comfortable around "the gays".

Use it to your hearts content for all of me.