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you are having trouble finding cultural ideas that turned bad? random thoughts Send a noteboard - 08/06/2011 11:56:23 PM
How about setting up a welfare system where mothers could not get aid unless they did not have a man living in the house with them. Entire generations were raised fatherless and there was little or no social pressure for the fathers to responsibility for their children.

We you talk about all these terrible things can't you see why most parents want to shield their children from these things if possible? For the bad things you describe there are still a lot positives in the world, probably more than ever. You will get happier and better adjusted kids if you can teach them to focus on those positives and not wallow in misery over things they can't change and probably don't even really understand anyways.
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Re: Why waste time with "YA literature" at all? - 06/06/2011 02:28:42 PM 772 Views
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You seem to be the only one who thinks so. *NM* - 07/06/2011 01:17:18 AM 304 Views
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Heh. - 08/06/2011 07:24:44 PM 1074 Views
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Your response is about where I sit. - 06/06/2011 12:30:04 PM 931 Views
Nope, this is stupid - 05/06/2011 06:38:51 PM 923 Views
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Re: Parents have the right and resonsibility to know what their children are reading - 06/06/2011 12:40:24 PM 980 Views
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I am being an idiot? - 09/06/2011 04:10:28 PM 941 Views
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A+++ would read this reply again *NM* - 06/06/2011 10:23:11 PM 316 Views
+1 *NM* - 07/06/2011 01:12:16 AM 307 Views
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Indeed. Everything she said. *NM* - 07/06/2011 06:13:20 PM 285 Views
it does take a lot of work to keep track of your kids - 07/06/2011 05:02:55 AM 1012 Views
*I agree with this* *NM* - 07/06/2011 01:18:58 PM 376 Views

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