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Mary's still presented as better than Lydia and their mother. Kind of. Legolas Send a noteboard - 26/04/2012 08:40:40 PM
Love Hardy. Read some of his other books (except Tess, couldn't, not knowing what happens and Hardy makes me feel plenty as it is) and Jude made the biggest impact.

I saw that movie, which is enough to make me never, ever want to read the book. I do intend to read Far From the Madding Crowd and some others though.
Mary: So it's not just bookishness, it's also poor social skills. So what? She never hurt anyone. Given all the anti-bullying campaigns, people are surprisingly quick to defend it whenever they do see it happen- it's as if "real" bullying occurs in a vacuum. It doesn't. Many times the object/victim of the bullying has done some something to be seen as the appropriate object/victim. That doesn't make it ok.

Mr. Bennet says at one point in the book something to the effect of "I have two, no, I should say three, very silly daughters". He considers Mary as silly, yes, but not as much so as her sisters. Of course the thing with Mary is that even her "silly" sisters and mother like to pick on her, but then, that is hardly approved of by the author, or by the heroines Elizabeth and Jane.

She's a female counterpart to Mr. Collins, really - on the few occasions that she gets the opportunity to proclaim her views, she does so nearly as pompously and overbearingly as he does. Of course Mr. Collins ends up in a far better place than she does, but then Austen's books just aren't fair when it comes to comparing men and women, seeing how the society they are set in wasn't. Reading books isn't her flaw; the religious obsession and pomposity are. If you want to read about what happens when Austen makes a similar character into her heroine and glorifies her, I suggest you read Mansfield Park. But somehow I rather doubt you'll like it more.
Edit: hahaha, that totally explains why I couldn't enjoy Pride and Prejudice- I didn't see myself as Elizabeth, I totally put myself in Mary's shoes. I will naturally identify with the person that is worst off. This doesn't interfere with the author's vision when it's someone like Hardy- his protaganist is usually the one worst off. Conversely, this is why I couldn't read Martin.

That's an odd way to read books... though very noble, to be sure.
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Just read Pride and Prejudice again. - 25/04/2012 04:21:27 PM 1783 Views
honestly...I liked it better with zombies. - 25/04/2012 05:15:12 PM 1478 Views
Never read that. - 25/04/2012 10:14:51 PM 1434 Views
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Dawn of the Dreadfuls wasn't bad... - 26/04/2012 02:04:13 PM 1412 Views
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No idea. - 25/04/2012 10:16:35 PM 1468 Views
My fault? Thanks to me, I think you mean. - 26/04/2012 08:52:15 PM 1413 Views
Love it - 25/04/2012 08:06:58 PM 1450 Views
I know. - 25/04/2012 10:16:58 PM 1305 Views
Re: I know. - 01/05/2012 06:31:21 PM 1660 Views
I love Thomas Hardy. - 25/04/2012 08:33:41 PM 1392 Views
Hm. I never could. Which book particularly? - 25/04/2012 10:09:16 PM 1507 Views
that's what I always thought as well - 25/04/2012 11:42:29 PM 1546 Views
Jude the Obscure. - 26/04/2012 03:10:25 AM 1587 Views
Mary's still presented as better than Lydia and their mother. Kind of. - 26/04/2012 08:40:40 PM 1489 Views
I love Pride and Prejudice! - 26/04/2012 01:20:18 AM 1443 Views
Me too. <3 Darcy *NM* - 27/04/2012 10:42:14 PM 639 Views
See, I keep thinking Jane Austen books are "chick lit" but I like them anyway. - 26/04/2012 02:43:07 AM 1417 Views
Oh, come on. Jane Eyre is a great book. - 26/04/2012 08:42:17 PM 1432 Views
Hated Wuthering Heights. (but not as much as I hate Rochester of course) - 26/04/2012 09:31:13 PM 1489 Views
I don't think the first adaptation is cheating - 26/04/2012 10:04:14 PM 1369 Views
I think it's all cheating. - 26/04/2012 11:22:31 PM 1582 Views
I don't know. - 27/04/2012 12:06:00 AM 1512 Views
I admit she's too good for him - but isn't that part of the point? - 26/04/2012 10:08:13 PM 1493 Views
Clearly, it did work. - 26/04/2012 10:43:00 PM 1582 Views
Jane Eyre is bad chick lit. - 27/04/2012 05:59:55 PM 1380 Views
I do too. - 27/04/2012 10:44:13 PM 1370 Views
I think it's great - 26/04/2012 04:16:52 AM 1384 Views
It's the dialogue that makes it so much fun. - 26/04/2012 05:06:45 AM 1566 Views
Have you seen Lost in Austen? - 26/04/2012 07:59:14 PM 1389 Views
Could someone explain to me why Jane Austen's prose is considered good? - 27/04/2012 12:24:00 AM 1638 Views
I don't like her prose, but I like the dialogue - 27/04/2012 01:55:50 AM 1530 Views
You're not alone. - 27/04/2012 01:16:12 PM 1655 Views
I agree with what others have said - 27/04/2012 02:30:31 PM 1493 Views
Dialogue, wit, characters. The plot and descriptive prose are merely functional, true. - 27/04/2012 11:26:27 PM 1384 Views
The dialogue, wit, and characters I am not puzzled about. - 28/04/2012 03:17:37 AM 1541 Views
That was Dom, you'll have to ask him. - 28/04/2012 10:30:17 AM 1819 Views

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