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How well do you actually know her? Jragghen Send a noteboard - 03/05/2010 11:07:21 PM
Ie, do you talk frequently at all?

Asking her out for something more serious if you don't would probably seem a tad odd. Now, if at some point you're both working together and you suggest grabbing coffee or lunch together, that'd probably be the easiest ice breaker - ie, do something you'd both be doing anyway, but together, and get to know one another. Let things flow naturally from there.

If you do talk frequently and know one another then yeah, I'd say just go ahead and ask if she wants to go do something. Movies kinda suck for first dates, though. Maybe a comedy club? Plenty of time to chit chat before the comedian comes on stage, and then you're off the hook, and it's unique enough an outing that you don't seem cliched?
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So the hot girl at work is single. What to do...? soilent brad - 03/05/2010 11:02:31 PM 1267 Views
How well do you actually know her? Jragghen - 03/05/2010 11:07:21 PM 914 Views
Hmm... you've a point there. soilent brad - 03/05/2010 11:45:36 PM 932 Views
The reason cinema dates are bad is because you can't talk. Tim - 04/05/2010 12:24:33 PM 854 Views
But that's a good thing ironclad - 04/05/2010 12:34:02 PM 868 Views
Hmm... soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:09:56 PM 923 Views
Yes, that does sound a bit like me... soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:07:06 PM 879 Views
Learn to talk. beckstcw - 04/05/2010 01:35:46 AM 921 Views
I'm much more talkative than when I first found wotmania 8 years ago soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:40:46 AM 841 Views
Yes. beckstcw - 04/05/2010 04:47:45 AM 1005 Views
Ah. That makes more sense soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:39:02 AM 799 Views
Um. That already sounds like an awkward date. Tashmere - 04/05/2010 01:52:45 AM 886 Views
Possibly, yes soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:10:27 AM 957 Views
As long as you eventually open up. Tashmere - 04/05/2010 02:26:40 AM 831 Views
Exactly soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:43:48 AM 865 Views
Not really ... I love this girl I work with and she's the exact opposite of me ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 04/05/2010 06:30:44 AM 946 Views
I wasn't referring to differences in culture Tashmere - 04/05/2010 07:46:21 AM 818 Views
That's true ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 04/05/2010 06:43:20 PM 927 Views
Movie and then to a cafe/pub/something not-dinnery afterwards Maria - 04/05/2010 10:59:05 AM 899 Views
Exactly, I find movie dates work great ironclad - 04/05/2010 11:47:51 AM 1231 Views
Talking is the bane of my existance! soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:12:39 PM 890 Views
I'm not much for small talk either. Jacob - 04/05/2010 06:20:51 PM 806 Views
soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:37:09 PM 945 Views
mispost *NM* lyringlas - 04/05/2010 10:22:33 PM 353 Views
If it doesn't work you can spread rumours about her *NM* AgentOrange - 04/05/2010 06:21:33 PM 345 Views
Not to sound too harsh... lyringlas - 04/05/2010 10:24:36 PM 869 Views
I'm an extreme introvert, and can be socially inept even around some of my closest friends/family soilent brad - 05/05/2010 12:30:46 AM 1002 Views
two words: drum solo *NM* fistofpainx - 05/05/2010 01:29:01 AM 386 Views
her BlackAdder - 05/05/2010 04:03:24 AM 921 Views
LOL! Always you, Brad. rebelaessedai - 07/05/2010 07:27:57 PM 798 Views
Always soilent brad - 08/05/2010 06:25:40 AM 966 Views
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