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But that's a good thing ironclad Send a noteboard - 04/05/2010 12:34:02 PM
This makes it tempting for the kind of guy who's too nervous to talk anyway, and likes to just sit there thinking "OMG she's right next to me!" and enjoy torturing himself with the tension, but it isn't very helpful in the long run.

For a while you can just sit there and get comfortable with each other. No one expects the guy to be smart or funny during the film, because everyone's silent anyway. Plus the film gives you a topic to talk about afterwards, where it's easy to add a cup of coffee to prolong the evening.
But I guess you are right, it depends on the kind of guy.
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How well do you actually know her? Jragghen - 03/05/2010 11:07:21 PM 780 Views
Hmm... you've a point there. soilent brad - 03/05/2010 11:45:36 PM 812 Views
The reason cinema dates are bad is because you can't talk. Tim - 04/05/2010 12:24:33 PM 729 Views
But that's a good thing ironclad - 04/05/2010 12:34:02 PM 748 Views
Hmm... soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:09:56 PM 802 Views
Yes, that does sound a bit like me... soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:07:06 PM 754 Views
Learn to talk. beckstcw - 04/05/2010 01:35:46 AM 781 Views
I'm much more talkative than when I first found wotmania 8 years ago soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:40:46 AM 720 Views
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Ah. That makes more sense soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:39:02 AM 690 Views
Um. That already sounds like an awkward date. Tashmere - 04/05/2010 01:52:45 AM 759 Views
Possibly, yes soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:10:27 AM 834 Views
As long as you eventually open up. Tashmere - 04/05/2010 02:26:40 AM 706 Views
Exactly soilent brad - 04/05/2010 02:43:48 AM 738 Views
Not really ... I love this girl I work with and she's the exact opposite of me ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 04/05/2010 06:30:44 AM 821 Views
I wasn't referring to differences in culture Tashmere - 04/05/2010 07:46:21 AM 700 Views
That's true ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 04/05/2010 06:43:20 PM 807 Views
Movie and then to a cafe/pub/something not-dinnery afterwards Maria - 04/05/2010 10:59:05 AM 758 Views
Exactly, I find movie dates work great ironclad - 04/05/2010 11:47:51 AM 1109 Views
Talking is the bane of my existance! soilent brad - 04/05/2010 06:12:39 PM 773 Views
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Not to sound too harsh... lyringlas - 04/05/2010 10:24:36 PM 743 Views
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