for discussing my fathers bank account with me? My friends ex bf works at the bank my father has his business account with and yesterday the messages me on fb saying "damn your father is a baller..." and then I ask why he says that and he tells me about how much money my father has ,and it made me really effing uncomfortable. thats really unprofessional, although i am listed on my fathers business account because I used to send wire transfers for him like years ago, but I never had full access to his account and I havent even sent wires for him in years. also, I dont want this guy looking into my bank accounts in the future since I have the same bank...I friggin feel violated for my dad