Despite several dates, I haven't had a real, local, significant relationship since Winter 2005. It's been more than 5 years.
That said, I'm told the only way to make it work is to keep trying. You're part way there... you at least have promising relationships.
You'll get there soon.
Don't think about settling now, when you're still in the dumps and upset. Right now, take care of yourself, bandage up your emotional wounds, and get Amanda going right. When you're back in ship shape, then go out fishing again. Just don't go bottom trawling... no one wants to date a bottom feeder.
That said, I'm told the only way to make it work is to keep trying. You're part way there... you at least have promising relationships.

You'll get there soon.

Don't think about settling now, when you're still in the dumps and upset. Right now, take care of yourself, bandage up your emotional wounds, and get Amanda going right. When you're back in ship shape, then go out fishing again. Just don't go bottom trawling... no one wants to date a bottom feeder.
I was Phelix on wotmania, I will always be Phelix in the "real" world, and now I am Phelix on RAFO.
You will make all kinds of mistakes; but as long as you are generous and true and also fierce you cannot hurt the world or even seriously distress her.- Churchill
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You will make all kinds of mistakes; but as long as you are generous and true and also fierce you cannot hurt the world or even seriously distress her.- Churchill
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Arrgh! How do people DO it??
- 29/08/2010 12:21:06 AM
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- 29/08/2010 12:21:06 AM
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It seems like you're not making things easier by taking nationality as a criterium...
- 29/08/2010 12:29:59 AM
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I know that
- 02/09/2010 01:51:43 AM
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Move to Germany/Europe, then?
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- 02/09/2010 11:12:37 AM
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- 02/09/2010 11:12:37 AM
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Have you considered simply eating German Chocolate Cake instead? *NM*
- 29/08/2010 02:31:42 AM
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Hm, as others said, try different criteria.
- 29/08/2010 02:56:01 AM
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But she clearly wants a cannibal and Amazonian tribesmen don't have internet! *NM*
- 29/08/2010 03:13:18 AM
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The trick is knowing who you want and being what he wants
- 29/08/2010 07:58:42 AM
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yes they are
- 29/08/2010 05:14:36 PM
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pllp, Americans INVENTED the assembly line, you know
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- 29/08/2010 05:44:31 PM
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- 29/08/2010 05:44:31 PM
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yes but "american efficiency" just doesn't seem to have that world reknown for some reason... *NM*
- 29/08/2010 06:15:13 PM
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Re: What's wrong with being an old maid? *NM*
- 29/08/2010 08:55:47 PM
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Hmmm...
- 30/08/2010 06:27:01 PM
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Re: Being old is good!
- 30/08/2010 07:18:09 PM
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Evolution is working for you if you're passing on genes to your offspring.
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- 30/08/2010 08:08:57 PM
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- 30/08/2010 08:08:57 PM
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We need to learn who were are and be content in singleness before we make a better mate.
- 29/08/2010 09:18:13 PM
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I wouldn't know...
- 30/08/2010 07:55:30 PM
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Aaaaaand I probably shouldn't post right after getting "dumped."
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- 02/09/2010 02:12:16 AM
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- 02/09/2010 02:12:16 AM
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