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I wouldn't know... Phelix Send a noteboard - 30/08/2010 07:55:30 PM
Despite several dates, I haven't had a real, local, significant relationship since Winter 2005. It's been more than 5 years.

That said, I'm told the only way to make it work is to keep trying. You're part way there... you at least have promising relationships. :)

You'll get there soon. :)

Don't think about settling now, when you're still in the dumps and upset. Right now, take care of yourself, bandage up your emotional wounds, and get Amanda going right. When you're back in ship shape, then go out fishing again. Just don't go bottom trawling... no one wants to date a bottom feeder. :)
I was Phelix on wotmania, I will always be Phelix in the "real" world, and now I am Phelix on RAFO.

You will make all kinds of mistakes; but as long as you are generous and true and also fierce you cannot hurt the world or even seriously distress her.- Churchill

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Arrgh! How do people DO it?? - 29/08/2010 12:21:06 AM 1375 Views
Lots of rough sex helps. *NM* - 29/08/2010 12:22:31 AM 329 Views
Yeah. When are you coming over? *NM* - 03/09/2010 07:38:43 PM 477 Views
It seems like you're not making things easier by taking nationality as a criterium... - 29/08/2010 12:29:59 AM 874 Views
^ this - 29/08/2010 01:08:29 AM 747 Views
Re: ^ this - 29/08/2010 01:11:46 AM 977 Views
i know - 29/08/2010 02:27:13 AM 999 Views
erm...excuse me? - 29/08/2010 11:18:05 AM 890 Views
This again. - 29/08/2010 01:56:22 AM 902 Views
Very true *NM* - 29/08/2010 11:19:02 AM 453 Views
I know that - 02/09/2010 01:51:43 AM 882 Views
Move to Germany/Europe, then? *NM* - 02/09/2010 11:12:37 AM 453 Views
They are NOT letting me in - 02/09/2010 08:37:18 PM 903 Views
Yeah, you'd need to get an employer to sponsor you, I imagine. - 02/09/2010 10:41:51 PM 741 Views
*shrugs* - 29/08/2010 01:28:44 AM 1025 Views
Re: *shrugs* - 29/08/2010 05:56:46 PM 976 Views
Re: *shrugs* - 02/09/2010 01:55:47 AM 975 Views
Stop looking. - 29/08/2010 01:51:08 AM 897 Views
<support of wise wisdom from person it worked for> *NM* - 29/08/2010 02:28:15 AM 477 Views
Yes. This is how it was for me. - 03/09/2010 05:17:50 PM 1189 Views
Why Germans?? - 29/08/2010 02:30:39 AM 818 Views
Why not? - 02/09/2010 01:56:28 AM 911 Views
Have you considered simply eating German Chocolate Cake instead? *NM* - 29/08/2010 02:31:42 AM 483 Views
Nope. It's disgusting. - 02/09/2010 01:57:03 AM 910 Views
Well, it's not human flesh, but it's still very good. - 02/09/2010 03:12:45 AM 768 Views
i'm marrying a german. so it can happen... - 29/08/2010 02:53:00 AM 985 Views
Lucky! - 02/09/2010 02:01:56 AM 886 Views
Oh right. I forgot to jump down your throat for this. - 02/09/2010 09:58:19 AM 851 Views
Hm, as others said, try different criteria. - 29/08/2010 02:56:01 AM 976 Views
The trick is knowing who you want and being what he wants - 29/08/2010 07:58:42 AM 855 Views
yes they are - 29/08/2010 05:14:36 PM 876 Views
Wow, really? - 02/09/2010 08:41:46 PM 923 Views
What's attractive about Germans in particular? - 04/09/2010 07:12:13 AM 1078 Views
Are you in Germany? - 29/08/2010 11:42:07 AM 828 Views
I have a thing for Spanish and French girls - 29/08/2010 06:09:03 PM 906 Views
Re: What's wrong with being an old maid? *NM* - 29/08/2010 08:55:47 PM 483 Views
Hmmm... - 30/08/2010 06:27:01 PM 839 Views
Re: Being old is good! - 30/08/2010 07:18:09 PM 861 Views
Sure... sure. - 30/08/2010 07:21:29 PM 929 Views
Re: Means you've survived, right? *NM* - 31/08/2010 12:50:12 AM 446 Views
Evolution is working for you if you're passing on genes to your offspring. *NM* - 30/08/2010 08:08:57 PM 426 Views
Re: No, evolution works for me if I live longer. - 31/08/2010 12:49:26 AM 997 Views
Nothing, if that's what someone wants to be - 02/09/2010 08:38:39 PM 955 Views
We need to learn who were are and be content in singleness before we make a better mate. - 29/08/2010 09:18:13 PM 866 Views
What he said. *NM* - 31/08/2010 10:48:39 PM 489 Views
I know this - 02/09/2010 02:06:28 AM 815 Views
I'd sleep with you......I think. *NM* - 30/08/2010 01:28:53 PM 492 Views
And they say that Chivalry is dead... *NM* - 31/08/2010 03:08:39 PM 459 Views
Wasn't my resume impressive enough? *NM* - 02/09/2010 02:06:52 AM 437 Views
Possible solution - 30/08/2010 06:11:51 PM 975 Views
Way ahead of you - 02/09/2010 02:10:31 AM 1067 Views
I wouldn't know... - 30/08/2010 07:55:30 PM 3176 Views
Even after all these years... - 02/09/2010 02:11:25 AM 960 Views
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Aaaaaand I probably shouldn't post right after getting "dumped." *NM* - 02/09/2010 02:12:16 AM 525 Views
That's silly. - 02/09/2010 02:30:34 PM 985 Views
Aw, thank you *NM* - 03/09/2010 11:03:55 AM 475 Views

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