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Re: Good for you nossy Send a noteboard - 05/10/2010 03:51:14 PM
That's what I keep going back to, staying focused on what's good for me and for my kids. Right now, they don't know what's going on. He's still in the house. He asked to stay until after the holidays and right now I'm ok with that. As hard as this is going to be on them, I want to make it as painless as possible ya know? One thing I keep going back to is that when I look at him now, I see a different person. I have told him that.

Basics are good, I think. I'm sure you do see him differently. That is very important, and again, really honest. I guess you'll just have to decide what that means for you all.

Thanks for being a sounding board.

No problem. I almost didn't get my nose in it, but I thought it might help to have an objective opinion.:)
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