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Or nossy Send a noteboard - 05/10/2010 04:58:57 PM
Here's one of the really hard parts though... He still has to go back to that state twice every year for work. He'll be back in the spring. I won't be able to trust him. It will be in my head the entire time he's there. I don't want to live like that.

Then tell him that, if he's serious about making things right, he has to get a different job that doesn't require him to travel.

Talk to him about it, and see if he can realize what a big thing that is. It's a tricky situation, but if she does decide she can trust him again, she actually has to do so. While it would be hard to avoid, holding this thing over his head for the rest of his life is not healthy either. It's all part of her upcoming choices.:)
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that's really tough nossy - 05/10/2010 03:09:44 PM 750 Views
Re: that's really tough lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:16:41 PM 932 Views
Good for you nossy - 05/10/2010 03:20:24 PM 704 Views
Re: Good for you lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:30:58 PM 929 Views
Re: Good for you nossy - 05/10/2010 03:51:14 PM 758 Views
I don't know what to say. Avendesora - 05/10/2010 03:51:23 PM 701 Views
Okay, then let me be the one to say... ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:04:11 PM 851 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... lil lady - 05/10/2010 04:07:33 PM 976 Views
I know, that'll be the toughest part ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:11:56 PM 698 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... Macharius - 05/10/2010 04:50:44 PM 712 Views
Or nossy - 05/10/2010 04:58:57 PM 741 Views
Yeah. Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:06:11 PM 713 Views
Right nossy - 05/10/2010 05:19:29 PM 711 Views
Re: Or Macharius - 05/10/2010 05:56:19 PM 650 Views
It's possible Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:00:57 PM 707 Views
That's irrelavant. Palatine - 05/10/2010 05:13:00 PM 689 Views
I agree with what Jens said (similarly not knowing any other details) LadyLorraine - 05/10/2010 05:25:18 PM 675 Views
I'm sorry. Camilla - 05/10/2010 05:02:16 PM 673 Views
What happened exactly? Dan - 05/10/2010 05:52:23 PM 717 Views
Re: What happened exactly? lil lady - 05/10/2010 06:01:42 PM 1007 Views
I'm really sorry to hear that... Wulf`gar - 05/10/2010 06:04:54 PM 669 Views
That sucks and there is no easy answer random thoughts - 05/10/2010 06:28:24 PM 675 Views
Cripes. Missa Sedai - 05/10/2010 11:17:21 PM 668 Views
Get yourself tested for STDs ßelals Girl - 06/10/2010 12:43:18 AM 718 Views
*hugs* globug0822 - 06/10/2010 06:00:40 AM 638 Views
That's terrible; I wish I could offer advice, but support and prayers are the best I can do. Joel - 06/10/2010 06:18:02 AM 712 Views
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