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Or nossy Send a noteboard - 05/10/2010 04:58:57 PM
Here's one of the really hard parts though... He still has to go back to that state twice every year for work. He'll be back in the spring. I won't be able to trust him. It will be in my head the entire time he's there. I don't want to live like that.

Then tell him that, if he's serious about making things right, he has to get a different job that doesn't require him to travel.

Talk to him about it, and see if he can realize what a big thing that is. It's a tricky situation, but if she does decide she can trust him again, she actually has to do so. While it would be hard to avoid, holding this thing over his head for the rest of his life is not healthy either. It's all part of her upcoming choices.:)
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So I just had the worst weekend of my life... lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:01:34 PM 1094 Views
that's really tough nossy - 05/10/2010 03:09:44 PM 708 Views
Re: that's really tough lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:16:41 PM 885 Views
Good for you nossy - 05/10/2010 03:20:24 PM 659 Views
Re: Good for you lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:30:58 PM 883 Views
Re: Good for you nossy - 05/10/2010 03:51:14 PM 721 Views
I don't know what to say. Avendesora - 05/10/2010 03:51:23 PM 658 Views
Okay, then let me be the one to say... ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:04:11 PM 806 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... lil lady - 05/10/2010 04:07:33 PM 933 Views
I know, that'll be the toughest part ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:11:56 PM 651 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... Macharius - 05/10/2010 04:50:44 PM 674 Views
Or nossy - 05/10/2010 04:58:57 PM 699 Views
Yeah. Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:06:11 PM 675 Views
Right nossy - 05/10/2010 05:19:29 PM 659 Views
Re: Or Macharius - 05/10/2010 05:56:19 PM 610 Views
It's possible Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:00:57 PM 662 Views
That's irrelavant. Palatine - 05/10/2010 05:13:00 PM 649 Views
I agree with what Jens said (similarly not knowing any other details) LadyLorraine - 05/10/2010 05:25:18 PM 635 Views
I'm sorry. Camilla - 05/10/2010 05:02:16 PM 628 Views
What happened exactly? Dan - 05/10/2010 05:52:23 PM 672 Views
Re: What happened exactly? lil lady - 05/10/2010 06:01:42 PM 965 Views
I'm really sorry to hear that... Wulf`gar - 05/10/2010 06:04:54 PM 622 Views
That sucks and there is no easy answer random thoughts - 05/10/2010 06:28:24 PM 636 Views
Cripes. Missa Sedai - 05/10/2010 11:17:21 PM 621 Views
Get yourself tested for STDs ßelals Girl - 06/10/2010 12:43:18 AM 676 Views
*hugs* globug0822 - 06/10/2010 06:00:40 AM 593 Views
That's terrible; I wish I could offer advice, but support and prayers are the best I can do. Joel - 06/10/2010 06:18:02 AM 664 Views
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