MAYBE if you were giving him any encouragement at all (though that really just improves his chances without making it a good idea) but you were doing anything but that. So, sorry you met a creepy condescending horndog. We're not all like that. Really. If you're ready though, I'm glad you're out there taking your shot, because I'm here to tell you you're never going to find the right person until you start looking (looking in the right places is also important, but I have no advice on that problem I know all too well. ) Keep doing the right things, have faith (in every sense) and you'll end up where you belong in the end. If I can, anyone can. *hugs*