FTR, you should never take the word of someone you've rejected that you're being too picky. They're just bitter that they didn't make the cut. You're supposed to be picky when you pick someone I think it's difficult to discern exactly where the line is, but "we don't have anything in common and I'm actively creeped out by him" doesn't make you sound too picky. We'd be having a different discussion if your reasoning was more along the lines of, "I like him a lot, but he's Korean and I only want to date a Japanese guy." Or, "we had a great time, but I only want a blonde guy with a Bieber cut and this guy is a brunette with a crew cut."