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I've thought it was because it objectifies women. BlackAdder Send a noteboard - 08/10/2010 05:39:54 PM
So I saw an ad for a show called Sister Wives about a family in Utah, 1 man 1 legal wife, and 2 spiritual wives. Between the 4 of them they have 13 kids. 2 of the wives work, one chooses to stay home and cook and stuff, but everyone chips in. they make good money and support their whole brood. They aren't like the Duggars where the older kids have to raise the younger ones cuz there are plenty of responsible loving parents to go around. And the dad is currently interested in a single mother who wants to be a part of the family with her 3 kids. And the other wives are debating letter her be a part of their family. Now the attorney general of Utah is trying to prosecute them or threatening to anyways. I dont see what the problem is here. If a man is married legally to one woman and she has no problem with him being with other women and even having kids with her and they all move into one house together, how is it the government business what they do. They have a problem with him calling all of them his wives but if he said she is my mistress or "baby mama" would that be ok? its kind of like the whole gay marriage debate, it makes no sense.

And before you say, "well BlackAdder, a woman could have multiple husbands," let me just add that that is much less common due to culture and stereotypes of the female role vs. male role.

Anyway, that was my thinking for why it is considered so taboo (along with the moralist arguments). I'm not sure I agree or disagree with it.
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Polygamy, why is it illegal? - 07/10/2010 03:36:18 AM 1119 Views
THIS IS MINE! *NM* - 07/10/2010 04:10:39 AM 247 Views
Because moralistic idiots - 07/10/2010 05:30:34 AM 506 Views
When potential welfare issues are removed, it's all just a matter of tradition and false morality. - 07/10/2010 05:34:21 AM 537 Views
This explains Friday nights at Gilleys. - 07/10/2010 01:26:37 PM 574 Views
Think of the implications of China's one-child policy in that light - 07/10/2010 01:37:11 PM 502 Views
Joyful and triumphant. - 07/10/2010 01:38:57 PM 566 Views
There's actually a good reason for that. - 07/10/2010 01:37:25 PM 585 Views
*nods* Good point, just like levirate marriage. - 07/10/2010 01:41:11 PM 613 Views
have you ever been to Gilley's on a friday night? - 07/10/2010 05:12:11 PM 504 Views
No. Country music hasn't been produced since the mid-fifties. - 08/10/2010 11:17:27 AM 577 Views
really? I guess that is when they stopped making real rock and roll as well - 08/10/2010 02:33:15 PM 529 Views
Nah, that was the '70s. - 08/10/2010 02:43:09 PM 556 Views
I would assume due to practicality issues and such. - 07/10/2010 07:49:16 AM 606 Views
I have a feeling the ACTUAL reasons are closer to moralistic reasons... - 07/10/2010 12:30:33 PM 537 Views
Yeah, I agree. - 08/10/2010 02:49:16 AM 490 Views
This. - 07/10/2010 05:35:40 PM 525 Views
There's a name I've not seen in a while. - 08/10/2010 11:22:01 AM 573 Views
I think it depends how popular it would become. - 08/10/2010 07:04:03 PM 565 Views
The whole thing seems to get complicated in a hurry. - 08/10/2010 07:58:43 PM 570 Views
I don't think single wife mutiple husband can work - 07/10/2010 05:55:33 PM 506 Views
Oh, it can - 07/10/2010 06:51:59 PM 529 Views
yes but do both of the guys know? - 07/10/2010 07:07:17 PM 544 Views
Oh yes, always have - 08/10/2010 02:53:13 PM 563 Views
Didn't you see Paint Your Wagon? - 07/10/2010 07:21:54 PM 475 Views
Paint Your Wagon was about the California gold rush - 07/10/2010 08:24:24 PM 529 Views
Lol. - 07/10/2010 08:27:14 PM 553 Views
LOVE that movie - 08/10/2010 02:54:30 PM 571 Views
Smart - 08/10/2010 03:28:28 PM 505 Views
Maybe - 08/10/2010 04:41:27 PM 541 Views
I think it can, in certain situations - 07/10/2010 08:29:47 PM 608 Views
the brother thing does make a certain sort of sense - 07/10/2010 08:43:30 PM 550 Views
*shrugs* Mine's working just fine. *NM* - 08/10/2010 02:47:06 AM 212 Views
It does. - 08/10/2010 05:57:46 PM 511 Views
but in most of those cases - 08/10/2010 06:11:15 PM 547 Views
Tradition. - 07/10/2010 01:28:47 PM 446 Views
I don't think it should be illegal - 07/10/2010 02:02:05 PM 553 Views
that would be so sad - 08/10/2010 05:43:32 PM 561 Views
I only see a problem when it is run by a cult and girls are married off at 14 - 07/10/2010 05:18:13 PM 543 Views
You saw an ad. I've seen all the episodes. - 07/10/2010 05:54:33 PM 646 Views
Is it next door? - 08/10/2010 06:05:35 AM 539 Views
Maybe not. - 08/10/2010 06:01:37 PM 489 Views
For the same reasons Americans don't eat horse meat. - 08/10/2010 02:58:24 AM 530 Views
I'm an American and I eat horse meat. *NM* - 08/10/2010 05:19:51 AM 219 Views
Re: I'm an American - 08/10/2010 01:02:23 PM 523 Views
In what society is/was eating horse prevalent? - 08/10/2010 03:10:21 PM 447 Views
it's common in europe now. - 08/10/2010 03:51:07 PM 451 Views
Central Asian cultures. - 08/10/2010 04:43:07 PM 458 Views
Huh? - 08/10/2010 04:41:37 PM 388 Views
so you are saying you are a polygamist - 08/10/2010 05:09:37 PM 444 Views
Dunno. - 08/10/2010 06:06:26 AM 465 Views
At this rate, we'll soon be asking why kids can't have sex with adults. *NM* - 08/10/2010 02:23:16 PM 244 Views
What the heck does that have to do with polygamy? - 08/10/2010 02:57:37 PM 579 Views
and those are only the first steps!!! - 08/10/2010 03:52:14 PM 445 Views
Oh, we should start a bill - 08/10/2010 04:43:05 PM 520 Views
Re: What the heck does that have to do with polygamy? - 13/10/2010 04:22:24 PM 602 Views
Are you calling the age of consent laws illogical? - 13/10/2010 05:36:52 PM 510 Views
Re: Are you calling the age of consent laws illogical? - 13/10/2010 08:16:55 PM 575 Views
I've thought it was because it objectifies women. - 08/10/2010 05:39:54 PM 481 Views

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