I could just see myself and any co-worker having a conversation like that and neither of us would be hurt or insulted, we would be laughing. Maybe a little off-colored humor but I still wouldn't have taken it as insulting at all if he had said it to me. Do I have rhinocerous skin? Am I one of God's Innocents?
I think you're just very good at giving people the benefit of the doubt. And not letting bad days get to you.
*MySmiley*
Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog it's too dark to read. - Groucho Marx
Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog it's too dark to read. - Groucho Marx
Office Bully
- 16/11/2010 04:19:36 AM
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Rat poison. *NM*
- 16/11/2010 04:37:34 AM
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Oh yes.
- 16/11/2010 04:40:20 AM
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In all seriousness, we don't have enough information on exactly what she's saying/doing.
- 16/11/2010 11:21:22 PM
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How does she not answer to anyone? Is she the manager? *NM*
- 16/11/2010 05:37:52 AM
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Hrm. Whether there's recourse or not depends on whether you're supported by management
- 16/11/2010 04:14:20 PM
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There is no HR dept/ and she is the owner's wife.
- 16/11/2010 04:37:09 PM
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...have you tried talking with her about it, or are you just assuming it will go poorly? *NM*
- 16/11/2010 05:03:18 PM
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you could stop bullying people
- 16/11/2010 04:50:42 PM
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*NM*
- 16/11/2010 10:31:13 PM
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*NM*
- 16/11/2010 10:47:03 PM
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wow. I just don't know what to say to that. *NM*
- 16/11/2010 07:44:14 PM
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which part did you have a problem with? *NM*
- 16/11/2010 08:15:02 PM
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Well, that was utterly uncalled for.
- 16/11/2010 08:26:28 PM
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I didn't take that as rudenes. I am pretty sure he was just teasing. *NM*
- 16/11/2010 10:55:35 PM
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I thought that was possible on the original reply. The second removed my doubt.
- 16/11/2010 11:08:04 PM
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I took that as a good natured tease.
- 16/11/2010 11:14:52 PM
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Re: I took that as a good natured tease.
- 16/11/2010 11:16:57 PM
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*NM*
- 16/11/2010 10:31:13 PM
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*NM*
- 16/11/2010 10:47:03 PM
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Oh you know it! Your reply was nothing but poop flinging. *NM*
- 16/11/2010 10:51:07 PM
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Wow. I read what he said totally different from everyone else. I took the first part as teasing
- 16/11/2010 10:57:58 PM
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You could tell her you are ready to quit if things continue.
- 16/11/2010 11:05:00 PM
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What would happen if you told her that, Amy? *NM*
- 16/11/2010 11:08:28 PM
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She would likely open the door for me.
- 17/11/2010 12:35:23 AM
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The photography thing is just a hobby/extra income for now, then? *NM*
- 17/11/2010 12:38:17 AM
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You don't give enough information for us to be able to give you constructive advice *NM*
- 18/11/2010 11:30:16 AM
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*NM*