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Make sure that you are doing a superb job... Tashmere Send a noteboard - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM
so that when you do quit you will leave her in a world of hurt. But you are already doing that. So I guess nothing.

Practice being an actress. You could ham it up. Pretend that it doesn't bother you and that you actually appreciate her!! Pretend you are going for the acadamy award for fake happiness!

Also, if you pray, you might try praying for her. Even if it doesn't change her heart it might change yours and make the burden a little lighter.

Sorry you are going through this. Come to think of it, I am going through the same thing. Doh!!! Happily I have people at home and work I can vent to.

Love,
Teresa
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Office Bully Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:19:36 AM 1413 Views
Rat poison. *NM* Tom - 16/11/2010 04:37:34 AM 395 Views
Oh yes. Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:40:20 AM 831 Views
In all seriousness, we don't have enough information on exactly what she's saying/doing. Tom - 16/11/2010 11:21:22 PM 853 Views
How does she not answer to anyone? Is she the manager? *NM* Ghavrel - 16/11/2010 05:37:52 AM 357 Views
this is what I was thinking. LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 05:49:03 AM 822 Views
i worked with a guy once who was the owner's neighbor moondog - 16/11/2010 06:42:34 AM 897 Views
She is the owner's wife. *NM* Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:40:30 PM 358 Views
do you have an HR department? moondog - 16/11/2010 06:40:29 AM 905 Views
Punch her? *NM* Kronin al'Sulc - 16/11/2010 06:42:44 AM 418 Views
Do your job, talk to your manager or HR Kel - 16/11/2010 01:04:05 PM 912 Views
Re: Office Bully skippy - 16/11/2010 04:01:17 PM 889 Views
Hrm. Whether there's recourse or not depends on whether you're supported by management Sareitha Sedai - 16/11/2010 04:14:20 PM 844 Views
There is no HR dept/ and she is the owner's wife. Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:37:09 PM 918 Views
...have you tried talking with her about it, or are you just assuming it will go poorly? *NM* LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 05:03:18 PM 406 Views
I've spoken to her Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 07:45:26 PM 872 Views
ah yah. in that case, you can probably only quit or "deal" *NM* LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 07:48:31 PM 426 Views
you could stop bullying people random thoughts - 16/11/2010 04:50:42 PM 893 Views
*NM* Birdeye - 16/11/2010 06:13:25 PM 454 Views
wow. I just don't know what to say to that. *NM* Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 07:44:14 PM 423 Views
which part did you have a problem with? *NM* random thoughts - 16/11/2010 08:15:02 PM 401 Views
Well, that was utterly uncalled for. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 08:26:28 PM 894 Views
oh please random thoughts - 16/11/2010 10:37:40 PM 1014 Views
I don't read every thread on this board. I don't have to. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:04:56 PM 865 Views
I didn't take that as rudenes. I am pretty sure he was just teasing. *NM* Tashmere - 16/11/2010 10:55:35 PM 400 Views
I thought that was possible on the original reply. The second removed my doubt. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:08:04 PM 963 Views
I took that as a good natured tease. Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:14:52 PM 882 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:16:57 PM 841 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. Tashmere - 17/11/2010 12:39:45 AM 854 Views
As did I, actually. *NM* Ghavrel - 16/11/2010 11:25:13 PM 384 Views
Sign me up under this one, too. *NM* Mats Gambling Buddy - 17/11/2010 10:45:00 PM 437 Views
*NM* Beqi - 16/11/2010 10:31:13 PM 422 Views
*NM* random thoughts - 16/11/2010 10:47:03 PM 415 Views
Oh you know it! Your reply was nothing but poop flinging. *NM* Beqi - 16/11/2010 10:51:07 PM 412 Views
Wow. I read what he said totally different from everyone else. I took the first part as teasing Tashmere - 16/11/2010 10:57:58 PM 834 Views
You are much better at thinking the best of people! Beqi - 16/11/2010 11:02:24 PM 833 Views
Some people make it easy. Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:05:08 PM 768 Views
I thought he was teasing too. *NM* Avendesora - 17/11/2010 02:26:35 AM 366 Views
Re: Ditto. Gaps - 17/11/2010 02:30:20 AM 864 Views
Dittoditto nossy - 17/11/2010 03:24:39 AM 962 Views
Make sure that you are doing a superb job... Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM 872 Views
You could tell her you are ready to quit if things continue. Beqi - 16/11/2010 11:05:00 PM 811 Views
What would happen if you told her that, Amy? *NM* Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:08:28 PM 379 Views
She would likely open the door for me. Amyrlin - 17/11/2010 12:35:23 AM 849 Views
The photography thing is just a hobby/extra income for now, then? *NM* Legolas - 17/11/2010 12:38:17 AM 399 Views
It's not full time Amyrlin - 18/11/2010 06:08:22 PM 850 Views
Definitely time to go then. Tashmere - 17/11/2010 12:45:35 AM 975 Views
Re: Gaps - 17/11/2010 12:12:02 AM 960 Views
We had a bully. nossy - 17/11/2010 03:27:31 AM 907 Views
^this. moondog - 18/11/2010 08:37:22 AM 963 Views
Is the bully the boss? MightyYT - 17/11/2010 03:28:08 AM 1048 Views
You don't give enough information for us to be able to give you constructive advice *NM* Helene - 18/11/2010 11:30:16 AM 352 Views
How does one combat douchbaggery? Mats Gambling Buddy - 18/11/2010 05:16:20 PM 810 Views
Alas Amyrlin - 18/11/2010 06:06:38 PM 1144 Views
Cut the nozzle and stop pouring in the vinegar solution. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 18/11/2010 11:47:34 PM 389 Views
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