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As one of today's mental parents... aria Send a noteboard - 07/01/2011 12:01:36 AM
first off, all parents are mental...it just comes with the territory. But I actually agree with most of the article. I have to admit to a bit of hovering at the playground, but it's not out of a fear of my child falling down or anything. It's because I'm afraid if I don't have my kids in my sight whenever we leave the house, some maniac will run off with them. My kids are pretty little though...maybe that will get better as they get older, but probably not. I'll just have to learn to let go.

Also, as far as preventing kids from failing, I agree that is not good for them. They need to learn how to handle failure. But you don't want a kid to feel like a failure all the time either. (And this is from someone about to graduate with a teaching degree) Kids need to experience failure, but they also need to succeed. A good parent or teacher will help them find areas they can succeed in, and teach them how to handle it when they don't.
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I find this interesting on two levels: - 06/01/2011 11:33:31 PM 735 Views
As one of today's mental parents... - 07/01/2011 12:01:36 AM 856 Views
Agreed. - 07/01/2011 12:34:18 AM 801 Views
Re: Agreed. - 07/01/2011 03:04:53 PM 762 Views
Very interesting article, thanks for posting. - 07/01/2011 01:36:51 AM 800 Views
Not surprising. - 07/01/2011 01:52:57 PM 734 Views
Re: Not surprising. - 07/01/2011 02:21:55 PM 758 Views
Yeah, Macharius pretty well covered it. - 07/01/2011 06:34:13 PM 717 Views
meh - 07/01/2011 02:34:47 PM 714 Views
I disagree; even to the extent that's the real problem it's still down to indulgent parents. - 07/01/2011 04:52:26 PM 789 Views
exterem paretnal involment is being overstated - 08/01/2011 03:10:09 AM 713 Views
It's extreme indulgence, not involvement. - 08/01/2011 03:44:43 AM 740 Views
"Kids need to feel badly sometimes"? What should we do? Dip their fingers in acid? - 07/01/2011 03:00:17 PM 643 Views
This. - 07/01/2011 06:10:30 PM 596 Views
I would classify editing the N-word out of Huckleberry Finn to apply to this issue... - 07/01/2011 11:26:05 PM 673 Views
"Undiplomatic" is one thing, "inflammatory" quite another. - 07/01/2011 11:51:03 PM 599 Views
Re: "Undiplomatic" is one thing, "inflammatory" quite another. - 09/01/2011 12:20:47 AM 718 Views
If the stakes are small or there's no alternative I don't mind going with your gut. - 09/01/2011 01:20:42 AM 677 Views
Re: If the stakes are small or there's no alternative I don't mind going with your gut. - 09/01/2011 01:28:28 AM 618 Views
Sadly so. - 09/01/2011 01:32:23 AM 618 Views
Re: Sadly so. - 09/01/2011 01:41:39 AM 562 Views
Hadn't seen that, no. - 09/01/2011 11:21:20 PM 713 Views
Re: Hadn't seen that, no. - 10/01/2011 04:59:53 PM 749 Views
. *NM* - 09/01/2011 12:43:38 PM 341 Views
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well your reply shows us what we end up with if we have over indulgent parnets - 10/01/2011 04:08:38 PM 664 Views
It's a good article, but contains a bit of oversimplification. - 11/01/2011 09:36:35 PM 659 Views
Actually, I tend to agree, 'cos I somewhat agree with rt it diagnoses symptoms better than problems - 11/01/2011 11:53:48 PM 854 Views
Re: Actually, I tend to agree - 15/01/2011 08:04:58 PM 690 Views
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