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I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 Send a noteboard - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM
OK, so you don't need to be really good looking, but I think a reasonable photo is needed?


You're right.

But by GOOD I think we should mean: shows YOU in the best possible light.

You know you smiling, being around people you love- generally being an idealized version of who you really are.

A lot of times I see pictures of guys not smiling, trying to look cool but they just some off as... I dunno... cold, unfeeling, boring... there has to be something to connect with there in the photo.

I picked a random sample from my OKCupid homepage to show what I mean. All these profiles are public.

There is really only ONE "good" pic out of them and they are ALL reasonably good looking guys. But their horrible pictures make me feel negatively about them.
~g~

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Do you date? globug0822 - 13/01/2011 12:00:40 AM 1293 Views
I date my wife random thoughts - 13/01/2011 01:58:22 AM 925 Views
errr *NM* random thoughts - 13/01/2011 02:03:16 AM 384 Views
What's all this, then? *NM* globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:31 AM 420 Views
It could be a double post if I wasa noob random thoughts - 13/01/2011 01:06:42 PM 794 Views
Ha! POINT! *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:11 AM 417 Views
Smart arse. globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:53 AM 906 Views
My wife frowns on it. TaskmasterJack - 13/01/2011 03:00:46 AM 894 Views
Does she, now? globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:04 AM 849 Views
I fail miserably ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 13/01/2011 05:11:37 AM 839 Views
LOL globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:48 AM 782 Views
Re: Do you date? Timthetrolloc - 13/01/2011 05:14:25 AM 1009 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:49:56 AM 828 Views
Re: BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ Timthetrolloc - 17/01/2011 04:26:52 AM 839 Views
No. Never have. Camilla - 13/01/2011 09:16:18 AM 982 Views
Amen. Joel - 13/01/2011 03:21:21 PM 888 Views
+1 Clover - 13/01/2011 05:32:11 PM 880 Views
I've always thought so... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:55 AM 865 Views
How strange. Clover - 15/01/2011 07:40:59 PM 767 Views
Good for you, globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:07 AM 863 Views
Not recently, no ironclad - 13/01/2011 10:05:11 AM 1022 Views
Thank you for playing! globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:55:31 AM 823 Views
Once upon a time. nossy - 13/01/2011 01:22:22 PM 954 Views
*sigh* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:59:07 AM 835 Views
Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 13/01/2011 02:46:41 PM 913 Views
Re: Dating websites Nate - 13/01/2011 08:57:16 PM 857 Views
Thanks for sharing. That was interesting. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 14/01/2011 02:54:10 AM 402 Views
Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:15:27 AM 1049 Views
Re: Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... Nate - 14/01/2011 05:43:50 AM 795 Views
LOL globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:43:52 AM 838 Views
Re: Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 14/01/2011 07:11:01 AM 874 Views
I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM 1015 Views
Those were the days... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:00:48 AM 851 Views
a long time ago, in a galaxy far away or maybe the same one as this one.... temeraire - 13/01/2011 03:36:38 PM 931 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Brilliant. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:17:31 AM 824 Views
Nope. Never have. I think there's much less of a tradition of doing that here. Legolas - 13/01/2011 07:52:21 PM 848 Views
I don't think people *really* do it here... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:18:51 AM 739 Views
Do busy drinking to date *NM* mick - 14/01/2011 03:51:40 AM 390 Views
Maybe I should take that up... might help. *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:19:25 AM 383 Views
dating is interesting.... Mat Girl - 14/01/2011 07:16:23 AM 927 Views
By "interesting" I assume you mean "torturous?" globug0822 - 16/01/2011 04:42:11 AM 778 Views
it definitely can be torturous! Mat Girl - 20/01/2011 03:20:32 AM 904 Views
Not since I began attending a university that is only ~30% women. Dreaded Anomaly - 14/01/2011 08:41:55 AM 892 Views
Sure. Jessie - 19/01/2011 04:02:28 AM 820 Views
Exactly! ironclad - 19/01/2011 08:20:32 PM 833 Views
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