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I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 Send a noteboard - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM
OK, so you don't need to be really good looking, but I think a reasonable photo is needed?


You're right.

But by GOOD I think we should mean: shows YOU in the best possible light.

You know you smiling, being around people you love- generally being an idealized version of who you really are.

A lot of times I see pictures of guys not smiling, trying to look cool but they just some off as... I dunno... cold, unfeeling, boring... there has to be something to connect with there in the photo.

I picked a random sample from my OKCupid homepage to show what I mean. All these profiles are public.

There is really only ONE "good" pic out of them and they are ALL reasonably good looking guys. But their horrible pictures make me feel negatively about them.
~g~

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Do you date? globug0822 - 13/01/2011 12:00:40 AM 1331 Views
I date my wife random thoughts - 13/01/2011 01:58:22 AM 956 Views
errr *NM* random thoughts - 13/01/2011 02:03:16 AM 402 Views
What's all this, then? *NM* globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:31 AM 437 Views
It could be a double post if I wasa noob random thoughts - 13/01/2011 01:06:42 PM 826 Views
Ha! POINT! *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:11 AM 431 Views
Smart arse. globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:53 AM 929 Views
My wife frowns on it. TaskmasterJack - 13/01/2011 03:00:46 AM 926 Views
Does she, now? globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:04 AM 893 Views
I fail miserably ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 13/01/2011 05:11:37 AM 878 Views
LOL globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:48 AM 813 Views
Re: Do you date? Timthetrolloc - 13/01/2011 05:14:25 AM 1035 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:49:56 AM 860 Views
Re: BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ Timthetrolloc - 17/01/2011 04:26:52 AM 870 Views
No. Never have. Camilla - 13/01/2011 09:16:18 AM 1009 Views
Amen. Joel - 13/01/2011 03:21:21 PM 914 Views
+1 Clover - 13/01/2011 05:32:11 PM 912 Views
I've always thought so... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:55 AM 904 Views
How strange. Clover - 15/01/2011 07:40:59 PM 793 Views
Good for you, globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:07 AM 897 Views
Not recently, no ironclad - 13/01/2011 10:05:11 AM 1047 Views
Thank you for playing! globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:55:31 AM 854 Views
Once upon a time. nossy - 13/01/2011 01:22:22 PM 980 Views
*sigh* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:59:07 AM 881 Views
Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 13/01/2011 02:46:41 PM 939 Views
Re: Dating websites Nate - 13/01/2011 08:57:16 PM 881 Views
Thanks for sharing. That was interesting. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 14/01/2011 02:54:10 AM 419 Views
Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:15:27 AM 1078 Views
Re: Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... Nate - 14/01/2011 05:43:50 AM 818 Views
LOL globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:43:52 AM 871 Views
Re: Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 14/01/2011 07:11:01 AM 902 Views
I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM 1041 Views
Those were the days... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:00:48 AM 882 Views
a long time ago, in a galaxy far away or maybe the same one as this one.... temeraire - 13/01/2011 03:36:38 PM 954 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Brilliant. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:17:31 AM 854 Views
Nope. Never have. I think there's much less of a tradition of doing that here. Legolas - 13/01/2011 07:52:21 PM 870 Views
I don't think people *really* do it here... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:18:51 AM 778 Views
Do busy drinking to date *NM* mick - 14/01/2011 03:51:40 AM 412 Views
Maybe I should take that up... might help. *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:19:25 AM 395 Views
dating is interesting.... Mat Girl - 14/01/2011 07:16:23 AM 958 Views
By "interesting" I assume you mean "torturous?" globug0822 - 16/01/2011 04:42:11 AM 808 Views
it definitely can be torturous! Mat Girl - 20/01/2011 03:20:32 AM 945 Views
Not since I began attending a university that is only ~30% women. Dreaded Anomaly - 14/01/2011 08:41:55 AM 920 Views
Sure. Jessie - 19/01/2011 04:02:28 AM 848 Views
Exactly! ironclad - 19/01/2011 08:20:32 PM 865 Views
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