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I wouldn't exactly call myself an expert, but what the hell. Legolas Send a noteboard - 09/02/2011 07:50:09 PM
1. Is there one person out there meant for you (soulmate) or an endless combination of suitable choices?

The latter. Or, you know, it could be the former but the odds being what they are on a planet of six billion people, a vanishingly small percentage of people actually finds their soulmate and the rest make do with the "suitable choices". Amounts to the same thing, really.
2. If soulmates did exist, what do you think the odds would be of actually finding them?

See above. :P
3. How long after a breakup/divorce is it acceptable to start dating again?

Depends how long the relationship lasted and what it was like prior to the definitive breakup/divorce, I suppose. More importantly, it depends on the person. I don't think there's any "right" or "wrong" answer there.
4. If you come out of a long-term relationship wanting to date right away, what do you think that means in regards to your feelings for that person?

It doesn't necessarily mean much. Some people just need a rebound, or can't stand being alone.
5. How would you describe your romantic feelings; soft puddy or steel?

Erm. Neither? :P
6. In relation to the question above, describe your openness to your partner on a scale of 1-10. One being a closed book and 10 being open as a flower towards the sun.

Hm. I suppose a six or a seven? Hard to compare. :P
7. Do you agree or disagree with this statement: "If couples really knew what the other person was thinking, there would be no couples."

More like, then only innocents and cynics would be in couples, and not with each other. :P
8. On a scale of 1-10, rate the importance of sex in a relationship.

Depends on too many factors. (No, I'm indeed not a person for straightforward answers. :P )
9. Do you always remember the first person you loved?

Well, to speak for myself, obviously, but honestly I remember some later exes better, and not just because they were shorter ago. So I guess the factor of her having been the first isn't really that strong for me, no. Don't know about people in general.
10. When it comes to the end of a relationship; is it better to burn out or fade away?

I don't know which one is better, but I know I'm more inclined towards the fading away myself.
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