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Seriously? Vivien Send a noteboard - 16/06/2011 09:50:20 PM
The issue there had as much to do with the person as with the proposed activity, and ultimately part of it did get back to concerns about personal safety. A mentally unbalanced girl who may be a danger to herself and others asking to have sex in a cemetery at midnight is an issue for a lot of reasons. Ironically enough, she went on to be a fanatical Evangelical.


I give you a perfect example of sexual activity that you wouldn't do and it just doesn't count? Because you're calling the girl mentally unbalanced? Doesn't that only serve to prove my point? Maybe she became a fanatical evangelical because nobody was tolerant enough of her kinks! If physical safety was the only issue you could have made it work.
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I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. Tom - 12/06/2011 02:01:40 AM 1029 Views
Re: I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. everynametaken - 12/06/2011 08:49:39 PM 1315 Views
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You obviously never had a fulfilling long term sexual relationship with a woman. Helene - 13/06/2011 10:43:23 AM 1017 Views
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Bee? Camilla - 13/06/2011 06:24:35 PM 1018 Views
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That isnt fair, Helene *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 06:22:25 PM 511 Views
What isn't fair? Helene - 13/06/2011 08:07:08 PM 1246 Views
I'm not looking for someone to fix, but the not fair bit I was refering to was little irony dig *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:10:11 PM 526 Views
You don't need to be broken to enjoy being appreciated Helene - 13/06/2011 10:17:01 PM 986 Views
No, Helene, You repeatedly attempt to sidetrack discussion with attacks against my person Urza - 13/06/2011 10:20:01 PM 1130 Views
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I'm not a hedonist Urza - 13/06/2011 10:57:25 PM 1168 Views
If you really wanted to debate the actual issue, you would have. *NM* Helene - 13/06/2011 11:51:53 PM 411 Views
So indignant! Novo - 13/06/2011 11:53:41 PM 1167 Views
I don't believe that at all. everynametaken - 13/06/2011 04:48:26 AM 1144 Views
Ok, perhaps I can't talk from experience... as that group of men has self selected out of the game Helene - 13/06/2011 10:47:59 AM 1061 Views
Entirely agree *NM* ironclad - 13/06/2011 04:33:04 PM 558 Views
Showing appreciation is a losing strategy. Tom - 13/06/2011 04:55:09 AM 1104 Views
So you don't know how to open a woman up sexually Helene - 13/06/2011 10:51:17 AM 1102 Views
Oh how clever of you! Tom - 13/06/2011 09:59:01 PM 1190 Views
Not to gang up on you or anything, but... Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:15:57 PM 1124 Views
If you'ld actually read his post Tom gave reasons beyond lack of sexual adventuressness *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:17:11 PM 537 Views
Of which the "letting you do your own thing" was the only one I can take seriously. Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:30:10 PM 977 Views
So rather than adress your disagreement on the facts you just pretended he didn't say them? *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:34:02 PM 508 Views
Seriously? You're trying to debate now? Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:37:21 PM 1005 Views
Your disregard for rationality offends me. Urza - 13/06/2011 10:40:29 PM 1166 Views
I'm sure that there are Eastern European women who will fulfill the "traditionally female role"? Helene - 13/06/2011 10:43:43 PM 1080 Views
It's that the prudishness is indicative of a more general sense of entitlement and manipulativeness. Dan - 13/06/2011 11:02:20 PM 1194 Views
Yes. And "passive-aggressive behavior" is another one I'd add. *NM* Tom - 13/06/2011 11:18:40 PM 422 Views
So far in this debate, you've only displayed your feelings of entitlement Helene - 14/06/2011 12:05:16 AM 998 Views
I give to the relationship. I give a shitload of money. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:13:47 AM 1012 Views
Bringing in money does not a relationship make. The rest, however, sounds a lot better Helene - 14/06/2011 12:38:45 AM 1069 Views
So Let me understand what you are saying... StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:40:50 AM 1114 Views
I'm not sure, based on that response, you're capable of understanding anything at all. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:17:37 AM 1131 Views
I can see why you might have trouble finding an American woman who would agree with that random thoughts - 14/06/2011 02:00:49 PM 1121 Views
Guys have their own problems, but the conversation is revolving around women at the moment. *NM* *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 01:23:20 AM 524 Views
The conversation did start being about MEN's problems. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:36:36 AM 1066 Views
Be good, Ana. Urza - 14/06/2011 03:40:12 AM 847 Views
You may be mistaken. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:54:28 AM 1076 Views
Thats unfortuanate, Ana Urza - 14/06/2011 03:58:50 AM 971 Views
I am introspecting, yes. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:02:32 AM 968 Views
No, I wasnt attempting to do so Urza - 14/06/2011 04:09:29 AM 1128 Views
Re: You may be mistaken. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:21:16 AM 1134 Views
The only reason the conversation is revolving around women is because Tom laid all the blame at Helene - 14/06/2011 07:35:34 AM 1160 Views
Let's be clear: I was speaking about American women *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:10:10 PM 432 Views
Oh, that part is quite clear. *NM* nossy - 14/06/2011 08:25:08 PM 541 Views
Wow.. all the misogynists came out to play Helene - 13/06/2011 11:57:05 PM 1175 Views
I'm glad you're in here. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:04:03 AM 1133 Views
Seconded *NM* Camilla - 14/06/2011 04:46:38 PM 492 Views
I don't see a lot of misogyny. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:59:06 AM 929 Views
You are blind to misogyny because you lack awareness in that area Helene - 14/06/2011 07:38:48 AM 1007 Views
Okay, so I'm a date rapist and a misogynist...real classy Tom - 14/06/2011 02:11:40 PM 925 Views
I neither called you a date rapist nor a misogynist Helene - 14/06/2011 03:10:46 PM 969 Views
Why misogynist? Why not Anti-American? Dan - 14/06/2011 01:32:17 AM 1494 Views
So, which women are better than American women? Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:38:38 AM 1157 Views
Re: Haha Gaps - 14/06/2011 04:18:46 AM 1035 Views
You seem very intent on coming off as the smartest guy in the room. Dan - 14/06/2011 04:40:26 AM 1178 Views
I think that's an unfair characterization of the RP board Isaac - 14/06/2011 04:58:29 AM 1021 Views
Ha! I'm just fucking around. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:14:20 AM 1057 Views
Re: Ha! I'm just fucking around. Isaac - 14/06/2011 05:42:37 AM 884 Views
Who are you, again? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:07:04 AM 902 Views
Tsk. I need to be more memorable. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:16:33 AM 1198 Views
Well, try to be more openminded. Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:22:52 AM 1108 Views
Fair enough. I do quite like Gaps. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:31:05 AM 1102 Views
Why all this vitriol? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:18:16 AM 1061 Views
Book clubs? Bullshit! women shouldn't be reading at all!!! everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:28:41 AM 1081 Views
Re: Oh wow, nice. Gaps - 14/06/2011 12:25:53 PM 916 Views
Perhaps one day I'll get a Chinese husband. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:41:59 AM 1184 Views
Er, see my post withe country names in it. I hate this messageboard layout. *NM* *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 04:50:31 AM 523 Views
Spain, Norway, Japan? Dan - 14/06/2011 04:38:43 AM 1130 Views
Norway is the only one that passes. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:14:54 PM 979 Views
I really like the Netherlands Helene - 14/06/2011 01:29:08 PM 1057 Views
Re: I really like the Netherlands Camilla - 14/06/2011 04:51:11 PM 943 Views
Why did I pick that one? Because you completely ignore men's part in a culture that sexually Helene - 14/06/2011 07:54:39 AM 1133 Views
Helene, you're also not an American woman. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:03:23 PM 1142 Views
It's the people who make sweeping generalisations about American women who need to defend themselves Helene - 14/06/2011 01:18:43 PM 978 Views
You're not American either. *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:26:34 PM 388 Views
I didn't ignore it at all. I just bracketed it. It's quite possible, you know. Dan - 14/06/2011 08:49:03 PM 1130 Views
You have strange expectations and ideas of me. *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 08:52:09 PM 461 Views
Likewise. BFF? *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 09:08:53 PM 428 Views
I don't exactly expect to influence your opinion, just to voice my own. Helene - 13/06/2011 10:40:39 PM 990 Views
The last part summed it up nicely. That was all I thought you meant anyway. Tashmere - 14/06/2011 03:17:45 AM 997 Views
Nice! /me high Fives Helene!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:32:27 AM 401 Views
Oh, but I can do any and all of these things! Novo - 14/06/2011 12:06:41 AM 1115 Views
I said there were exceptions. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:50:27 AM 984 Views
True. Novo - 14/06/2011 09:03:46 PM 952 Views
hey! I really like your poem "name" - syllables knowing other lovers - excellent. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:49:06 AM 926 Views
Thanks! *NM* Novo - 15/06/2011 09:44:18 PM 527 Views
I agree. Aeryn - 13/06/2011 01:23:51 PM 1080 Views
Obviously inside the bedroom. Helene - 13/06/2011 05:17:31 PM 1182 Views
Inside the bedroom? Sure. I could agree. But you're not American anyway. Tom - 13/06/2011 08:52:42 PM 1046 Views
You're basically just saying that American attitudes toward sex results in repressed women Helene - 13/06/2011 09:03:47 PM 1131 Views
Theoretically they can be "unrepressed". But why waste the time and effort? Tom - 13/06/2011 10:06:52 PM 1170 Views
How can you tell it's because she cares, instead of because that's what's traditionally expected Helene - 13/06/2011 10:48:12 PM 1106 Views
That's a good point! *NM* Vivien - 15/06/2011 04:49:11 AM 509 Views
The answer is that it doesn't matter. Vivien - 16/06/2011 05:35:47 PM 1162 Views
I agree that the answer doesn't matter Helene - 16/06/2011 07:09:44 PM 853 Views
It's funny nossy - 13/06/2011 02:51:03 PM 1240 Views
Well of course you can't see the faults of American women. You're American. Tom - 13/06/2011 08:51:35 PM 1134 Views
I'm sure that American women, along with all other women on earth Helene - 13/06/2011 09:00:33 PM 1160 Views
It's not my job to make a girl comfortable about her sexuality. Tom - 13/06/2011 10:03:27 PM 1060 Views
THIS *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:09:14 PM 491 Views
If the sex is all there is, then yes, makes sense. Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:18:15 PM 1142 Views
Who willingly goes into a relationship knowing the sex will be bad? Tom - 14/06/2011 03:52:43 AM 1061 Views
You and your friends? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:46:53 AM 1027 Views
And you don't think that the men in these relationships contributed to the current situation at all? Helene - 14/06/2011 07:59:15 AM 854 Views
In this particular aspect, absolutely not. Tom - 14/06/2011 02:19:33 PM 1027 Views
Of course I consider that you might be right Helene - 14/06/2011 03:59:50 PM 1146 Views
I'm not ignoring any complexities Tom - 14/06/2011 05:00:04 PM 1107 Views
^ And this response immediately above is my last. This is eating into a real workday now. ^ Tom - 14/06/2011 05:53:43 PM 1034 Views
Loads of people, if that's compensated by other things? Legolas - 14/06/2011 08:38:45 PM 1204 Views
I would rather be in a good marriage with bad sex than the other way around *NM* random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:33:27 PM 594 Views
I suspect that you are in a good marriage with good sex. Tashmere - 16/06/2011 01:55:29 AM 1122 Views
Of course it is your job as a sex partner to make your partner feel comfortable about being with you Helene - 13/06/2011 10:50:52 PM 988 Views
THIS. *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 11:49:28 PM 468 Views
I was going to say the same. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:11:18 AM 1173 Views
Like fucking Hell it is. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:18:02 AM 933 Views
You're totally cracking me up in here. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:30:39 AM 1072 Views
You think you're offending me? Tom - 14/06/2011 01:10:56 AM 1079 Views
No. nossy - 14/06/2011 08:01:45 PM 1109 Views
Have you ever been accused of date rape? Helene - 14/06/2011 12:46:30 AM 887 Views
No. And that's an absurd question. Tom - 14/06/2011 01:08:13 AM 997 Views
No, the point you were arguing was absurd. I just pointed out what you were arguing. Helene - 14/06/2011 08:03:13 AM 1144 Views
Let's cut the sophistry Tom - 14/06/2011 02:24:52 PM 1129 Views
What's the definition of prude anyway? Vivien - 14/06/2011 03:58:03 PM 1006 Views
If that's what you wanted to say, it would have helped for you to be more explicit. Helene - 14/06/2011 04:10:43 PM 1073 Views
"Why do these women use sex as a manipulative tool?" Tom - 14/06/2011 05:06:33 PM 1115 Views
It seems to me there is a very simple answer to that question. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 05:26:09 PM 1027 Views
I don't think it works at all. Tom - 14/06/2011 05:48:48 PM 980 Views
Your anecdotal evidence suggests otherwise. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 06:31:28 PM 1248 Views
I don't think so. Tashmere - 15/06/2011 03:50:25 AM 1006 Views
I agree with every single thing you just said. *NM* Tom - 15/06/2011 05:03:05 AM 398 Views
Oddly enough, I do too Sareitha Sedai - 15/06/2011 02:00:39 PM 1096 Views
I agree with Sareitha. Women do that because it (apears to) works for them, in the short term Helene - 14/06/2011 08:28:11 PM 942 Views
I can't see that I would put up with that either random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:32:09 PM 1031 Views
Right nossy - 14/06/2011 10:59:10 PM 1022 Views
mode was a typeo but I guess it still works random thoughts - 14/06/2011 11:23:11 PM 1126 Views
I haven't tried it either. Seems to me like that is closely related to The Silent Treatment. Tashmere - 15/06/2011 03:43:45 AM 1148 Views
A fairly self-aware American. With many female friends, even nossy - 13/06/2011 11:59:34 PM 1115 Views
Yeah I don't buy that "most American girls are prudes" concept random thoughts - 14/06/2011 04:10:37 PM 751 Views
I think most of it depends on the "type" of girl a guy goes for. nossy - 14/06/2011 11:09:34 PM 1054 Views
some times there is a fine line between kinky and perverted sometimes there isn't random thoughts - 14/06/2011 11:32:17 PM 1154 Views
A moment Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:01:05 PM 1008 Views
Camilla, I'm trying to keep this at arm's length a bit. Tom - 14/06/2011 05:42:18 PM 982 Views
But you started it. nossy - 14/06/2011 08:43:47 PM 1082 Views
I did start it, yes. Tom - 16/06/2011 03:32:54 PM 1014 Views
You should have quit before this. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:46:01 PM 1095 Views
No, I shouldn't have. Tom - 16/06/2011 04:03:21 PM 1048 Views
The problem with your list is that it's performance-oriented. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 10:45:22 PM 986 Views
Of course it's performance-oriented. Tom - 16/06/2011 10:54:22 PM 936 Views
This really made me laugh Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 04:26:32 PM 1012 Views
Re: I did start it, yes. Camilla - 16/06/2011 03:46:06 PM 917 Views
Yes, we do! Tom - 16/06/2011 04:04:02 PM 1109 Views
Having now looked over the smileys Camilla - 16/06/2011 04:09:55 PM 1087 Views
See what I'm talking about? Tom - 16/06/2011 07:09:10 PM 1007 Views
That may have been the worst pun ever! *NM* Tashmere - 17/06/2011 12:47:50 AM 505 Views
I try *NM* Camilla - 17/06/2011 09:57:32 AM 505 Views
Take is up the ass or you are a prude? random thoughts - 16/06/2011 04:09:54 PM 1225 Views
Maybe Tom will make allowances for preferences instead of an unwillingness because it's "wrong"? *NM* Helene - 16/06/2011 04:22:45 PM 479 Views
You didn't read the list very well. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:08:19 PM 1050 Views
It appears I didn't read it very well. I apologize for that random thoughts - 16/06/2011 10:16:02 PM 994 Views
No problems. Tom - 16/06/2011 10:57:46 PM 938 Views
Re: The idea that If it hurts it's not being done right - Not neccessarily. Tashmere - 17/06/2011 01:13:18 AM 1053 Views
It just requires more preparation. Tom - 17/06/2011 04:49:52 AM 1406 Views
I have to say, I actually find this list reasonable. Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 04:35:40 PM 1020 Views
I agree nossy - 16/06/2011 05:10:07 PM 932 Views
Exactly! It's the "nexus of activity" sort of idea. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:18:33 PM 921 Views
If I weren't such a prude (3), I would post this list to facebook. nossy - 16/06/2011 05:08:05 PM 1103 Views
In other words, you aren't a prude on that scale. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:20:35 PM 947 Views
Eh nossy - 16/06/2011 08:17:31 PM 1120 Views
You mixed up prudishness and sexual compatibility with you Helene - 16/06/2011 05:21:31 PM 1129 Views
This. *NM* Camilla - 16/06/2011 06:18:41 PM 538 Views
No I didn't. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:14:27 PM 1026 Views
Calling my response a knee jerk reaction is just silly, and in itself, a knee jerk response. Helene - 16/06/2011 07:38:28 PM 1231 Views
Okay. I'm going to just stop replying. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:28:02 PM 825 Views
Your world view is just too self referential to be Helene - 16/06/2011 08:36:39 PM 1050 Views
As is yours. *NM* Tom - 16/06/2011 08:44:10 PM 385 Views
That makes no sense. You have the narrower view. *NM* Helene - 16/06/2011 09:07:37 PM 500 Views
So you say. *NM* Tom - 16/06/2011 09:09:21 PM 488 Views
Question ßelals Girl - 16/06/2011 07:42:37 PM 1028 Views
Ha Ha, who cares about the guy? It is only female sexuality that is on trial. Vivien - 16/06/2011 08:06:33 PM 957 Views
That is an incorrect assumption. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:30:08 PM 991 Views
Awww you didn't take my bait! Vivien - 16/06/2011 08:44:16 PM 911 Views
There's very little I haven't been willing to do Tom - 16/06/2011 08:52:31 PM 1027 Views
Hehehe, But *I* recall it! Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:22:40 PM 1055 Views
Wait, I think I know what you're talking about. Tom - 16/06/2011 09:27:20 PM 1019 Views
Damn, I was going to guess "in a coffin". Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 09:31:36 PM 1219 Views
She's significantly younger than O'Donnell, and was better looking. Tom - 16/06/2011 09:33:51 PM 1035 Views
Seriously? Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:50:20 PM 1047 Views
The girl was never a girlfriend or a sexual partner. Tom - 16/06/2011 11:06:38 PM 1058 Views
I'm reminded of an ex of mine Helene - 16/06/2011 08:32:34 PM 833 Views
That's really awful. Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:16:33 PM 1116 Views
When you're with a person who appreciates you, it's not like that at all Helene - 16/06/2011 09:29:32 PM 808 Views
Of course. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:29:11 PM 871 Views
Fair enough *NM* ßelals Girl - 17/06/2011 07:20:38 PM 502 Views
THIS!! LISTEN!! the woman is * lightbulb* speaking from a woman's perspective. StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:52:26 AM 1132 Views
Your way out of line Urza - 14/06/2011 02:55:46 AM 916 Views
Wondering why we're still single, are we? Try a minimum of politeness first. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:21:15 AM 876 Views
Where did I insinuate you can't please women? *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 08:05:14 AM 377 Views
I refer you to "So you don't know how to open a woman up sexually" *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:09:40 PM 426 Views
That's not about pleasing, that's about making someone feel confident and safe Helene - 14/06/2011 04:13:24 PM 1075 Views
What B/c i sank you YOUR level? Piss Off. AS if I give 2 shits what you think about me. StarrBecca - 16/06/2011 02:19:04 AM 1218 Views
Becca, can you pinpoint the moment you became a bitter worndown shell of a woman? *NM* Urza - 16/06/2011 03:21:21 AM 492 Views
I read this. Ectheledhel - 16/06/2011 03:40:51 AM 1118 Views
The name-calling is uncalled for, Rebecca ironclad - 16/06/2011 11:10:04 AM 1065 Views
Given the vehemence of your response, you do care. Tom - 16/06/2011 03:19:42 PM 1142 Views
I appreciate the support, nossy - 14/06/2011 10:37:20 PM 1071 Views
Your journal entry is revealing. You sound bitter and hurt. I hope you find the healing you need. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:40:23 AM 1089 Views
You know what? not called for. *NM* Aeryn - 15/06/2011 02:05:14 PM 362 Views
Why not? everynametaken - 15/06/2011 11:59:36 PM 991 Views
The first portion of what you said, isn't yours to say. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:43:57 PM 800 Views
I'm with Anastasia on this. Legolas - 16/06/2011 06:39:56 PM 1140 Views
Re: It's funny Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:50:13 AM 1106 Views
Re: It's funny nossy - 14/06/2011 10:28:32 PM 1174 Views
On a completely unrelated note ironclad - 14/06/2011 11:03:58 PM 1016 Views
Re: On a completely unrelated note TaskmasterJack - 14/06/2011 11:14:18 PM 1056 Views
Bummer *NM* ironclad - 14/06/2011 11:20:24 PM 488 Views
TMJ is right. Aeryn - 15/06/2011 02:11:57 PM 1086 Views
Re: TMJ is right. TaskmasterJack - 16/06/2011 12:22:10 AM 1150 Views
Yes. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:41:05 PM 954 Views
Re: Yes. TaskmasterJack - 17/06/2011 01:51:11 AM 901 Views
Gee thanks. Aeryn - 17/06/2011 05:04:37 AM 1342 Views
Didn't suit you. TaskmasterJack - 18/06/2011 12:58:53 AM 1109 Views
On a totally unrelated note... everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:43:23 AM 1040 Views
Excuse me while I go hit something. A journalism major perhaps. *NM* Urza - 12/06/2011 09:09:26 PM 492 Views
Stunning rebuttal!!! *NM* everynametaken - 12/06/2011 10:07:39 PM 367 Views
Theres nothing there I really need to refute.... Urza - 13/06/2011 01:20:43 AM 973 Views
Well, thanks for contributing nothing to the discussion. *NM* everynametaken - 13/06/2011 04:41:56 AM 378 Views
Is there a reason you feel the need to jump up my ass? *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 05:16:53 AM 533 Views
Your winning personality? Camilla - 13/06/2011 03:45:09 PM 1055 Views
I'd say 'endearing' is the proper term. Novo - 13/06/2011 10:43:01 PM 989 Views
Nice name new. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:44:25 AM 1011 Views
Wow. Interesting. *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 07:04:08 AM 459 Views
Giving up porn (a male perspective) Postsecret - 13/06/2011 04:29:52 PM 1115 Views
Thanks for sharing. ^_^ *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 09:05:51 PM 517 Views
of course looking at tons of porn all the time is going to affect men random thoughts - 13/06/2011 11:15:02 PM 1186 Views
You make a lot of sense, thanks for posting and adding your perspective. *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 12:11:03 AM 375 Views
Re: It's a sexy topic, but all these generalizations are becoming wet blankets. Gaps - 14/06/2011 02:13:31 AM 1101 Views
I think this and the replies by Post Secret and random thoughts all kind of get at my ideas here. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 02:30:52 PM 1119 Views
There is way too much crap in this thread, but I give this reply my seal of approval. *NM* Nate - 14/06/2011 05:02:04 PM 520 Views
I think you are spot on with the seal theory. Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:16:59 PM 1154 Views
Dirty motherfuckers! We need to lift all bans on whaling immediately to stem this momentum! *NM* everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:56:30 AM 504 Views
[something less snarky] nossy - 14/06/2011 10:17:18 PM 1180 Views
Re: What? Gaps - 15/06/2011 12:01:36 AM 1139 Views
Re: What? nossy - 15/06/2011 12:20:56 AM 1094 Views
Re: How come your 1st edit is not at all what was originally posted? Gaps - 15/06/2011 03:06:02 AM 1136 Views
About time to reevaluate Tom's claims, I think, eh? *NM* Dan - 15/06/2011 03:59:31 AM 499 Views
my turn: what? nossy - 15/06/2011 04:12:51 AM 1165 Views
Wow, well speaking as a prude... Isaac - 14/06/2011 03:36:23 AM 1129 Views
Funny how so many fault lines rupture in the comments to posts like this Larry - 14/06/2011 04:23:23 AM 1225 Views
To quote Cat Valente: Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:37:39 AM 938 Views
It is a two-way street, unfortunately Larry - 14/06/2011 04:40:58 AM 1059 Views
so the problem is southern women are just not good enough for you? random thoughts - 14/06/2011 01:51:30 PM 1045 Views
No, more like not similar enough Larry - 14/06/2011 04:13:52 PM 1066 Views
Some people aren't cut out to be in a relationship Helene - 14/06/2011 04:25:09 PM 1082 Views
True Larry - 14/06/2011 04:56:05 PM 911 Views
As someone who has never lived under the same roof more than five consecutive years random thoughts - 14/06/2011 06:06:10 PM 1157 Views
Job. Always a job matter. Larry - 14/06/2011 11:22:33 PM 1196 Views
Try south Texas, you may not notice you are not in South America random thoughts - 15/06/2011 02:44:21 AM 998 Views
Ha! I used to live in the metro Miami area, so I know what you mean Larry - 15/06/2011 03:20:41 AM 1054 Views
sweet jesus you are crazy random thoughts - 15/06/2011 04:38:28 AM 896 Views
Maybe, but it certainly drains me of being involved much elsewhere Larry - 15/06/2011 05:29:21 AM 1124 Views
Why all this vitriol? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:19:47 AM 1026 Views
It started there here: Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:06:32 PM 1095 Views
Tom made an untenable comment Helene - 14/06/2011 01:21:06 PM 1013 Views
Interestingly, the article talked about men being prudish in their real lives. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:27:00 PM 1088 Views
I figure this may be true, but I can't speak from a lot of experience. Helene - 14/06/2011 04:23:08 PM 954 Views
I was writing a lengthy reply to disagree, but then I ended up rather close to where you stand. Legolas - 14/06/2011 09:17:55 PM 1049 Views
I think men do worry if their wife is to focused on sex random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:26:56 PM 1137 Views
Re: I think men do worry if their wife is to focused on sex Macharius - 15/06/2011 02:26:30 PM 986 Views
Book clubs are scary places Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:03:03 PM 824 Views
Chocolate, wine, books. Also tea? Novo - 14/06/2011 09:00:06 PM 1133 Views
Maybe without the wine? Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:06:53 AM 1015 Views
I don't feel particularly vitriolic. nossy - 14/06/2011 10:18:44 PM 1025 Views
I didn't mean you... Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:24:56 AM 1027 Views
We haven't had one of these in a while! ßelals Girl - 14/06/2011 06:36:18 AM 1092 Views
Agreed. I laughed, I cried, it was touching. *NM* Ghavrel - 14/06/2011 08:49:40 AM 366 Views
Yes, it takes a good flame war to get the engines firing on all cylinders. Stephen - 14/06/2011 02:00:20 PM 944 Views
This post got more abused than a nasty Japanese bukkake! Lol. *NM* everynametaken - 15/06/2011 10:07:04 AM 558 Views
I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. Tigr - 14/06/2011 03:15:28 PM 1083 Views
Re: I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:27:51 PM 1163 Views
Oh yeah. Tigr - 14/06/2011 03:31:42 PM 1181 Views
nossy - 14/06/2011 08:48:55 PM 1114 Views
I think I've read pretty much all of it. I think it's better than porn. Well, bad porn. TaskmasterJack - 14/06/2011 11:01:20 PM 1087 Views
that was funny *NM* random thoughts - 15/06/2011 02:42:13 AM 375 Views
Bad porn is the worst! Tigr - 15/06/2011 02:13:59 PM 949 Views
You know what Tom, it occurs to me that this is very American thinking. Vivien - 15/06/2011 03:07:00 AM 1011 Views
Actually, my Russian guy friends tend to be more vehement than I am on this point. Tom - 15/06/2011 05:12:51 AM 1348 Views
Huh, could it be because most Russians are atheist? Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:36:47 AM 1124 Views
That could be a major part of it Tom - 16/06/2011 09:06:21 PM 979 Views
Well, there's no question that a prior consultation with me could strengthen any argument. *NM* Vivien - 16/06/2011 10:36:12 PM 449 Views
Ah, you've seen EuroTrip, too. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 17/06/2011 01:52:27 AM 486 Views
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