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two opinions LadyLorraine Send a noteboard - 28/09/2009 04:04:46 PM
based on your feelings.

Scenario 1: You really do want to try to stay with him and are just put off by his clingy ego-annoying pushery.
>>> Talk to him about it. See wtf caused this sudden weirdness. Talk is good (long distance relationships teach you this :P )

Scenario 2: You're physically attracted but want out regardless.

>>> End it. Period. End. Looking at the behavior of those around me in similar situations (for example I have NO idea why my roommate stays with her bf), if you are really that physically attracted to him, you'll end up going back again and again and again even though you don't emotionally/mentally want to. At least give yourself SOME "cold turkey" time away, then re-evaluate.



You know you best. If you want out, leave. If you want to work it, talk it out. And even though I find myself to be oh so wise, I'm mostly not and if what I say doesn't jive with your gut, ignore me. Your gut is your friend (okay maybe not physically, but metaphorically), trust it.


As far as "how do you make him like you less", i have no idea. I don't presume to have a freaking CLUE about the opposite gender when it comes to such things. I spent three or four years trying to shake a guy and he still sometimes tries to facebook friend me. I got Tayron through no effort of my own. I have absolutely positively ZERO advice for you. Except that whatever you try to do will probably have the opposite effect. No matter what. because that's how life works.
Still Empress of the Poofy Purple Pillow Pile Palace!!
Continued Love of my Aussie <3
This message last edited by LadyLorraine on 28/09/2009 at 04:08:11 PM
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