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There are no "marriage rights" NONE, zip, ziltch, nada... HyogaRott Send a noteboard - 22/10/2012 04:18:15 PM
Being married to someone does not grant either of them any additional "rights." There are a few privledges, some companies have corporate policies regarding marraige, but there are absolutely NO rights.

- There is no POA, unless you choose to write and grant one. This is one of the most common misconceptions. Frankly every couple (including married ones)should have conditional POAs (financial, insurance, & medical yes they are diferent and not interchangable) created and signed for each other; most do not.

- Hospital visitation is a function of individual hospital policy, except in regards to the holder of a medical POA, which marraige does NOT grant.

- Inheretance "right" does not exist. Inheretance is goverend by a set of laws created by each individual state, & is overriden by a will.

- Immigration is not a "right" it is a granted status by the Federal Govenment. The Feds do NOT have to grant citizenship to even heterosexual spouses, they just usually do.

You are completely wrong regarding "Civil Unions". They have not been inacted (and have been actively resisted by the gay rights folks) because of PR. The enacting legislation can easily contain language creating the parallal, or simply eliminate the existing "marriage" laws and replace them using a "civil union" nomenclature.

The only thing DOMA and all the state laws does is specificly define what the term "marriage" means in a legal sense. It excludes NOBODY. It only explicitly defines what a particular word means.

Married people have no more rights than anybody else. Why is this so hard for you to understand?

Being able to leave without teh headaches of divorce is a good thing in my moind. besides there have been Palimony suits have been recognized in this country for decades.
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2nd Circuit rules in favor of Edith Windsor. DOMA unconstitutional. - 18/10/2012 08:37:12 PM 1141 Views
An excellent ruling. Thanks for the post. *NM* - 18/10/2012 08:47:54 PM 340 Views
Oh, and they addressed the First Circuit's argument: - 18/10/2012 08:54:47 PM 917 Views
I always knew that DomA guy was bad news. - 18/10/2012 09:05:13 PM 661 Views
As it should be; the DoMA was always a brazen affront to the Equal Protection Clause - 19/10/2012 12:06:13 AM 911 Views
Not really - 19/10/2012 02:16:04 PM 816 Views
Not quite - 19/10/2012 02:56:56 PM 709 Views
Yes, really, for "any CONSTITUTIONALLY PROTECTED RIGHT." - 19/10/2012 03:12:11 PM 786 Views
joel, please stop - 19/10/2012 05:42:51 PM 766 Views
That's such a stupid, puerile argument. - 19/10/2012 03:47:26 PM 788 Views
Not the best analogy, though I agree with the sentiment. - 19/10/2012 04:10:11 PM 718 Views
Then by the "legal argument" you all propose I should have the "right" to marry a spoon... - 19/10/2012 05:48:32 PM 742 Views
if your spoon or dog is capable of making power of attorney decisions then by all means do so *NM* - 19/10/2012 06:41:43 PM 337 Views
How about I "marry" a corporation then. THAT is how stupid the entire arguement is. *NM* - 19/10/2012 07:25:13 PM 338 Views
Another good example of how corporations aren't the same as people. *NM* - 19/10/2012 10:07:32 PM 341 Views
Would you be the bride? Would you wear white? - 20/10/2012 07:58:52 PM 708 Views
You have obviously not read my posts very carefully - 22/10/2012 04:23:22 PM 670 Views
Ah, the "I have Gay Friends" argument. - 22/10/2012 09:33:41 PM 695 Views
It was only a matter of time. - 19/10/2012 02:49:21 PM 747 Views
I do not understand why fundamentalists demand government dictate religion. - 19/10/2012 03:22:54 PM 910 Views
Which is why the entire method of legal attack being mounted is dumb. - 19/10/2012 05:53:12 PM 819 Views
the only ones forcing their beliefs down everyone's throats are people like yourself - 19/10/2012 06:44:57 PM 794 Views
There is no right being denied... - 19/10/2012 07:22:24 PM 748 Views
that is bullshit and you know it. or, alternatively, you do not understand legality in any way - 19/10/2012 08:06:54 PM 843 Views
Re: that is bullshit and you know it. or, alternatively, you do not understand legality in any way - 19/10/2012 11:11:55 PM 881 Views
nobody is arguing the legal right to marry, they are arguing about the legal rights marriage gives - 19/10/2012 11:37:14 PM 747 Views
There are no "marriage rights" NONE, zip, ziltch, nada... - 22/10/2012 04:18:15 PM 741 Views
why bother settling custody in a divorce then if there are no "marriage rights"? - 22/10/2012 06:38:14 PM 662 Views
You obviously have no idea what a right is. - 22/10/2012 11:49:26 PM 990 Views
No? - 19/10/2012 11:34:36 PM 718 Views
Really - 22/10/2012 04:29:38 PM 730 Views
You are making one, huge factual mistake that is screwing up your entire argument: - 20/10/2012 11:00:28 PM 772 Views
Nope I am not - 22/10/2012 04:34:59 PM 702 Views
That is just it: Most US marriage laws are already areligious. - 23/10/2012 05:08:38 PM 730 Views
Yes, the laws are 100% secular... - 23/10/2012 07:01:08 PM 689 Views

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