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There are no "marriage rights" NONE, zip, ziltch, nada... HyogaRott Send a noteboard - 22/10/2012 04:18:15 PM
Being married to someone does not grant either of them any additional "rights." There are a few privledges, some companies have corporate policies regarding marraige, but there are absolutely NO rights.

- There is no POA, unless you choose to write and grant one. This is one of the most common misconceptions. Frankly every couple (including married ones)should have conditional POAs (financial, insurance, & medical yes they are diferent and not interchangable) created and signed for each other; most do not.

- Hospital visitation is a function of individual hospital policy, except in regards to the holder of a medical POA, which marraige does NOT grant.

- Inheretance "right" does not exist. Inheretance is goverend by a set of laws created by each individual state, & is overriden by a will.

- Immigration is not a "right" it is a granted status by the Federal Govenment. The Feds do NOT have to grant citizenship to even heterosexual spouses, they just usually do.

You are completely wrong regarding "Civil Unions". They have not been inacted (and have been actively resisted by the gay rights folks) because of PR. The enacting legislation can easily contain language creating the parallal, or simply eliminate the existing "marriage" laws and replace them using a "civil union" nomenclature.

The only thing DOMA and all the state laws does is specificly define what the term "marriage" means in a legal sense. It excludes NOBODY. It only explicitly defines what a particular word means.

Married people have no more rights than anybody else. Why is this so hard for you to understand?

Being able to leave without teh headaches of divorce is a good thing in my moind. besides there have been Palimony suits have been recognized in this country for decades.
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2nd Circuit rules in favor of Edith Windsor. DOMA unconstitutional. - 18/10/2012 08:37:12 PM 1115 Views
An excellent ruling. Thanks for the post. *NM* - 18/10/2012 08:47:54 PM 330 Views
Oh, and they addressed the First Circuit's argument: - 18/10/2012 08:54:47 PM 894 Views
I always knew that DomA guy was bad news. - 18/10/2012 09:05:13 PM 638 Views
As it should be; the DoMA was always a brazen affront to the Equal Protection Clause - 19/10/2012 12:06:13 AM 890 Views
Not really - 19/10/2012 02:16:04 PM 795 Views
Not quite - 19/10/2012 02:56:56 PM 687 Views
Yes, really, for "any CONSTITUTIONALLY PROTECTED RIGHT." - 19/10/2012 03:12:11 PM 764 Views
joel, please stop - 19/10/2012 05:42:51 PM 750 Views
That's such a stupid, puerile argument. - 19/10/2012 03:47:26 PM 766 Views
Not the best analogy, though I agree with the sentiment. - 19/10/2012 04:10:11 PM 698 Views
Then by the "legal argument" you all propose I should have the "right" to marry a spoon... - 19/10/2012 05:48:32 PM 717 Views
if your spoon or dog is capable of making power of attorney decisions then by all means do so *NM* - 19/10/2012 06:41:43 PM 325 Views
How about I "marry" a corporation then. THAT is how stupid the entire arguement is. *NM* - 19/10/2012 07:25:13 PM 325 Views
Another good example of how corporations aren't the same as people. *NM* - 19/10/2012 10:07:32 PM 330 Views
Would you be the bride? Would you wear white? - 20/10/2012 07:58:52 PM 682 Views
You have obviously not read my posts very carefully - 22/10/2012 04:23:22 PM 645 Views
Ah, the "I have Gay Friends" argument. - 22/10/2012 09:33:41 PM 671 Views
It was only a matter of time. - 19/10/2012 02:49:21 PM 725 Views
I do not understand why fundamentalists demand government dictate religion. - 19/10/2012 03:22:54 PM 892 Views
Which is why the entire method of legal attack being mounted is dumb. - 19/10/2012 05:53:12 PM 801 Views
the only ones forcing their beliefs down everyone's throats are people like yourself - 19/10/2012 06:44:57 PM 773 Views
There is no right being denied... - 19/10/2012 07:22:24 PM 730 Views
that is bullshit and you know it. or, alternatively, you do not understand legality in any way - 19/10/2012 08:06:54 PM 819 Views
Re: that is bullshit and you know it. or, alternatively, you do not understand legality in any way - 19/10/2012 11:11:55 PM 856 Views
nobody is arguing the legal right to marry, they are arguing about the legal rights marriage gives - 19/10/2012 11:37:14 PM 722 Views
There are no "marriage rights" NONE, zip, ziltch, nada... - 22/10/2012 04:18:15 PM 724 Views
why bother settling custody in a divorce then if there are no "marriage rights"? - 22/10/2012 06:38:14 PM 633 Views
You obviously have no idea what a right is. - 22/10/2012 11:49:26 PM 969 Views
No? - 19/10/2012 11:34:36 PM 697 Views
Really - 22/10/2012 04:29:38 PM 708 Views
You are making one, huge factual mistake that is screwing up your entire argument: - 20/10/2012 11:00:28 PM 753 Views
Nope I am not - 22/10/2012 04:34:59 PM 688 Views
That is just it: Most US marriage laws are already areligious. - 23/10/2012 05:08:38 PM 711 Views
Yes, the laws are 100% secular... - 23/10/2012 07:01:08 PM 669 Views

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