And I think what I said about the brain thing applies to her as well. It's not so much about what parents do or don't do; life has to get done, so the examples are there either way. But people like you observe and ingest such things, because you are practical and focused on self-sufficiency. People like Mary and me tend to have our heads way off in the clouds.

And oh no you don't, missy. No way. I will hold your cats hostage.