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Personally, I think we all need to let a lot of things go. Joel Send a noteboard - 02/09/2009 03:29:45 PM
... I wouldn't blame Ben if he never added chat to this site. After all, how many forums do you know of that have an integrated chat? There are plenty of other ways for people to get together in an organized chat-like environment outside of wotmania (EDIT - damn, I mean outside of RAFO) if that's what they want.

I know there's an argument that wotmania chat was easy to use and hide at work without installing a chat program (you slackers). But again, I wouldn't blame Ben at all if he just didn't want it here. It's a luxury, not a forum necessity, and after several (apparently) good years of chat at wotmania, that luxury was abused endlessly there and became a constant source of stress and headache for whoever happened to be dealing with it at the time, and remained like that for years.

You'll say, give it another chance, we're better now, it'll go good, you can just kill it if it gets like that again. But it's up to Ben whether or not that's even worth his time and effort at this point.

And I don't just mean chat. But regarding chat, if we're better now we'll show it. I recall SilverWarders long time sig "deeds, not words. " It wasn't all bad all the time, even at the end; the first time my fiancee logged into chat the first person to whom she spoke was me. By that time a pair of Announcements made me realize wotmania was more important than who was right or wrong, and I think I was and am better, but the damage was done, and I'll always wonder how much of wotmanias blood is on my hands....
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we need chat - 02/09/2009 03:26:39 AM 941 Views
Agreed. - 02/09/2009 03:27:43 AM 608 Views
Yeah! - 02/09/2009 03:41:30 AM 577 Views
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Re: I second that. *NM* - 02/09/2009 03:45:47 AM 247 Views
While I do agree.... - 02/09/2009 03:50:06 AM 609 Views
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Re: Heh. - 02/09/2009 04:10:49 AM 604 Views
Precisely. - 02/09/2009 04:20:02 AM 570 Views
Personally... - 02/09/2009 04:11:18 AM 614 Views
That's what he says.. - 02/09/2009 04:15:09 AM 604 Views
having said the above.. - 02/09/2009 04:15:55 AM 611 Views
After what happened at wotmania ... - 02/09/2009 04:15:05 AM 653 Views
Exactly *NM* - 02/09/2009 05:02:36 AM 230 Views
What "happened" on wotmania chat? - 02/09/2009 05:46:08 AM 620 Views
I only have most of it third-hand. - 02/09/2009 06:04:22 AM 597 Views
Wow, looks like I missed some good stuff! - 02/09/2009 10:47:50 PM 546 Views
Agreed *NM* - 02/09/2009 09:51:05 AM 215 Views
Personally, I think we all need to let a lot of things go. - 02/09/2009 03:29:45 PM 577 Views
I think there is an IRC chat somewhere - 02/09/2009 04:22:23 AM 605 Views
Not the same thing Amy - 02/09/2009 07:20:06 AM 596 Views
lol *NM* - 02/09/2009 04:10:18 PM 220 Views
I believe there's a thread posted here just as on wotmania. - 02/09/2009 02:50:21 PM 582 Views
No we don't. We really don't - 02/09/2009 07:38:25 AM 606 Views
The answer to this is two fold - 02/09/2009 11:41:58 AM 637 Views
This is pretty much everything I was going to say. - 02/09/2009 02:57:24 PM 575 Views
Snoop you disappoint me. - 02/09/2009 06:57:22 PM 548 Views
No. We don't. - 02/09/2009 01:26:40 PM 539 Views
Most Definately! *NM* - 02/09/2009 04:01:00 PM 232 Views
Possibly not. - 02/09/2009 08:40:48 PM 569 Views
Re: Possibly not. - 03/09/2009 01:41:22 AM 531 Views

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