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They are not beneath me because of me being a better person or even smarter... ironclad Send a noteboard - 26/01/2010 08:33:18 PM
You're very demeaning to people who have jobs you consider beneath you by the very fact that you think the job is beneath you. You say you appreciate them and are glad they do the job, but so what? If you consider yourself too good for a job that some people are glad to have, then you consider yourself better than them.


...although, of course I could say "had they worked harder at school they wouldn't ride on the dumpster today".
These jobs are not what I would work as (and I never even used the word "beneath" ), because I studied harder and have much more to offer than would be needed as a garbage man, to stick to that example.

I dunno, from some of the replies here it seems it is much more likely to happen in the US, where even an educated person like Belals Girl would consider just about any job, from the sound of it. When I didn't find one right away after University, did my counselor offer me waiting tables (to pick an example I would gladly do in dire times)? No, she looked what I am good at, what I had to offer and we were looking in that direction.
Of course it can be super hard to find something good and fulfilling. That doesn't mean I have to start handing out newspapers the next day, which leads back to Tom's second paragraph I agreed with.
I am not defending the guy refusing good jobs for over a year. I am just saying not EVERY job is for EVERYone just because it is offered to them.
*MySmiley*

You mustn't be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling.
This message last edited by ironclad on 26/01/2010 at 09:46:11 PM
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Work - 26/01/2010 12:41:16 PM 1402 Views
Seriously, fuck him. - 26/01/2010 12:47:05 PM 788 Views
You. Not so eloquent like the Irish princess. - 26/01/2010 02:13:28 PM 674 Views
I don't mind being out-classed by a Celtic Goddess. - 26/01/2010 02:46:14 PM 673 Views
- 27/01/2010 10:03:52 PM 707 Views
That's just silly. - 26/01/2010 01:05:07 PM 786 Views
Since Elaine has said it all so eloquently, I will just agree with her. - 26/01/2010 02:12:41 PM 637 Views
what she said - 26/01/2010 03:49:03 PM 715 Views
Sort of? - 26/01/2010 01:49:21 PM 711 Views
Usually, I think it's stupid to turn down a job, particularly in those circumstances. - 26/01/2010 02:21:59 PM 703 Views
I agree - 26/01/2010 02:47:22 PM 668 Views
...and instead you would ask your friend to loan you money? - 26/01/2010 02:53:38 PM 717 Views
No, friends and loaning money don't mix so well - 26/01/2010 03:03:12 PM 903 Views
So - 26/01/2010 03:12:45 PM 727 Views
I seriously don't mean this to be near as nasty as it sounds... - 26/01/2010 03:21:40 PM 765 Views
I think that works in the short term but not in the long term - 26/01/2010 03:47:52 PM 735 Views
your only worth what someone is willing to pay you no matter how much time you spent in school - 26/01/2010 04:08:29 PM 679 Views
That's true - 26/01/2010 04:28:00 PM 734 Views
so the janitor is a janitor becuase he likes cleaning up after other people? - 26/01/2010 05:25:57 PM 641 Views
With an atitude like that - 26/01/2010 06:24:35 PM 678 Views
As you presumably guessed already... - 26/01/2010 06:39:54 PM 704 Views
and that is why Europe is in decline - 26/01/2010 07:10:25 PM 614 Views
Probably. - 26/01/2010 07:34:06 PM 748 Views
Re: As you presumably guessed already... - 26/01/2010 07:31:46 PM 693 Views
I think it's offensive to those EMPLOYED in those jobs. - 26/01/2010 07:53:54 PM 748 Views
Yeah that's totally what I said *NM* - 26/01/2010 08:05:30 PM 337 Views
To a degree, it is. - 26/01/2010 08:21:04 PM 735 Views
They are not beneath me because of me being a better person or even smarter... - 26/01/2010 08:33:18 PM 782 Views
Re: They are not beneath me because I am a better person or even smarter... - 26/01/2010 08:47:27 PM 654 Views
Only if one's identity is entirely determined by the job one does. - 26/01/2010 09:07:57 PM 651 Views
If you wouldn't do their job - 26/01/2010 09:19:36 PM 602 Views
You seem to ignore the main point of my post entirely and just repeat what Joe said, tbh. *NM* - 26/01/2010 10:06:11 PM 335 Views
I think it smacks of elitism and class - 26/01/2010 10:13:11 PM 619 Views
Like we discussed above, yeah. - 26/01/2010 10:39:23 PM 754 Views
Not really - 27/01/2010 12:17:00 PM 778 Views
Well, yes - 26/01/2010 08:25:16 PM 597 Views
Kinda funny, eh? - 26/01/2010 08:07:44 PM 739 Views
Re: Kinda funny, eh? - 27/01/2010 12:41:02 PM 681 Views
Re: Kinda funny, eh? - 27/01/2010 12:57:48 PM 844 Views
doesn't mean you have to insult the rest of us. - 27/01/2010 01:17:16 PM 664 Views
Except - 27/01/2010 01:20:54 PM 735 Views
it's just something I get very tired of. - 27/01/2010 01:30:20 PM 663 Views
Re: Kinda funny, eh? - 27/01/2010 01:20:24 PM 650 Views
Which leads back to me saying I do not support the poster's friend's attitude *NM* - 27/01/2010 01:21:49 PM 381 Views
ok - 27/01/2010 01:46:31 PM 644 Views
Re: Kinda funny, eh? - 27/01/2010 07:15:25 PM 754 Views
For a professional, yes.. - 26/01/2010 06:43:51 PM 695 Views
tell him you could give him the money but want to wait to see if a better friend shows up needing it *NM* - 26/01/2010 02:38:08 PM 404 Views
. . .what? - 26/01/2010 05:47:58 PM 606 Views
it was meant to be a bit of joke and make a point - 26/01/2010 06:00:07 PM 645 Views
I got it. *NM* - 27/01/2010 12:03:18 PM 292 Views
glad someone does - 27/01/2010 01:59:50 PM 584 Views
Reminds me of my brother... - 26/01/2010 02:41:36 PM 625 Views
Absolutely not. Whatever it takes to take care of my family. *NM* - 26/01/2010 03:14:09 PM 304 Views
The asking for money is where I'd have to draw the line, I guess. - 26/01/2010 03:23:44 PM 642 Views
it would depend on my circumstances. - 26/01/2010 03:46:33 PM 560 Views
I think I would only not work at McDonalds. I'd even do Burger King or something, just not McDonalds *NM* - 26/01/2010 04:27:07 PM 368 Views
what do you see as the difference? *NM* - 26/01/2010 04:42:10 PM 281 Views
I just don't ever want to be known as a McDonalds employee. - 26/01/2010 06:08:53 PM 667 Views
I used to work at Burger King - 27/01/2010 03:16:42 AM 566 Views
I worked at Burger King for 5 hours once. *NM* - 27/01/2010 11:08:36 PM 269 Views
On a grander scale - 26/01/2010 04:44:00 PM 816 Views
what bullshit... - 26/01/2010 06:12:34 PM 608 Views
And that - 26/01/2010 06:26:32 PM 671 Views
Can I have his unwanted jobs instead? *NM* - 26/01/2010 06:26:03 PM 277 Views
Life should really work out that way *NM* - 26/01/2010 06:27:33 PM 336 Views
There are a lot of jobs that I would refuse - 26/01/2010 06:33:07 PM 619 Views
Nope, as long as it's legal...you do what you have to. *NM* - 26/01/2010 07:34:50 PM 362 Views
There are certainly things I would not do for money. *NM* - 26/01/2010 10:24:57 PM 329 Views
Thanks folks! - 27/01/2010 02:05:15 PM 673 Views

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