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They are not beneath me because of me being a better person or even smarter... ironclad Send a noteboard - 26/01/2010 08:33:18 PM
You're very demeaning to people who have jobs you consider beneath you by the very fact that you think the job is beneath you. You say you appreciate them and are glad they do the job, but so what? If you consider yourself too good for a job that some people are glad to have, then you consider yourself better than them.


...although, of course I could say "had they worked harder at school they wouldn't ride on the dumpster today".
These jobs are not what I would work as (and I never even used the word "beneath" ), because I studied harder and have much more to offer than would be needed as a garbage man, to stick to that example.

I dunno, from some of the replies here it seems it is much more likely to happen in the US, where even an educated person like Belals Girl would consider just about any job, from the sound of it. When I didn't find one right away after University, did my counselor offer me waiting tables (to pick an example I would gladly do in dire times)? No, she looked what I am good at, what I had to offer and we were looking in that direction.
Of course it can be super hard to find something good and fulfilling. That doesn't mean I have to start handing out newspapers the next day, which leads back to Tom's second paragraph I agreed with.
I am not defending the guy refusing good jobs for over a year. I am just saying not EVERY job is for EVERYone just because it is offered to them.
*MySmiley*

You mustn't be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling.
This message last edited by ironclad on 26/01/2010 at 09:46:11 PM
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Work - 26/01/2010 12:41:16 PM 1501 Views
Seriously, fuck him. - 26/01/2010 12:47:05 PM 878 Views
You. Not so eloquent like the Irish princess. - 26/01/2010 02:13:28 PM 772 Views
I don't mind being out-classed by a Celtic Goddess. - 26/01/2010 02:46:14 PM 765 Views
- 27/01/2010 10:03:52 PM 792 Views
That's just silly. - 26/01/2010 01:05:07 PM 880 Views
Since Elaine has said it all so eloquently, I will just agree with her. - 26/01/2010 02:12:41 PM 729 Views
what she said - 26/01/2010 03:49:03 PM 811 Views
Sort of? - 26/01/2010 01:49:21 PM 809 Views
Usually, I think it's stupid to turn down a job, particularly in those circumstances. - 26/01/2010 02:21:59 PM 796 Views
I agree - 26/01/2010 02:47:22 PM 756 Views
...and instead you would ask your friend to loan you money? - 26/01/2010 02:53:38 PM 810 Views
No, friends and loaning money don't mix so well - 26/01/2010 03:03:12 PM 1001 Views
So - 26/01/2010 03:12:45 PM 815 Views
I seriously don't mean this to be near as nasty as it sounds... - 26/01/2010 03:21:40 PM 872 Views
I think that works in the short term but not in the long term - 26/01/2010 03:47:52 PM 835 Views
your only worth what someone is willing to pay you no matter how much time you spent in school - 26/01/2010 04:08:29 PM 775 Views
That's true - 26/01/2010 04:28:00 PM 834 Views
so the janitor is a janitor becuase he likes cleaning up after other people? - 26/01/2010 05:25:57 PM 719 Views
With an atitude like that - 26/01/2010 06:24:35 PM 761 Views
As you presumably guessed already... - 26/01/2010 06:39:54 PM 796 Views
and that is why Europe is in decline - 26/01/2010 07:10:25 PM 704 Views
Probably. - 26/01/2010 07:34:06 PM 859 Views
Re: As you presumably guessed already... - 26/01/2010 07:31:46 PM 791 Views
I think it's offensive to those EMPLOYED in those jobs. - 26/01/2010 07:53:54 PM 847 Views
Yeah that's totally what I said *NM* - 26/01/2010 08:05:30 PM 378 Views
To a degree, it is. - 26/01/2010 08:21:04 PM 830 Views
They are not beneath me because of me being a better person or even smarter... - 26/01/2010 08:33:18 PM 869 Views
Re: They are not beneath me because I am a better person or even smarter... - 26/01/2010 08:47:27 PM 745 Views
Only if one's identity is entirely determined by the job one does. - 26/01/2010 09:07:57 PM 746 Views
If you wouldn't do their job - 26/01/2010 09:19:36 PM 694 Views
You seem to ignore the main point of my post entirely and just repeat what Joe said, tbh. *NM* - 26/01/2010 10:06:11 PM 376 Views
I think it smacks of elitism and class - 26/01/2010 10:13:11 PM 708 Views
Like we discussed above, yeah. - 26/01/2010 10:39:23 PM 870 Views
Not really - 27/01/2010 12:17:00 PM 878 Views
Well, yes - 26/01/2010 08:25:16 PM 688 Views
Kinda funny, eh? - 26/01/2010 08:07:44 PM 855 Views
Re: Kinda funny, eh? - 27/01/2010 12:41:02 PM 775 Views
Re: Kinda funny, eh? - 27/01/2010 12:57:48 PM 936 Views
doesn't mean you have to insult the rest of us. - 27/01/2010 01:17:16 PM 756 Views
Except - 27/01/2010 01:20:54 PM 825 Views
it's just something I get very tired of. - 27/01/2010 01:30:20 PM 772 Views
Re: Kinda funny, eh? - 27/01/2010 01:20:24 PM 768 Views
Which leads back to me saying I do not support the poster's friend's attitude *NM* - 27/01/2010 01:21:49 PM 423 Views
ok - 27/01/2010 01:46:31 PM 744 Views
Re: Kinda funny, eh? - 27/01/2010 07:15:25 PM 839 Views
For a professional, yes.. - 26/01/2010 06:43:51 PM 788 Views
tell him you could give him the money but want to wait to see if a better friend shows up needing it *NM* - 26/01/2010 02:38:08 PM 442 Views
. . .what? - 26/01/2010 05:47:58 PM 714 Views
it was meant to be a bit of joke and make a point - 26/01/2010 06:00:07 PM 746 Views
I got it. *NM* - 27/01/2010 12:03:18 PM 329 Views
glad someone does - 27/01/2010 01:59:50 PM 684 Views
Reminds me of my brother... - 26/01/2010 02:41:36 PM 715 Views
Absolutely not. Whatever it takes to take care of my family. *NM* - 26/01/2010 03:14:09 PM 343 Views
The asking for money is where I'd have to draw the line, I guess. - 26/01/2010 03:23:44 PM 726 Views
it would depend on my circumstances. - 26/01/2010 03:46:33 PM 655 Views
I think I would only not work at McDonalds. I'd even do Burger King or something, just not McDonalds *NM* - 26/01/2010 04:27:07 PM 412 Views
what do you see as the difference? *NM* - 26/01/2010 04:42:10 PM 317 Views
I just don't ever want to be known as a McDonalds employee. - 26/01/2010 06:08:53 PM 769 Views
I used to work at Burger King - 27/01/2010 03:16:42 AM 673 Views
I worked at Burger King for 5 hours once. *NM* - 27/01/2010 11:08:36 PM 330 Views
On a grander scale - 26/01/2010 04:44:00 PM 930 Views
what bullshit... - 26/01/2010 06:12:34 PM 691 Views
And that - 26/01/2010 06:26:32 PM 760 Views
Can I have his unwanted jobs instead? *NM* - 26/01/2010 06:26:03 PM 316 Views
Life should really work out that way *NM* - 26/01/2010 06:27:33 PM 374 Views
There are a lot of jobs that I would refuse - 26/01/2010 06:33:07 PM 726 Views
Nope, as long as it's legal...you do what you have to. *NM* - 26/01/2010 07:34:50 PM 406 Views
There are certainly things I would not do for money. *NM* - 26/01/2010 10:24:57 PM 364 Views
Thanks folks! - 27/01/2010 02:05:15 PM 768 Views

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