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I'm sure you're up to it. Joel Send a noteboard - 11/02/2010 12:10:36 PM
I'm more of the persuasion that it's pretty impressive if we continue to like spending time together in the future...

I fully admit to being a cynic when it comes to relationships. But that just makes it more impressive that I fully believe that we'll spend the rest of our lives together.

Which is huge. I'm reminded yet again of my deeply insightful observation that 95% of relationships is finding someone to put up with your crap, but by the same token, when you realize just HOW MUCH insane crap is out there and you're still willing to try, that's a major accomplishment. When you try, and it works, and it lasts, well, worst case scenario it'll be a hell of a ride, and you may just end up with a miracle all your own forever that no one can take, so why not grab it with both hands? I'm the Relationship Expert now, you see. :P

But really, it's a heck of a challenge for a skeptic to believe knowing all they do, and I'm continually glad you've done so well, so I wish you both the best of futures.
Btw, the cut off part, I removed it. There wasn't anything new supposed to go there, anyway.

The cake is what's really important.

I heard a rumor the cake is a lie.</wary> ;)
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ehehehe, she is so going to kill you. *NM* Lupine - 11/02/2010 03:51:27 PM 345 Views
Her silence has me even more worried now... *NM* ironclad - 12/02/2010 08:37:23 AM 354 Views
Entirely out of the loop... *NM* Helene - 12/02/2010 07:06:21 AM 363 Views
I didn't expect the Spannish Inquestion snoopcester - 12/02/2010 09:36:38 AM 679 Views
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Definitely true Helene - 11/02/2010 11:59:13 AM 651 Views
Congrats to both of you. Joel - 11/02/2010 11:52:53 AM 930 Views
That's a tall order Helene - 11/02/2010 12:01:30 PM 671 Views
I'm sure you're up to it. Joel - 11/02/2010 12:10:36 PM 728 Views
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Oo! Great Lord of Chaos - 11/02/2010 12:10:06 PM 779 Views
Pictures of what? The cake? The rings? Us? Helene - 11/02/2010 12:41:12 PM 679 Views
Congratulations. Have a wonderful day. *NM* Artsapat - 11/02/2010 12:15:06 PM 432 Views
That'll be rather a while - years. *NM* Helene - 11/02/2010 12:42:00 PM 347 Views
Very cool. Congrats. *NM* nossy - 11/02/2010 12:34:31 PM 397 Views
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The planning's the fun bit. Rebekah - 11/02/2010 01:04:54 PM 698 Views
I suppose it's fun when we've saved up to actually plan something fun! Helene - 11/02/2010 01:08:05 PM 633 Views
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Not yet Helene - 11/02/2010 01:15:23 PM 722 Views
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Figures... it's not normal in the Netherlands, though Helene - 11/02/2010 03:37:17 PM 669 Views
Diamonds are gross. globug0822 - 12/02/2010 03:59:10 PM 655 Views
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*gasp* Chick ain't supposed to ask the dude! LiterateDog - 11/02/2010 06:39:16 PM 730 Views
In gay marriages, does the top always ask the bottom? *NM* TaskmasterJack - 11/02/2010 07:27:11 PM 390 Views
I'm not sure, actually. More often than not, probably. LiterateDog - 11/02/2010 07:28:58 PM 665 Views
He better ask for my blessing first!!! *NM* The Shrike - 11/02/2010 08:06:05 PM 370 Views
We'll see. *NM* LiterateDog - 11/02/2010 08:09:07 PM 340 Views
Im definitely more top in my relationship and I mention all the important stuff first The Shrike - 11/02/2010 08:05:15 PM 640 Views
Top? Pfffft. Y'all are total lesbians. *NM* LiterateDog - 11/02/2010 08:10:01 PM 348 Views
Who would have thought conventional roles was you thing. Mats Gambling Buddy - 11/02/2010 08:03:57 PM 566 Views
I'm totally on board with role....playing. LiterateDog - 11/02/2010 08:07:54 PM 656 Views
Why not? Helene - 12/02/2010 07:08:03 AM 659 Views
It's....it's....it's just not done! *scandalized horror-stricken look* LiterateDog - 12/02/2010 09:48:17 PM 674 Views
I did it anyway! Muahahahaha. Also, I picked him up. Helene - 13/02/2010 07:02:42 AM 627 Views
Good work! *NM* Mats Gambling Buddy - 11/02/2010 08:02:57 PM 285 Views
Congratulations!! *NM* The Shrike - 11/02/2010 08:06:39 PM 337 Views
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Owwww.. no it's not. SF all the way baby! Helene - 12/02/2010 07:11:19 AM 651 Views
Congratulations, Helene ! melambra - 12/02/2010 01:03:48 AM 841 Views
We're at least already well on our way, so far *NM* Helene - 12/02/2010 07:13:05 AM 351 Views
Did you say,"... doesn't have the huge diamond tradition"? Sounds like I need a Dutch girl! everynametaken - 12/02/2010 02:49:49 AM 681 Views
Dutch girls are a lot of fun, too *NM* Helene - 12/02/2010 07:12:27 AM 348 Views
And they'll pay for their own dinner when you take them out, too! Legolas - 12/02/2010 12:06:15 PM 677 Views
Not all of us are that tall Helene - 12/02/2010 12:28:51 PM 641 Views
How wonderful! Congratulations! Tim - 12/02/2010 03:11:02 PM 659 Views
Thank you so much and of course Helene - 12/02/2010 06:31:42 PM 740 Views
Are you both in Amsterdam now, or will we have to add Leiden to our itinerary? *NM* Tim - 12/02/2010 08:44:01 PM 339 Views
Why isn't Leiden on your itinerary already? Legolas - 12/02/2010 09:39:02 PM 631 Views
Where do you live? Tim - 12/02/2010 09:59:45 PM 673 Views
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Well, ain't that handy. Tim - 12/02/2010 11:41:32 PM 608 Views
Even better. Cheaper beers than in Brussels, that's for sure. *NM* Legolas - 13/02/2010 02:39:03 PM 346 Views
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