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I'm sure you're up to it. Joel Send a noteboard - 11/02/2010 12:10:36 PM
I'm more of the persuasion that it's pretty impressive if we continue to like spending time together in the future...

I fully admit to being a cynic when it comes to relationships. But that just makes it more impressive that I fully believe that we'll spend the rest of our lives together.

Which is huge. I'm reminded yet again of my deeply insightful observation that 95% of relationships is finding someone to put up with your crap, but by the same token, when you realize just HOW MUCH insane crap is out there and you're still willing to try, that's a major accomplishment. When you try, and it works, and it lasts, well, worst case scenario it'll be a hell of a ride, and you may just end up with a miracle all your own forever that no one can take, so why not grab it with both hands? I'm the Relationship Expert now, you see. :P

But really, it's a heck of a challenge for a skeptic to believe knowing all they do, and I'm continually glad you've done so well, so I wish you both the best of futures.
Btw, the cut off part, I removed it. There wasn't anything new supposed to go there, anyway.

The cake is what's really important.

I heard a rumor the cake is a lie.</wary> ;)
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Her silence has me even more worried now... *NM* ironclad - 12/02/2010 08:37:23 AM 345 Views
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Pictures of what? The cake? The rings? Us? Helene - 11/02/2010 12:41:12 PM 654 Views
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The planning's the fun bit. Rebekah - 11/02/2010 01:04:54 PM 680 Views
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Diamonds are gross. globug0822 - 12/02/2010 03:59:10 PM 633 Views
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He better ask for my blessing first!!! *NM* The Shrike - 11/02/2010 08:06:05 PM 361 Views
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Im definitely more top in my relationship and I mention all the important stuff first The Shrike - 11/02/2010 08:05:15 PM 616 Views
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Who would have thought conventional roles was you thing. Mats Gambling Buddy - 11/02/2010 08:03:57 PM 542 Views
I'm totally on board with role....playing. LiterateDog - 11/02/2010 08:07:54 PM 632 Views
Why not? Helene - 12/02/2010 07:08:03 AM 634 Views
It's....it's....it's just not done! *scandalized horror-stricken look* LiterateDog - 12/02/2010 09:48:17 PM 650 Views
I did it anyway! Muahahahaha. Also, I picked him up. Helene - 13/02/2010 07:02:42 AM 602 Views
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We're at least already well on our way, so far *NM* Helene - 12/02/2010 07:13:05 AM 343 Views
Did you say,"... doesn't have the huge diamond tradition"? Sounds like I need a Dutch girl! everynametaken - 12/02/2010 02:49:49 AM 654 Views
Dutch girls are a lot of fun, too *NM* Helene - 12/02/2010 07:12:27 AM 342 Views
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