Which is huge. I'm reminded yet again of my deeply insightful observation that 95% of relationships is finding someone to put up with your crap, but by the same token, when you realize just HOW MUCH insane crap is out there and you're still willing to try, that's a major accomplishment. When you try, and it works, and it lasts, well, worst case scenario it'll be a hell of a ride, and you may just end up with a miracle all your own forever that no one can take, so why not grab it with both hands? I'm the Relationship Expert now, you see.

The funny thing is, with Vincent it doesn't feel like nearly 5 years, and it doesn't feel like I'm done getting to know him nor that I'm done learning from him. It's been one of the easiest and smooth sailing relationships I've ever been in.
I heard a rumor the cake is a lie.</wary> 

LOL... brilliant!
Announcement: Vincent and I are engaged
- 11/02/2010 10:38:57 AM
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Congratulations!!
- 11/02/2010 10:52:32 AM
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Thank you!
- 11/02/2010 11:02:50 AM
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- 11/02/2010 10:52:32 AM
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Thank you!
- 11/02/2010 11:02:50 AM
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Re:
Thank you!
- 11/02/2010 01:07:37 PM
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Thank you!
- 11/02/2010 01:07:37 PM
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Elaborate!
- 11/02/2010 01:14:54 PM
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- 11/02/2010 03:46:05 PM
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- 11/02/2010 03:46:05 PM
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Congrats to both of you.
- 11/02/2010 11:52:53 AM
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- 11/02/2010 11:52:53 AM
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That's a tall order
- 11/02/2010 12:01:30 PM
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I'm sure you're up to it.
- 11/02/2010 12:10:36 PM
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Thanks for your faith in me
- 11/02/2010 12:38:56 PM
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- 11/02/2010 12:38:56 PM
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Congratulations! That's lovely.
- 11/02/2010 01:03:05 PM
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- 11/02/2010 01:03:05 PM
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Ack!
- 11/02/2010 01:04:00 PM
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The planning's the fun bit.
- 11/02/2010 01:04:54 PM
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- 11/02/2010 01:04:54 PM
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I suppose it's fun when we've saved up to actually plan something fun!
- 11/02/2010 01:08:05 PM
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Congrats!
- 11/02/2010 01:42:52 PM
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- 11/02/2010 01:42:52 PM
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Thanks, and I'm a little confused
- 11/02/2010 01:44:57 PM
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Yes
- 11/02/2010 02:57:40 PM
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*gasp* Chick ain't supposed to ask the dude!
- 11/02/2010 06:39:16 PM
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- 11/02/2010 06:39:16 PM
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In gay marriages, does the top always ask the bottom?
*NM*
- 11/02/2010 07:27:11 PM
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*NM*
- 11/02/2010 07:27:11 PM
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I'm not sure, actually. More often than not, probably.
- 11/02/2010 07:28:58 PM
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- 11/02/2010 07:28:58 PM
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Im definitely more top in my relationship and I mention all the important stuff first
- 11/02/2010 08:05:15 PM
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Why not?
- 12/02/2010 07:08:03 AM
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It's....it's....it's just not done! *scandalized horror-stricken look*
- 12/02/2010 09:48:17 PM
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Did you say,"... doesn't have the huge diamond tradition"? Sounds like I need a Dutch girl!
- 12/02/2010 02:49:49 AM
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And they'll pay for their own dinner when you take them out, too!
- 12/02/2010 12:06:15 PM
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- 12/02/2010 12:06:15 PM
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How wonderful! Congratulations!
- 12/02/2010 03:11:02 PM
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- 12/02/2010 03:11:02 PM
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Thank you so much and of course
- 12/02/2010 06:31:42 PM
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Are you both in Amsterdam now, or will we have to add Leiden to our itinerary? *NM*
- 12/02/2010 08:44:01 PM
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Why isn't Leiden on your itinerary already?
- 12/02/2010 09:39:02 PM
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- 12/02/2010 09:39:02 PM
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Where do you live?
- 12/02/2010 09:59:45 PM
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Ooh, excellent.
- 12/02/2010 10:57:41 PM
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Well, ain't that handy.
- 12/02/2010 11:41:32 PM
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Even better. Cheaper beers than in Brussels, that's for sure.
*NM*
- 13/02/2010 02:39:03 PM
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*NM*
- 13/02/2010 02:39:03 PM
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We live together in the lovely non-touristy central part of Amsterdam
- 13/02/2010 07:04:33 AM
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no it's not. SF all the way baby!